How do I talk to hot guys?

[rockingothchic]

Well I'm in high school and there's a guy that's 2 years older than me but soooo hot and I so wanna walk up to and ask him out but I'm too shy. What should I do?

[naked_eye]

in my perspective as a guy you shouldnt ask him to go out informal because you will sound easy and cheap(please excuse me for saying that)

try to act normal when you are speaking to him and be careful not to show your feelings when he is near otherwise he will take advantage on you.

try to be freindly first just a simply hi,hello,how are you?,good bye is alright for a few weeks maximum of one conversation 1 a day don't exceed to that. after that few weeks your friendship will grow. remember not to show you're feelings for him and minimise you're friends that you tell about it.

so here comes the good part... do you see him often in hallways,corridors? if you do here is the plan one day you are walking in the hallway then you accidentally bump to him then your mobile phone,necklace,anything that you can use(use your imagination).. so to make it short your phone brakes because he bump into you so you will try to act upset and cry a little bit you tell her that it was expensive and you're dad or mom gave it to u.(u should buy a cheap kind of mobile phone and make it sure that it is broken before you do this)

so as a gentlememn he will tell you that he will replace it... blah... blah...

(in this part you will know what kind of person he truly is)

then run away!

its better to do this in the morning so you will have enough time in the afternoon..

so now he will think that he needs to do something to make it up to you.

so in the afternoon.. you will speak to him in private and tell him that you were sorry for your behavior.explain to him that was phone was given to you buy your dad or mom and blah blah... remember to be persistent of wht you are saying.

so now you apologized and he say sorry now you will tell him that you should buy him a lunch or cup of cofee to make it up to him.because you were sorry about your behavior.

hopefully he will say yes...

if the plan will turn upside down... example he will tell you that he can't come with you blah blah.. you have no choice but to tell him what you feel! remember that don't assume anything,dont count the chicken before they hatch...

sorry about the grammar and spelling. I hope that it will turn up well.

remember that this if he reject you that's not the end there will be next time,hes not for you and he doesn't deserves u!

good luck =)

[That-Guy]

Girls pay attention! Ask him for HELP.

Guys are fixers // problem solvers (heard this before?). Ask him for simple help and smile excessively. I remembered when I was leaving class and a girl approached me, cute bubbly asian/white girl, and asked for help where to find a certain building (universities are huge). I didn't know the answer but I walked her to a map of the campus and helped her locate her destination but along the way, we chatted and eventually planned to hang out sometime.

Viola! good luck

[jgrant24]

Find something you have in common. What clubs or groups does he belong to? You can join one of the clubs and this would give you a reason to approach him (Ask when the meeting is or where or what you need to bring) anything to get the conversation going. This way he will know you and then in the club you will be able to talk to him. Good luck.

[singlegirl06]

The only thing you can do is talk to him. you don't have to ask him out right off the bat...just go up to him and say hi I've noticed you...or something cheesy like that...ha!...he'll probably think its cute.

[loveAnsweringOldQS]

in my perspective as a guy you shouldn't ask him to go out informal because you will sound easy and cheap (please excuse me for saying that)

try to act normal when you are speaking to him and be careful not to show your feelings when he is near otherwise he will take advantage on you.

try to be freindly first just a simply hi, hello, how are you?, good bye is alright for a few weeks maximum of one conversation 1 a day don't exceed to that. after that few weeks your friendship will grow. remember not to show you're feelings for him and minimise you're friends that you tell about it.

so here comes the good part... do you see him often in hallways, corridors? if you do here is the plan one day you are walking in the hallway then you accidentally bump to him then your mobile phone, necklace, anything that you can use (use your imagination).. so to make it short your phone brakes because he bump into you so you will try to act upset and cry a little bit you tell her that it was expensive and you're dad or mom gave it to u.(u should buy a cheap kind of mobile phone and make it sure that it is broken before you do this)

so as a gentlememn he will tell you that he will replace it... blah... blah...

(in this part you will know what kind of person he truly is)

then run away!

its better to do this in the morning so you will have enough time in the afternoon..

so now he will think that he needs to do something to make it up to you.

so in the afternoon.. you will speak to him in private and tell him that you were sorry for your behavior. explain to him that was phone was given to you buy your dad or mom and blah blah... remember to be persistent of wht you are saying.

so now you apologized and he say sorry now you will tell him that you should buy him a lunch or cup of cofee to make it up to him. because you were sorry about your behavior.

hopefully he will say yes...

if the plan will turn upside down... example he will tell you that he can't come with you blah blah.. you have no choice but to tell him what you feel! remember that don't assume anything, dont count the chicken before they hatch...

sorry about the grammar and spelling. I hope that it will turn up well.

remember that this if he reject you that's not the end there will be next time, he's not for you and he doesn't deserves u!

good luck =)

[alpinestars-2002795]

GO FOR IT! IF people bother you I have a hint. Hit him up somewhere outside of class...in a hall, after the bell rings... Don't ask him in front of his friends! That's a big no go! Because at that point you lower your chances with him. Because in front of his friends he has to be mr tough guy, and all about ms perfect. Not saying your not perfect by any means. Just trying to increase your odds! Now, I'd just ask him your a girl, that's pretty powerful in itself. I mean what guy really wants to deny any girl asking him or her out? Unless she's totally yuk. Then in that case well...you get that I'm sure.

You should ask him, let him know you like him tell him...otherwise how does he know? Unfortunately we can't read each others minds. Thats a huge flaw in the human society LOL! IF we could just think of how many babies there'd be out there from things such as this...

It will be easier for you to confront him being shy as well if he's singled out. Get my point? I'm right on that one...when somebody is shy groups make it hella worse..

be polite, flaunt your stuff, smell good, think on your feet. Even if you stumble don't fret, it'll all work out, if he says YES just think GREAT! If he says no just think oh we'll... The odds you'll see him again after this are minimal anyhow.... Thats the biggest thing. There's a lot more where he came from right? Keep that in mind. IF he says no just move on, don't let him see you cry, don't do any of that stuff, he'll take that as a sign of immaturity. Not to mention he's not worth it, nor the headache. Always prepare for rejection. But if he doesn't reject you right away, and he talks to you TALK! You stand nothing to loose right? Don't make it weird either by making him play 20 questions with you, guys HATE THAT! It's pure annoying, converse with us like you would one of your girls by that I mean OPEN like a friend, and you'll get 1000times farther.

AlPiNe~

[purplemonster]

If you think he would even possibly say yes, then just ask him (it would be a great learning experience). If there's no chance he would say yes, then I agree with nobodygirl, you should become friends with him first.

[bellewh]

She is right make friends and when you get to know him more you'll be more comfortable around him.

[Fenieh]

If you know you are hot just go up to him say what's up. I like it when girls do that, it makes me feel comfortable.

[nobodygirl]

Make friends with him first.