How to tell if a lesbian or bi girl is hitting on me?

[Anonymous]

Hi,

I would label myself as bi curious. I definitely notice when girls are hot or cute, and enjoy flirting. However, I'm not entirely used to flirting with girls, so I'm never used to knowing if I'm being hit on. I'm used to just being friends and seeing everything as being friendly and girl talk.

What are some things you bi or lesbian girls do to show interest?

[Anonymous]

You could test her, get some tacos and some hot dogs and put them at either end of a table if she goes for the tacos she's a lesbian, if she goes for the dogs, straight or on of each she's bi... or you could do it the old fashioned way, she tries to kiss you, flirts with you, tries to eat you etc...

[flowergirl93]

they would probably do the same thing as everyone else, for example:

staring, playing with hair when talking to you, touching you, etc

[Xia90]

not true girls run there hands through each others hands. girls are more comfortable with sexuality and does not mean that that's bi/lesbian.

[flowergirl93]

how comfortable someone is with their sexuality is specific to each person.

and even if that person is comfortable, that doesn't give them an excuse to be all over girls and leading them on.

bi and lesbian girls don't have a different code for flirting. signs that they like you will be the same as those a male would give. therefore I stand by my original answer.

thanks for the downvote, btw.