What inspires you to make the first move?

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Stellastarling · Accepted Answer

Well, I know what I want. And if that's what I want, well why waste time? Ask the guy/girl out and see what happens. I mean worst case scenario he/she says no and best case scenario they say yes. It's pretty great cause AT LEAST YOU KNOW WHETHER OR NOT THEY LIKE YOU INSTEAD OF PINING AWAY FOR THEM FOR THE RST OF YOUR LIFE! Like seriously, make the move and get the guy/girl (or don't). And if you don't well at least you can move on before it becomes a huge big thing and then can't back out of it cause that really sucks. And we all want to be happy and so we shall be happy!😂😂

Fitness-Fanatic · Accepted Answer

I'd only make the first move if showed signs of interest in me. If he seemed shy but interested that would motivate me to make a move

jakeforfun · Accepted Answer

Inspires me? Um, making the first move IS what I do, and inspiration has a lot less to do with it than natural drive. I suppose it's a sense, a feeling, in regards to the woman, that I just have to find out, have to take the chance - damn the torpedoes...

SirRexington · Accepted Answer

If I see an excuse to talk to her. Maybe I like her shirt or something or I hear her talking about something I know about and can add.

If we are talking about making the first move for kissing then I usually don't.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a nervous awkward mess so I don't make the first move. I have though asked for numbers! Usually I did that when I found them cute and I felt comfortable in their presence. but I've never told anyone I was ever interested in them. I usually just waited for people

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I usually go by the girls actions whether it's safe to make the first move i usually don't make the first move i let the girl do it.

qxeenrrose · Answer

Usually if I know they show interest I don’t have problems making a first move.

xHappyClown · Answer

if I know them.. flirtation is good.. if I don't know them they have to have a pretty smile

crotchwood · Answer

If its not online, i don't know. It's my natural assumption that the pretty ones are either taken, gay or not interested in me... so I'll let them make a move if they're interested.

ImagineSketchy · Answer

Knowing the woman I'm interested in won't and I guess if I want it enough.

kunalmehta005 · Answer

If I like the way someone talks like a with little decency and honesty then I'll make the first move for sure... 😊😊

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Really just a reflection of being a teen and chasing that energy that dissipates over time.. Also the anticipation of what can lead into other moves in the future!

Snowman8 · Answer

Some indication that she's interested in talking... eye contact or a shy/curious smile

Harsh_5299 · Answer

If the girl says she's ok with being friends with benefits

htoumatic · Answer

Not. The women make the first moves in my country. The tables have turned they are the hunters now. We are weak prey

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing a lot of times I don't becaus eI've just lost motivation for dating

Likes2drive · Answer

Only if I sense it’s ok, like if I get a feeling of it being the right moment

Doncastar · Answer

When he's giving obvious hints but is having trouble making moves. So I gather courage and go for it

Decentguy · Answer

nothing, i keep my feelings bottled up, like a fine wine

pusslover · Answer

The way she looks at me or talk to me that almost hiding smile

johngg · Answer

How she looks and smiles and I know she won't get mad about it

Anonymous · Answer

I can’t do the first move I’m to shy I hate that men start it of mostly and it expected

QueenofCups · Answer

Liking a guy who seems shy

TwinCKI · Answer

The auru that comes out of her movements

djmzes · Answer

Social norms  Social pressure

Orangeblossom92 · Answer

The regret i ´ll have if i don’t go for it

MrMysteryMan · Answer

A connection I get or an inclination I feel.

KBVoidGear · Answer

Either attractiveness or curiosity

TallAnon · Answer

If she smiles at me and shows she's accessible

Zokii · Answer

Special felling i can't describe..

AM-205 · Answer

Nothing, really. I've never had a time to do it.

thinker_ · Answer

Daydreaming about her

rollablade · Answer

My hunger for success

blazze · Answer

I don't know but I'm drunk lol I have a boyfriend

hugzy · Answer

The persute of wut I want

Anonymous · Answer

wish it didn't always have to be up to the guy.

Nabzilla · Answer

Her giving hints

Nik1hil · Answer

Nothing..

Anonymous · Answer

Her insatiable desires 🔥🔥🔥

Kiels01 · Answer

About 8 beers..

ydhawan3 · Answer

looks

Brutal_Honesty · Answer

sheer desire

jesse1997 · Answer

Depends on the girl

kamash · Answer

It's sex

subhag · Answer

Her smile. 😉

theFantasticJ · Answer

I don't move

GayHowellMeme · Answer

Nothing

WiseTumbleweed · Answer

Dtf likelyhood

shivansh04 · Answer

My friends😄

MemoKadry · Answer

Regret

ridemeraw · Answer

Eyes

Anonymous · Answer

Hornyness

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