In my opinion, he talks about a future with you because he's very much into you if not in love with you. However he says things like "its my life" because he wants to maintain his independence. He's having issues with how to combine the two views. So when you ask him for a fair notice in advance to make your own plans, he probably felt like you're taking that independence away from him. I don't think he's disrespecting you on purpose because he doesn't see it that way; his actions just happen to be disrespectful even though he has no intention of hurting you. I hope this helps clarify things a bit.
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I agree with you... it would simply be courteous of him to tell you when he is going out. And I think it is right that he shows a lack of respect for you -- he is essentially telling you that he views his time as more valuable than yours.
With an attitude like that, I'd wonder if he acts this way in other areas with you. Does he ask your opinion on things? Does he listen to your concerns and show that he values and appreciates you in other areas?
I know this doesn't sound like much, but his flippant reply makes me wonder...
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