Why did this girl ask me if I live alone?

[BigJake]

A girl I know from the gym asked me if I live alone the other day when we were chatting. One of my female friends told me it's a strong sign of interest if a girl asks if you live alone, i. e. have your own place.

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Today I saw the same girl and she waved and didn't come talk to me.

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[TayTay21]

when a girl asks this she's trying to figure out if she could come over and get some. if you have a quiet place to yourself, it's doable. girls don't want to make booty calls when they have to meet your mom or 3 roomies lol

[BigJake]

That's exactly what my friend said. She said a girl wants to be sure you live alone because they want to keep it private when they just want sex.

[TayTay21]

Exactly. Sometimes girls just want to get banged out by a hot guy and don't want to be judged for it. I had a friend in hs who had like 5 fwbs, and she would make visit them all on Saturdays getting banged out literally all day lol.

[Anonymous]

Not really it could be a lot of things. Maybe she wants to see if you still live with your parent , maybe she wants to visit you and do stuff sometime , maybe she just asked casually

[BigJake]

It caught me off guard. I thought maybe she wanted to know if I lived at home. My female friend said it's because she's sizing up my potential for sex, as in do I have a place to be alone.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes that is really possible too, see if she flirts with you ;)

[BigJake]

She does flirt, like she'll ask me for help with weights and tap me on the arm when she's talking.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah , you can do something like : hey you wanna come to my home can cook you dinner, and she ll know

[BigJake]

I guess that was her way of trying to get me to invite her over.

[LunaBei]

She wants to get those pants off! But you can't have anybody around.

[BigJake]

hahahaha I usually do have my pants off at home, but it's not exactly sexy time.

[lilbit_97]

It could be. Or she's making sure she only has to murder one person when she makes her move. 😂

[BigJake]

Yeah, so she can make off with my 27" Black and Decker tv and my antique laptop with Windows 98.

[lilbit_97]

She's probably really trying to smash but that was like a two birds with one stone question. Who do you live with sorta thing.. it could have been a roomate. girlfriend. Whatever but ig you live alone she probably could have been thinking about how loud she's gonna be when y'all fuck.

[BigJake]

Lots of guys live with mom, too, which usually kills most girl boners instantly. I just never get asked that question by girls I meet.

[lilbit_97]

Do you look super young? Or dependant for any reason.

[BigJake]

I do look young. I'm 25 but get carded pretty often. Dependent?

[lilbit_97]

As in you depend on others frequently.

[BigJake]

How could someone look like they depend on others?

[lilbit_97]

If you don't seem confident or sure of yourself. Women can sense shit like that.

[BigJake]

They why would she be talking to me and flirting with me in the first place if she thought I was a loser?

[lilbit_97]

Woah chill I never said she thought you were a loser? You want a ladder to climb down from that conclusion you just jumped to?

[BigJake]

Well, to be fair, you were saying that she may have been asking me if I lived alone because of dependency. I asked what you meant, and you said that she thought maybe I wasn't sure of myself or confident. That's why I wondered why she would have even been talking to me if she thought I was unsure or a loser when we first met.

[lilbit_97]

Yes exactly you said that not me. So. Did you have a nice climb down? 😂

[BigJake]

I still don't understand what you wrote today: "If you don't seem confident or sure of yourself. Women can sense shit like that." How does this relate to what I wrote before?

[Anonymous]

It can be indicative of flirting but ngl sometimes I ask people that just as small talk and I don’t mean anything deeper.

[Cute_potato01]

👀👉👌.. she wants to share the rent with u

[Anonymous]

Hookup purposes. I’d side eye her