I had a guy smile and try to talk to me last night. I didn't like it at all, it was one of those times. I don't mind the talk that's to help and friendly but you can tell when they are flirting and at the gym isn't the place.
Like everywhere else, women want to dress in cloth bodypaint and expose as much of their sexual body parts as possible but want men to completely ignore it unless it's a guy they find attractive. They are entitled spoiled children and feel they should be able to have it both ways.
But wouldn't u get flattered if a hot guy came up to you regardless of your nasty sweaty self and actually was confident enough to ask you out or at least compliment you?
@katchap I think the problem is that usually with girls guys see at the gym there is no ELSEWHERE for them to break the ice. They see the girl at the gym and no where else unless they take to stalking, but most guys aren't creeps. So I think what this guy is wondering is if it is worth the risk to ask a girl at the gym for her number of if he should just forget about her (which is a sad option, but perhaps the best).
if theyre eyeing you while theyre doing it and chatting with you then yeah but if not like theyre just doing their own thing then no steer clear bc thats kinda creepy...
I go to the gym to workout not be hit on but It's no big deal, as soon as I tell them I'm happily spoken for they tend to move along without wasting any more of my time or theirs.
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yeah, it doesn't matter if Im at the gym. I won't approach a girl. it should be common knowledge that a huge chunk of women don't like it.
Sad thing is that my ex would go to a all womens gym. And at least in the two that she would go to, those gyms were terrible.
Lol no but the gym is one of the weirdest places to meet someone like bitch I'm all sweaty and your all sweaty and you stink I stink so boy why are you aproaching me lol
I think it's better to do so because of you are hitting on a girl who is all make up and hairspray and push up bra you might not like what you see when all that goes away, at the gym at least both of you know what you look like naturally and without all the dress up.
Well where do you go to meet guys? Because I don't go anywhere with the intent to meet women, I do what I like to do and hope to meet someone there with similar interests, but If they aren't there it's no big deal I still get to enjoy myself. If I see someone I might want to date what does it matter where we are?
It irritates the hell out of me when I get approached at the gym, mostly because I'm married, but I'd get upset regardless. You're sweaty, have no make up, and are just there to burn off calories.
I upvoted at first, but disappointed about the makeup part. I don't talk to girls at the gym, but them being more natural there is part of the sexiness.
@spinfire86 Most girls look better with a little make up, you're probably not even aware when we're wearing it because a lot of girls use "natural looking" make up.
While I appreciate that you don't like being approached at the gym, especially since you're married and are there to workout, what does the sweaty and no makeup have to do with anything? Obviously if someone approaches you when you are in that condition, they don't care about those things.
@zagor Because it makes girls uncomfortable. We like to look our best while dating and being in work out attire isn't the optimal time to be approached.
On youtube a guy made a video of rules to follow at the gym like don't sit on equipment and do nothing, don't give unsolicited advice, and don't hit on women, if you want to hit on women go to a bar.
If he's hot. However I'm sensing they are just scared of me because I'm literally the only girl in the weights section some days yet all I get are awkward side glances.
Look, smile, and look away. I know so many women that have changed gyms multiple times because of dudes oggling.. there are gym sluts though. Lady's.. If you see a guy at the gym and you're attracted and curious. Please say hi.
They don't want to get approached at the gym, besides if your looking for girls go somewhere else. But if u see someone at the gym who you can't resist, just ask them about there work out n shit and get it going from there.
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I had a guy smile and try to talk to me last night. I didn't like it at all, it was one of those times. I don't mind the talk that's to help and friendly but you can tell when they are flirting and at the gym isn't the place.
If an attractive guy approached me at the gym I'd be happy. I don't get approached even at places girls normally get approached.
I would recommend to show more boob
You will... Just be comfortable and more approachable...🤗🤗
@jeepersarekeepers I don't exactly have a lot of boobs to show.
Like everywhere else, women want to dress in cloth bodypaint and expose as much of their sexual body parts as possible but want men to completely ignore it unless it's a guy they find attractive.
They are entitled spoiled children and feel they should be able to have it both ways.
No, I go to the gym to work out, I look red, sweaty and probs at my worst, so I'd deffos not like being approached whilst looking like that
Those things just make y’all look hotter
@Arbalest If you saw me mid work-out you wouldn't think so at all
But wouldn't u get flattered if a hot guy came up to you regardless of your nasty sweaty self and actually was confident enough to ask you out or at least compliment you?
@katchap I'd actually be concerned as to how he found me attractive haha! Sure I'd be flattered I just wouldn't want him too approach me!
Gotta keep it cas tho and give us a chance to continue in our work out and low opinion of ourselves until u break the ice elsewhere.
@katchap I think the problem is that usually with girls guys see at the gym there is no ELSEWHERE for them to break the ice. They see the girl at the gym and no where else unless they take to stalking, but most guys aren't creeps. So I think what this guy is wondering is if it is worth the risk to ask a girl at the gym for her number of if he should just forget about her (which is a sad option, but perhaps the best).
Honestly I kinda like it if you’re not TOO sweaty. If you’re just staring your workout then yes.😍 you look hot in your gym clothes!
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if theyre eyeing you while theyre doing it and chatting with you then yeah but if not like theyre just doing their own thing then no steer clear bc thats kinda creepy...
I go to the gym to workout not be hit on but It's no big deal, as soon as I tell them I'm happily spoken for they tend to move along without wasting any more of my time or theirs.
yeah, it doesn't matter if Im at the gym. I won't approach a girl. it should be common knowledge that a huge chunk of women don't like it.
Sad thing is that my ex would go to a all womens gym. And at least in the two that she would go to, those gyms were terrible.
I'm there to work out and work on my self not meet guys
Burn!!! Lmao xD
So we can only approach women when they are looking to meet guys? How do we know? Is there a sign you wear?
Lol no but the gym is one of the weirdest places to meet someone like bitch I'm all sweaty and your all sweaty and you stink I stink so boy why are you aproaching me lol
I think it's better to do so because of you are hitting on a girl who is all make up and hairspray and push up bra you might not like what you see when all that goes away, at the gym at least both of you know what you look like naturally and without all the dress up.
@Eikz1000 thats sweet but no im there to work out not meet guys
Well where do you go to meet guys? Because I don't go anywhere with the intent to meet women, I do what I like to do and hope to meet someone there with similar interests, but If they aren't there it's no big deal I still get to enjoy myself. If I see someone I might want to date what does it matter where we are?
I'm there to exercise. Shit like that's why I bought a treadmill for my home
THEY WILL let you know in no uncertain terms WHEN WHERE & HOW to engage... if still no clue then simply wait fro them to be the aggressor
This is not a meat market to them
It irritates the hell out of me when I get approached at the gym, mostly because I'm married, but I'd get upset regardless. You're sweaty, have no make up, and are just there to burn off calories.
I upvoted at first, but disappointed about the makeup part. I don't talk to girls at the gym, but them being more natural there is part of the sexiness.
@spinfire86 Most girls look better with a little make up, you're probably not even aware when we're wearing it because a lot of girls use "natural looking" make up.
Fair enough.
While I appreciate that you don't like being approached at the gym, especially since you're married and are there to workout, what does the sweaty and no makeup have to do with anything? Obviously if someone approaches you when you are in that condition, they don't care about those things.
@zagor Because it makes girls uncomfortable. We like to look our best while dating and being in work out attire isn't the optimal time to be approached.
But why would you be pissed if the guy thinks you're attractive even when all sweaty and un-madeup?
On youtube a guy made a video of rules to follow at the gym like don't sit on equipment and do nothing, don't give unsolicited advice, and don't hit on women, if you want to hit on women go to a bar.
Hear heae
More often than not they don't. If they do want you to talk to them then they must really really be into you.
i really like to run to clear my head--i appreciate when people give me space at the gym (but coffee shops etc are fine!)
Honestly,
If he's hot. However I'm sensing they are just scared of me because I'm literally the only girl in the weights section some days yet all I get are awkward side glances.
How much you lift? 20 pounds? Hahahahaha
BENCH- 60lbs lol
DEADLIFT-190lbs
SQUAT -Bodyweight
You can laugh all you want but I'm not one of those " I'm too scared I'll get bulky" " tone with 5lbs" losers.
Lol! Well i respect that i guess.
No, it's actually rather annoying. Working out requires to be focused on yourself and some random guy approaching me would totally disrupt my flow.
Look, smile, and look away. I know so many women that have changed gyms multiple times because of dudes oggling.. there are gym sluts though. Lady's.. If you see a guy at the gym and you're attracted and curious. Please say hi.
They don't want to get approached at the gym, besides if your looking for girls go somewhere else. But if u see someone at the gym who you can't resist, just ask them about there work out n shit and get it going from there.
I’m sure some girls do. But I just prefer just to work out :p