How to distinct a nice guy from a fuckboy?

[Anonymous]

So I can never figure out if guys are being genuinely nice and actually like me and my personality or if they’re just being a fuckboy and like toying with girls emotions. This always gets me in the worst situations because i will think that a guy is really nice and likes me for my personality and thinks I’m pretty and respects me but then it’ll turn out that he’s just playing with my emotions... how do you figure out if a specific person is one or the other? And if they’re a fuckboy how do you deal with that or them, especially if you’ve fallen for them?

[DonRomeo]

Nice guys are the ones you dont like. Its that simple. Smart nice guys present themselves as badboys. But this attitude you have about guys needs to change. All males, be they Harry Potter or Charlie Sheen, need to fuck. Understand this and your expectations will be much more realistic and have more harmonious results. Im a 'fuckboy' because I was a nice guy and all girls, including you, just shat on me. So there are those who are still chained to incredibly damaging, idealistic 'chivalry' stereotypes, who dont get anyone, and there are those who are fortunate enough to have better male influences.

If you want to break the trend, then go for it. Hint: nice guys aren't metrosexuals. Theyre people who genuinely care about stuff, are quiet, often introverted, and some of whos role models betray their virtue. 'Fuckboys' are often just the same - theyre just doing it right. Break the trend by all means.

[Asker]

Sorry but I don’t really understand.. so you’re saying that I shouldn’t classify people as fuckboys or whatnot in my head? Or are you saying to give people that are considered ‘fuckboys’ more of a chance?

[NaultD]

A nice guy would deflect being called nice. Its second nature not for any reason, it would be like calling someone breathing a breather it sounds weird. They also dont keep tabs and kinda forget everything they do as soon as they walk away from the situation.

[NaultD]

See all these guys crying over being "the nice guy". They put too much time and effort to the point where they get resentful over not being treated the same but the girl never agreed to the terms and the guy gets hurt.

What guys need to learn, is to do a lot less so keep the bar low so you dont loss anythong for it, and for more people around them. Thats going to work out much better.

[Wolframium]

Don’t have sex with guys outside established relationship. Simple as that. So…it’s not about solving yur problem, it’s about preventing it to ever happen.

[Anon-ymous1]

There's no such thing as a "fuck boy," so there's no way to tell between the two.

[WeirdoWerdo]

Does he expect something afterwards if he does he is not a nice guy.

[Anonymous]

Easy - the ones that you like vs. the ones that you don't. The ones that you don't like are nice boys.

[Anonymous]

he's never available when you want him to be, only when he wants you to be