How do you know if a girl is flirting with you?

[doctorwhofan23]

I am kind of shy and maybe a little awkward so I'll miss hints and stuff.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes she will flirt first and you won't recognize it.because of the subtlety. I did a lot of studying on glirting snd body language a few years ago. None of what I read is foolproof because not every tecnique is for everyone.

I started picking up on a lot of signals from women that I.may have othetwise missed. Some girls will do double or ttiple takes - making it clear that she is checking you out and is open yo talking to you. Some avoid eye contant because of of shyness or cultural reasons.

If you are talking to a girl, depending on her personality, she may go with friendly conversation or tty showing off her sensual/sexual side.

Touch is also key FOR SOME. Not everyone is touchy grabby. Consider if she tries to grab your arm or clasp your hand.

Conversation. If she is laughing, trying to win you over by telling you something impress about herself or fishing for compliment.

Oh, one more thing about eye contact if her eyes look big and shiny sorta like an anime character or a loyal puppy who is about lick their owner's face... she digs you, bro! If uou don't see that, she's just looking to be look.

None of this is universal, completely dependant of the girl and her mood at the time. You'll notice. Hell... I'm still learning and I'm 27 lol. Women are complex! Good luck, bro.

[summiter]

Loo for eye contact, and body language. More is said in body language than is what is said verbally...good luck! When in doubt ask her for a cup of coffee or something completely honest and see where it goes from there.

[qwer1234]

what kind of body language?

[cotsia]

Intense eye contact. Look out if she smiles and if she does you should smile back only if you are interested. If a girl likes you she usually plays with her hair as well while talking to you. You can also tell by her body language that if you are talking to a girl and her feet are pointing to you it only means she is interested in what you are saying and in you pretty much.

If she's hard to get though she'll just keep staring you and maybe not smile. Try to smile though, girls think that shy guys are the best, yet again they are so cute :")

[Prof_Don]

This is a good answer here. :)

[Anonymous]

I can't speak for anyone else but I will only noticeably touch guys I'm into. This includes hugs (not like a quick pat on the shoulder but a full on hug) and keeping my hand on his arm or shoulder for more than two seconds. I personally only do those to guys I like and I make it obvious.

[Prof_Don]

As a guy, I can speak for myself that I fully recognize that signal.

As I tell my teenage brother, a way to tell if a girl likes you is to ask yourself "does she unnecessarily touch me"?

[Anonymous]

For me I smile a lot, make good eye contact and I feel the main thing is light touches. I'll touch their arm or hands.

[MaxwellSmart]

It depends on the girl. any specific girls? How does she act around others? That would help narrow it down...

[GoGoDancer]

Girls only flirt with good looking guys, girls never flirt with me because I'm not good looking. Of course they'll deny it and call me a liar.