Well I realized it yesterday, when one of my best friends asked me who do I really love. I couldn't answer her because I simply didn't know! I flirt with almost 8 people at the same time and none of them know anything about each other. I don't think it should be a problem for them since neither of them is my boyfriend but still I feel guilty when I seek advise about one of my crushes from my friends and they just reply like "which one" I don't actually love any of the guys I talk but I just love the flirting era when both sides act their best, I can't get enough of it! So the question is, is this something everyone does but nobody knows or is it just me being a horny confused teenager?
I can't stop flirting with multiple people, is this normal?
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Yeah I can say for myself that is not normal behavior. I don't think it is for a lot of people. In all honesty it sounds like you just like having your ego stroked. I mean you said yourself you don't actually love any of them. So that must mean you love something else about the situation. Probably the attention you get.
Personally if I found out a girl I was talking to was doing this I wouldn't keep talking to her. It shows she has no interest in me and clearly doesn't care for me and is just using me. Hell even if I found out a girl was doing this to other guys my first thought is she is probably easy, and no one wants to date someone who is easy
So no I don't think everyone does that. I don't think it is normal. And honestly it isn't attractive. You come off as a self centered hoe really. Sorry.
As we go through life we try many people on for size. Sounds to me you are screaming for variety and it doesn't always have to be in a sexual way but deeply looking for other points of view. Your emotions are sporadic at that age so it's normal to be social. This type of behavior can occur many different ways including flirting. So I wouldn't worry about it as long as your intent is pure. Once you cross the line into sexual stuff than YEAH your just a horny teenager.
I been though the same thing. I’m an attention whore 😆😆, to an extend. I just don’t have time to entertain anyone anymore. I am going though divorce and since I’ve lived and delt with men, boyfriends and husband then I’m kinda over it. I get attention to an extend and the it’s over and I’m ok with that. I don’t wanna be touched by anyone or even spoken too. I really just need my space. You are young, enjoy yourself and don’t get pregnant and use condom if you are sexually entertaining more than one guy. Anyways there is nothing wrong with that. Simply enjoy your youth and be yourself and be free.
Put yourself in their shoes, would you want someone to flirt with you and not mean it when you think their serious and like them back? Chances are one of might feel that way and all you're doing is playing games and toying with feelings. So just stop. Flirt when you mean it, not just to kid around.
I think u like the attention without actually having feelings for any of these guys. I'm sure this urge to flirt with various guys will end as soon as you get to love someone, and start a serious relationship.
From your profile picture I never would've guessed that's your personality type... you just seem like the super studious modestly dressed type who only cares about getting an A in her AP classes and not much else. And to me, you look a bit Asian, too... which further emphasizes that.
But nope... you're actually really flirty, lol. 😂
With the personality you described, I usually imagine some sort of preppy blonde girl wearing a crop top and short shorts. 😂
No offense at all, though, of course! I just thought it was sort of funny!
And yes, it's pretty normal, don't worry about it!
If all you are doing is flirting that sounds good. There is nothing wrong with having choices. If you are talking and not in a relationship or having sex, I think you should talk to however many you can keep up with. If you want to have sex or a relationship that is when you need to narrow it down.
You're a horny and confused teenager. But... That's okay. Do you and just enjoy life. However if you truly do want to become more than a flirt with one person. Cut out everyone of the other guys. Make one your focus and make sure he knows he's the one you want. Don't sweat it too much.
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Anonymous
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at your age it's honestly expected I recommend getting away from that as you get older
cause let's say you actually do a relationship and start doing that shit while dating
im gonna be honest YOU CAN GET KILLED
plenty of men and women get killed for cheating as adults and GOD gives a clear warning
Leviticus 20:10 And the man that committeth adultery with another man's wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death
now whether you think its justified or not DOES NOT MATTER you think they will care what you have to say NO!!!
GODS
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word will come to pass he is above the dome so his rules are still play today nothing has changed
Maybe you can't stop because you're afraid that when you focus on only one guy, it will be the wrong choice. 8 guys, however, maybe gives you more options and the feeling that you have less to lose? I don't know. That's just how thought of it. I sort of do it too, but with less guys.
Normal. It's called hypergamy. It's just the way women are. And they are the masters of having a backup plan - even if they have a great guy they'll always have a few others in the wings in case he doesn't work out. It would pay some dividends if they guys would have their own backup plans. Too many are crushed, then cry in their beer cuz they don't understand what happened. If you have a backup plan you simply move on. Easy peasy.
I would never take a girl who flirts with everyone seriously, like i wouldn't be romantically interested in her at all, but i'd see her as fun and she would be a very good friend if her flirts are funny and creative Keep your love and flirts for someone special if you wanna have a good future relationship to make them feel special
I depends on if it’s physical with all 8 guys. Otherwise, unless there’s a label on it that your both aware of then your gooood.
Just be careful because no one likes to be a last resort and when a guy finds out they are, or that there is a line/order of importance, they are more likely to become uninterested
As long as there is no commitment, I believe it's ok to do whatever you wish. And even after starting a real relationship, flirting with other guys could be still an option. If you and your partner are ok with it. I myself love to watch my wife flirt with other guys. It doesn't happen so much, but when it does, I enjoy it and get really aroused!
I used to be like that not sure if its normal but people had told me its just in my nature because I'd flirt even if i don't intend to or realise doing so to late coz of the teasing... Now i just escape everybody with whom I'd tend to flirt.
Whether people admit it or not we've all dome this at one point or another, its normal people are naturally social and anybody would enjoy receiving the affections of another person because its an ego boost and being horney af when your doing it is probably a lot to do with it aswell
You are confused. If you don't like those guy's you shouldn't flirt with them cause they may think that you are in love with them and when they realize that you were just doing that for fun they may be broken down or even get angry with you.
I mean, you CAN, you just choose not to. But I'd say it's normal. Don't pigeonhole yourself into sounding ridiculous though just because of your age; you're not doing it because you're a "teenager," you're doing it because you're human.
It's normal for people to flirt at any age but just be careful because once people think you are a player or promiscious women it's hard to get that out thier head even if it's not true and you just love flirting.
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