How do you know if a girls flirting with you?

[Willoughby23]

[ChrisMaster69]

Eye contact and duration of eye contact are really important.
think of it as a send and receive game.

you send her a flirt, eyes, mouth, fingers, hands, body placement and maybe what you say and how you say it.

she then picks this up, digests it and decides her reply.

now this is where body language mirroring or symmetry can come in.

Good flirting can be without any speaking, such as restaurant or noisy club etc.

if there is speaking it greatly depends on the girl and country lol.

She will be doing a fuckwit and safety test with what she asks you.

seeing if you are safe, maybe if sense of humour and that you are not a psycho.

if she close you out after this bit, it’s usually best to walk lol.

recognise when you get shut down and act on it.

when flirting always leave the girl a physical escape route, never pen in.

look at her eyes and lips, also her hands, these she will likely use to flirt with you.

a smile and eyes can convey a lot.

remember that body mirroring, if you are ever out and think a girl may be checking you out, do something like check your watch, move a drink on the table, even glance (glance) at your mobile, now quickly but discretely check her out, if she does the same or very similar she was watching you.

when she eventually the tone of her voice may also change,

look for any flushing around neck or cheeks.

if her eye contact changed from scanning to more fixed on you, then you have her interest, just keep at it, look at her reaction to your replies, this will give you an idea.
eye contact changing from more fixed but still loose to direct is often a game changer, she’s either going to stab you, or let you move closer…. Speaking of witch avoid getting in to her personal space.

body language also works if you step back a fraction and she follows.

there are lots of tells that people give.

always change how you flirt though, it rarely works the same way everytime.

and enjoy it, it’s a dance, it’s supposed to fun, a laugh, being serious doing it comes over scary lol.

[LawCalmDown]

Most women in my experience won't flirt with you to your face e. g. conversation. Women tend to be more reserved & less obvious than men.

They do a lot of looking out of the corner of thier eye type thing or in your eyes directly if they are more confident. And then mouth; either a big wide grin or a slight smile while looking down. For me the best way to actually tell is how do they treat you compared to other men/everyone else.

[loves2learn]

That’s exactly what I did the day I met my husband.

[serenaluna666]

I saw one girl here say that it involves compliments and asking about you guys. I agree with the second topic but I only agree partially with the first one. As I shy girl I usually don’t compliment guys much, only after a long time and it’s rare lol…


I don’t really have any tactics to flirt but usually when I’m into the guy I try to extend the conversation and talk about random topics/ask random stuff so that we talk more meanwhile when it’s a guy I’m not interested in I just respond nicely and politely to everything but I don’t really extend the convo.

[kkirk4442]

There are various ways to flirt, and you likely flirt in ways that you don't entirely realize.

[CrazyGirl2]

Well… If she approaches you, is talking to you nicely, making lots of eye contact, smiling, especially if she touches her hair constantly, or slides her hair behind her ear, maybe giggles, and looks down by moving her head, then without moving her head up, she looks up at you moving only her eyes… She’s flirting!

[Smashingdoozy]

Usually involves compliments and a lot of questions to get to know who you are.

[loves2learn]

Lots of smiling and eye contact is a good sign.

[Browneye57]

Body language. Her tail is up. LOL

[DeputyD]

She laughs a lot