However, since then (and this was a few months ago), he hasn't been a friend to me. I text and call him and sometimes he doesn't reply at all. I'm always initiating and sometimes I'm helping him even though it hurts me. I just want to be there for him, but he doesn't even acknowledge when I do anything for him. He even canceled on me twice when we were supposed to meet up. I haven't suggested hanging out again and he hasn't of course. Why did he change so drastically? I keep putting myself out there and he keeps hurting me over and over. It's painful. This relationship, whatever it is now, is only benefiting him because we both keep putting him first. :( I just can't get myself to stop.
Why did this sweet, shy guy turn into a jerk?
However, since then (and this was a few months ago), he hasn't been a friend to me. I text and call him and sometimes he doesn't reply at all. I'm always initiating and sometimes I'm helping him even though it hurts me. I just want to be there for him, but he doesn't even acknowledge when I do anything for him. He even canceled on me twice when we were supposed to meet up. I haven't suggested hanging out again and he hasn't of course. Why did he change so drastically? I keep putting myself out there and he keeps hurting me over and over. It's painful. This relationship, whatever it is now, is only benefiting him because we both keep putting him first. :( I just can't get myself to stop.
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