Do you prefer to make the first move?

[littledreamer4]

Do you prefer to make the first move or wait in hopes that your crush would?

[RangerRock]

Always the fun part right. Usually whoever started the conversation will make the first move. I try to figure out how to get normal people to act kess passive. When the listener talks it usually aggressive but the body language is usually passive. When I talk to women in public I get this loud chick who is gaining her composure because somebody spoke to her. Dudes feel like batman when they spproach women in public

[freakyzeaky]

I am pretty shy and introverted, so it would be nice if a woman started a conversation with me and showed some signs of interest. Would need to be a good situation for that though. If we were feeling some chemistry, I would ask her out for sure, but the breaking the ice part is difficult for me.

[Anonymous]

I prefer to wait but guys are clueless so women have to send the initial yes come talked to me signals to them at minimum

[freakyzeaky]

Better clueless than creepy though, amirite?

[Opinion Owner]

Neither is really great but sure?

[freakyzeaky]

My bad for being sarcastic, but I think many guys who appear clueless are just afraid of coming off creepy. So as far as they are concerned, better that they don't approach at all than risk creeping a woman out and making him feel like slime.

[Opinion Owner]

I appreciate that it's something you are aware of. Liking someone else is weird, and finding out if they reciprocate is scary

[AlexanderZ]

I don't like making the first move - I'm relatively shy after all. But I also recognize that it's 'expected' for the man to do so. (Sexist American
culture) So I deal with it.

[KRock323]

I prefer the girl to make the first move. As I'm obviously as to what is going on around me. And it's also nice to know I have a shoot. Even if nothing else happens.

[winterfox10]

I would prefer that the woman create a situation where I can make the first move on her in a super low stress way. A lot of women want the guy to do all the work but she needs to contribute if the relationship is gonna be healthy and work well!

[lordpuru]

Well if I had a crush on someone then I have to make first move otherwise how will that girl know that I like her

[AlexanderII]

Depends on the situation, if it involves introductions I prefer girls to so I am not dismissed as a horny teenage guy. While declaring feelings I would do that first.

[Cammy137]

I have a history of not making the first move so I always welcome it when the other person does

[Rjsurya846]

If I like someone I don't want to waste time, so just take two days for getting clear picture then I will start approach

[Rinaldo208]

Spoken as a predator haha nice one!

[Rjsurya846]

So may I know what will you do in the mentioned case.

[Rinaldo208]

Sure but it's not badass or what so ever. I'm a big introvert so it makes it hard for me. I do try but makes no effort xD

[Rjsurya846]

Even though you're an introvert here you must realise time delayed is time denied so you need to be in touch at least if you don't propose

[Rinaldo208]

Thanks ill do my best.

[SnapTsch]

I know that I'm not a likable person at all 😅
So I wait for the other person to make a move

[IdkSomethingRandom]

I am passive everywhere but under the sheets.

So, no.

[jersos1]

Wait for her. I hate the cliché of guys making the first move. If she doesn't, I don't go for her anymore. Simple.

[Insanyx12]

I hope when I meet someone in person we have that moment of I dont have to

[Rinaldo208]

Nop i'm to shy and a huge introvert. So I wait... waiting for years now ;( haha

[anewgirl]

I wait. And am sad 😂😂

[Anonymous]

I made the first move this time

[XXVikingxX]

I don't, but I have too..

[TallGuy96]

Both

[TallGuy96]

Because it shows that both sides care

[Nahid1234]

I always do

[Gorobez]

Nope

[Seppelson]

No I wait

[hunter02burks02]

I am shy so no