Guys, is a lady wearing sunglasses making her look less approachable? (Page 2)

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I'm starting to wonder if it's true!  I read in an article about why men nowadays don't approach women and it stated amoung other reasons, that a lady wearing sunglasses looks stuck up and closed off.  And because of this most guys wouldn't go up and try to talk to her since he deems her unapproachable aka unfriendly or not open to having a conversation with a stranger.  I usually wear polarized glasses like the girl in the second pic since they protect my eyes better. I use to wear regular sunglasses like the girl in the first pic and sure they're more stylish but they don't provide as much UV protection.

Anonymous · Answer

It does to me. She's hiding her eyes. It's like saying that you are closed because you don't want others to read you. Eyes are one of several indicators whether the person wants to be approached or left alone.

MothPunkOG · Answer

Honestly, Glasses dont matter to us guys, ofc it makes it harder to see what you're focusing on, but we still can read body language.

The issue some may have with glasses, is that without the eyes providing insight into what a person is thinking, a neutral expression on your face could come off as mean-mugging or even hostile

Robin48 · Answer

It would be her behavior which would make her less or more.

The biggest thing that destroys woman is this thinking she has as my, me, and I. Everything she tries to benefit from her self and alone. Some woman sees relationship is one way. Her

StallionDriverUSMC · Answer

Personally, I don't find women wearing sunglasses any less approachable than women who aren't. That being said, there is a time and a place for everything - - I would definitely advise against being on of those women who wears a pair of sunglasses indoors or outside in the middle of the night. 😉

spadfinn · Answer

When a girl wears sunglasses, generally their facial expressions usually are exaggerated (in the sense that it they were to smile, it would tell a lot more than if they were to smile without sunglasses). So if they kept an unpleasant attitude type facial expression, it would most likely detour a person from wanting to approach her more than if she were to choose to not wear them. Those are my thoughts anyways, hope I helped.

parttimelover · Answer

In poorer areas of the world wearing sunglasses makes you look like you"re better than everybody else around you suffering in the heat.
So it might give off the image that you're "too good" for everyone

AndyD96 · Answer

It does a bit if I meet her for the first time, but if she's not being stuck up but approachable it's fine.

If it's someone I know well, the sunglasses make her no less approachable unless she is usually stuck up.

Varun_Singh · Answer

It looks unattractive and when girls especially wear it indoors or in shade you look dumb... plus I'd like to look into the eyes when I introduce myself

Deelove11 · Answer

Probably have a low self-esteem, can't handle society, or just high on some drug or simply because the Sun is bright lols

curiosity199823 · Answer

When I see a girl in sunglasses, I think she's smart because it's bright out and she's protecting her eyes. It's mostly her appearance that makes her seem unapproachable not the sunglasses.

b0g101 · Answer

I think if your smiling at them its not a huge deal... dont think either pair changes things much. Could try taking them off. Or sunscreen on the eyes. ;p

Highlander984 · Answer

However if you pull yhem down and wink at me, then I don't care 😊

lilkill · Answer

I would never approach a lady wearing sunglasses if it myself wasn't there wearer of a pair of sunglasses. Now why would anyone approach you though, that is the real question here. by the way im Selling sunglasses check out my brand new website sunglassesbullshot. com

HoundDK · Answer

I'd say it depends on the way she uses them. If she is kinda cocky about it and don't take them off during a convo it's like talking to a wall with bug eyes

daffodile · Answer

Personally I only wear mine while driving out of safety. I like to be able to have eye contact with the other person to read them better.

SweedyPie · Answer

I always thought they make women look less approachable, and that's before reading this and knowing it's an actual proven thing.

Mimoc3 · Answer

It's like approaching a person wearing earphones. They don't seem like they're intrested in a conversation at all.

MarcoB · Answer

Hell no you wear sunglasses for the sun thts the 1st purpose nd 2nd your choice of the glasses defines how you look so it depends on how to look in glasses so u pick what suits u and thts in my humble opinion

rickbrown6032 · Answer

There could be reason she wearing sunglasses, medical sun or day light hurt her, she well know lady even if we know her this a way to hide, she had bit to many and don't want it know, last husband or boyfriend hit her and she hiding it

nerdEboi · Answer

Only if they obscure her eyes like polarized lenses or mirrored-lenses, but they're cute regardless

gecko192 · Answer

It's generally easy to trust someone when you can see their eyes because they aren't hiding their expression. If you approach a girl who is wearing glasses you are less sure about her reaction. I'd say that confident guys would still try, though.

genericname85 · Answer

well obviously social interaction is harder if you don't see their eyes. they are a physical barrier for communication. so yeah i'd be more hesitant to approach a girl wearing sunglasses than one who doesn't.

TallGuy96 · Answer

Honestly glasses makes a woman more approachable to me, not because i can't see her eyes ( maybe it is :p) but because she appears less serious

Mr321968 · Answer

Sun glasses dont mean anything thats just an excuse the few coward men are using not to approach you a real man gets what he wants with charm and respect there's no way even head phones and glasses are gona stop me from trying to get to know a beautiful soul.. At the end of the day ill be kicking my own ass if i didn't and wondered i wonder if she was single when i got home lol noooo not me

Apope16 · Answer

If you are sexy you are sexy. Being sexy makes you less approachable regardless of sunglasses. A nice pair of sunglasses loooks sooooo good!

DongerKun · Answer

Yes and no, depending on the ladies attitude, some people like my self just have resting bitch face, so just to read the mood

Rob94 · Answer

Someone, anyone with a dog us instantly more approachable. Sunglasses don't really change anything for me.

accidental-cake-face · Answer

I would just assume its a sunny day or she's hung over. Magazines write articals so people buy them. To make the mulla.

CandacePerry · Answer

Sun glasses I can't see there eyes. Then I don't know if I really attractive to them. The sun can be anonying without sun glasses.

fpmsn · Answer

If the men don't approach it's because he is a pussy and is afraid... What they say after that is an excuse, and that it's a fact

Meninist · Answer

Well those glasses that cover up half your face can make you look really different. So much so that I sometimes expect an entirely different face to the one I see after they take them off.

triximan · Answer

All women are unapproachable to me 😂 but yes if I can tell she's looking at me it would make me a bit more likely to talk to me. So sunglasses wouldn't help me

Balcazaurus · Answer

There was this one girl I was trying to talk to. She ALWAYS wore sunglasses. Said she had sensitive eyes. Believed her and kept trying anyway. Turns out she wasn't really my type.

dante3531 · Answer

I've never had an issue with it. This would be like saying that I would have issues approaching a girl wearing a hat

pmallon · Answer

It hides their face and as a result, their facial cues. I don't know about stuck up, but you would be sort of going in blind. So less approachable as a result would be my vote.

readywriter · Answer

I think there is a lot to that. If we are on a sunny beach you should pull them down or off if you want to make any contact or seem approachable. Without eyes you are a nobody.

Manlymillennial54 · Answer

I'm a big guy.  If I wear anything to cover my eyes I look intimidating. A woman uses her eyes to draw you to her, so if she covers them, you aren't going to be drawn to her as easily.

kaskas19 · Answer

I hope so. I think I'll start wearing sunglasses I'm public more often just for that reason

john76 · Answer

Most girls don't like being approached. Most people get into a relationship from arrangements.

bigazz · Answer

Especially the big sunglasses that cover half the face most wear these days. Can't read facial expressions if you can't see the face. First thing I find attractive I look at personally is the eyes anyway.

kentlevi · Answer

Yes, means she doesn't want anyone to talk when her for some reason.

admelein · Answer

Honestly I don't mind sunglasses my only thing is that it hides their face.

darrinp1 · Answer

No but it does kind hard to judge reaction what she really thinks of you because it is kind of hiding with her eyes

Anonymous · Answer

The only thing I would say is, I'd like to see the body language or someone I'm approaching and if I can't see her eyes it's very difficult to determine anything. It's true the eyes are the window to the soul.

spartan55 · Answer

Who the hell cares if she's wearing sunglasses or not? Complete non factor.

crazy8000 · Answer

Most of the times, Yes! We can't see your eyes that are one of the biggest nonverbal communication way for humans. Then do you give the signals you are shielding yourself.

Ayer93 · Answer

Yeah. Sunglasses make them absolutely unapproachable to me and make them look like a bitch. I like eye contact because eyes tell you a lot about what a person is thinking.

anuragk033 · Answer

Well I am not able to make eye contact how can I approache to her if I don't know she is looking at me or not

DelendaEst · Answer

Both men and women use sunglasses as a way to appear less approachable. In the western world, eye contact is seen as a sign of respect and makes you appear much more approachable

FatherJack · Answer

Most women do NOT want to be approached , well , I have been led to believe this from female work colleagues !! Wearing shades adds another barrier & adds to the " leave well alone " aura.

Petertheguy · Answer

Sunglasses don’t bother most of us guys, i would say it’s not true😜

KevinSmiley13 · Answer

No if they wear those stupid sunglasses with very large lenses. If they wear appropriate sized sunglasses when it's sunny out, then I have no issue

Razal · Answer

Yes with sunglasses u can not judge her reactions and expression. secondly. you tend to get the feeling that she is high maintenance !!

korn2424 · Answer

Well most guys don't have the balls to get turned down. I have learned out of 10 woman u ask out on a date at least one going to say yea

Chaz269 · Answer

The sunglasses make eye contact all but impossible. That's the most important sign of approachability.

giandy13b · Answer

Not super important, i just dont like girls that dont look at you when answering.

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Honestly, yes 100%. Because you can't see her eyes, so you can't tell if she's looking at you. Eye contact is important.

Anonymous · Answer

Most of the time, sunglasses make the person look really superficial, cliquish and narcissistic. I hate this accessory.

TXKen · Answer

It does decrease the chance i would approach. If the are fancy sunglasses my first thought would probably be she is more trouble than she is worth. Not saying i would not approach, just less likely

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