Well, I know what I want. And if that's what I want, well why waste time? Ask the guy/girl out and see what happens. I mean worst case scenario he/she says no and best case scenario they say yes. It's pretty great cause AT LEAST YOU KNOW WHETHER OR NOT THEY LIKE YOU INSTEAD OF PINING AWAY FOR THEM FOR THE RST OF YOUR LIFE! Like seriously, make the move and get the guy/girl (or don't). And if you don't well at least you can move on before it becomes a huge big thing and then can't back out of it cause that really sucks. And we all want to be happy and so we shall be happy!😂😂
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I'd only make the first move if showed signs of interest in me. If he seemed shy but interested that would motivate me to make a move
Inspires me? Um, making the first move IS what I do, and inspiration has a lot less to do with it than natural drive. I suppose it's a sense, a feeling, in regards to the woman, that I just have to find out, have to take the chance - damn the torpedoes...
If I see an excuse to talk to her. Maybe I like her shirt or something or I hear her talking about something I know about and can add.
If we are talking about making the first move for kissing then I usually don't.
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I'm a nervous awkward mess so I don't make the first move. I have though asked for numbers! Usually I did that when I found them cute and I felt comfortable in their presence. but I've never told anyone I was ever interested in them. I usually just waited for people
I usually go by the girls actions whether it's safe to make the first move
i usually don't make the first move i let the girl do it.Usually if I know they show interest I don’t have problems making a first move.
if I know them.. flirtation is good.. if I don't know them they have to have a pretty smile
If its not online, i don't know. It's my natural assumption that the pretty ones are either taken, gay or not interested in me... so I'll let them make a move if they're interested.
Knowing the woman I'm interested in won't and I guess if I want it enough.
If I like the way someone talks like a with little decency and honesty then I'll make the first move for sure... 😊😊
Really just a reflection of being a teen and chasing that energy that dissipates over time.. Also the anticipation of what can lead into other moves in the future!
Some indication that she's interested in talking... eye contact or a shy/curious smile
Not. The women make the first moves in my country. The tables have turned they are the hunters now. We are weak prey
Nothing a lot of times I don't becaus eI've just lost motivation for dating
Only if I sense it’s ok, like if I get a feeling of it being the right moment
When he's giving obvious hints but is having trouble making moves. So I gather courage and go for it
If the girl says she's ok with being friends with benefits
nothing, i keep my feelings bottled up, like a fine wine
The way she looks at me or talk to me that almost hiding smile
How she looks and smiles and I know she won't get mad about it
I can’t do the first move I’m to shy I hate that men start it of mostly and it expected
Liking a guy who seems shy
The auru that comes out of her movements
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