If a guy stops putting kisses (x) at the end of his texts is that a sign of disinterest?

[Anonymous]

[CrazyTurboBeast]

No, I don’t always do that.

I don’t mind if the girl does but I view texting as a means to an end to convey messages.
If she says something cute or we have a moment then yeah an x might go on but I don’t do them willy nilly.

Some women have mentioned this in the past but it’s just me and doesn’t reflect how I feel about them.

[CrazyTurboBeast]

He should be showing you in other ways plus the flip side is just because there is an x there doesn’t convey interest!
Girls can be famous for this one.

[CrazyTurboBeast]

Girls can be famous for this one as they are being nice and we can mis read it for more.

[victorlma]

Any change in a positive behavior is a sign of disinterest.
But it may change. If he feels welcome when talking to you.

[Asker]

Sometimes I think it could be a game to try and gain the upper hand.

[victorlma]

Maybe it is. But if it does, do you really want to have a relationship with a person capable of doing it?

[Asker]

Well exactly. This is why I'm trying to figure out which it is.

[victorlma]

Maybe you should just ask... Be direct. It seems to be really bothering you...

[Asker]

Already tried, he denies any foul play but his actions are slightly confusing and I don't want to jump to any conclusions, you know.

[victorlma]

What about some easy to interpret request? Like, next message, when you feel the conversation is over, you ask something like
"won't you write 'kisses (x)' like before?"
Just to check on the answer

[Asker]

I think that might sound a bit needy tbh in our situation lol but thanks anyway.

[nevermoregirl7]

If it's an established relationship than it might not find it necessary.

If it is dating for flirting, it might be disinterest. When I say dating, I am talking new, like no facebook status change.

[therapeuticrose]

If he used to do it all the time and suddenly stopped then yes that's weird (unless you guys started officially dating in which case maybe he thinks it's just not necessary anymore)

[roshniharish]

Yes or other wise he is just trying check whether you care or not

[SouthpawPablo]

The could just not want to over do it and cause. you too loose intrest but based on the kissy face text alone I doubt you can really decide if loosing intrest pay attention to how often they text what times if your the first and last person eachother talks too during the day and what they say and how

[John__]

If i were a girk I'd be more worried if he did, who does that? I'd rather use sn emoji instead of x

[Asker]

It's a pretty common thing in the U. K.

[Drifter83UK]

I don't believe I've ever put an x anywhere in any message. It doesn't mean women don't interest me...

[claudia27]

Lol. Only *blokes* do that and by that, I mean “britons”.

[HotDogg]

Depends on how Salty he is...

[Asker]

True. Good point

[intjgamer]

No. Just means he is tired of doing the unnecessary

[UsernameMadness]

Do you send kisses back?

[Asker]

Yes, I sent him one last wishing him a happy holiday but he didn't return any in his conversation that followed. Maybe it means something maybe it doesn't, but he used to put them.

[CrazyTurboBeast]

If he is not returning messages then that is more worrying about how he composes them.

[UsernameMadness]

It sounds like he is losing interest tbh.

[Asker]

Yeah, no the conversation was all good, it's just the change is less 'x's that raised my curiosity.

[outsidecurve]

No. Don't be silly. It means he a man.

[Sarmed]

No!!!

[Asker]

Can you elaborate?

[Sarmed]

Might be he forgot or he might be tired...

[sahas20]

Yup.

[thegr8lion]

Beginning

[pwater]

Yea.

[Spacepope]

maybe (x)

[Anonymous]

No...