+1 yI am not married yet, so I can't really say. But sometimes people are bad at gauging when a guy is just trying to be polite, friendly, and charming and lays on the compliments. And they mistake it for flirting. But then again a lot of married guys probably do straight up flirt. And for them I would just imagine it is because they think it's fun, yet harmless. It's not going to really go anywhere or lead to anything (at least we can hope it doesn't)
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+1 yThe hope of getting sex, or maybe he just finds her attractive and interesting. Whether or not either of those things would result in him leaving his partner is another thing entirely. Usually it doesn't result in that. You get strung along for a while and when you finally want more commitment it's game over.
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@Mado108 The reason that people often cheat rather than leaving their existing relationship is because they have a lot invested in that relationship and it would require some difficult decisions and difficult actions. They'd need to think about divorce, possibly moving house, possibly paying child maintenance, etc. They'd also lose a lot of the comforts that a marriage can bring, even if they are no longer romantically invested in it. People like stability. If he can eat his cake and have it too then why would he not do that?
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yIf it's at work, and you're saying 3 years with no moving forward, he is just manipulating you, messing with your head to get you to work more and better, and cut him more slack. And, he is getting to you!
Deliberately show him that you don't like him and see what his reaction is. He'll either stop flirting and leave you alone, or he'll finally move forward.00 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yLikely he is having marital issues with his wife and isn’t getting any from her. In this case, his dick will point him into the direction of the next possible source of sex. If you are the single woman in this scenario, just know that you deserve more than to be some married man’s side chick.
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+1 ySame reason a married woman would flirt with a single man... people need a boost of confidence and reassurance they are still attractive and wanted, other than what likely is a husband or wife, who doesn’t show appreciation and interest with such sexual intensity, simply because you may look at another person a certain way, often you can’t get that or it won’t be noticed by a spouse and miss it, to feel wanted, and I think people question that behavior too much, what they should question is actual behavior of deceit and cheating, not flirting, flirting gets shit sold and keeps things moving and interesting
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+1 yHe might be in an open marriage, or they might be looking for a threesome, or he might be looking to cheat on his wife, or he might just be a flirt and not mean anything by it (not trying to follow through with sex, just being flirty). Could be any number of reasons all across a spectrum you never know someone until you connect with them and find out.
00 ReplyMy best friends dad who was also my co-worker flirts with every beautiful girl, but when we actually got invited to 'drink some coffee' he said no thanks. I obviously made fun of him for having all that smooth talk but cancels at the last moment. But moral of the story, men just like to flirt especially with beautiful women. Doesn't always mean that the guy wants to cheat.
00 Reply611 opinions shared on Flirting topic. I flirt with married woman because its fun and good practice. You can't mess up with no consequences. I am also someone that would not cross that line of cheating with someone but it is good time if i know about it.
Think of all the crushes you had in life and the weirdness you had around them. You can have crushes and not warp your livelihood around them anymore. It's all in good fun. Also good practice for the young. It's all out the situation that's what the ring is for.04 Reply- +1 y
What if the guy has been doing this for 3 years?
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@will817 i would also say that the grass is always greener on the other side. That's almost my life motto. The only way to be truly happy is accepting what we have right now. I also still follow what i said.
Flirt/play along with neighbors or people with our daily life around you but hold tight to your own plot of home life and honestly see whats in front of ourselfs.
I don't disagree with you will817. It's just how i react to things.
+1 yIt could be a few reasons.
1): He is in a bad relationship
2): His not into you anymore
3): He is in a rut of a relationship
4): He is going through his change (Depending on age)
5): You see now he is a cheater or is beginning to be one
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+1 yHe could be a low character person who is entertaining having an affair or he could be wanting to feel that he is still desirable and that he can still get women to be interested in him vs. I'm married, no other woman except this one would ever have me.
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+1 yI don't know the details but it's often not flirting. It's just him being friendly and because he knows he's married and knows he's taken and knows where his loyalty is he can be more confident. But if he is actually flirting then this is maybe just because he misses it and it's not the same possibly with your wife. And as long as he knows where his loyalty is I wouldn't personally have a problem
00 ReplyVariety. Eventually eating your favorite meal everyday would get stale. If the relationship hasn't been rejuvenated recently he may be just having fun or testing the waters for obtaining a mistress. If your husband is doing this talk to him about it. Spice up the relaionship.
00 ReplyExperience. Planned. Aingst over yearning to talk to someone I am attracted to, a face that becomes more beautiful eceryday, a flame that grows, does not wither. Sexual energy equivalent to bonfires. That's why. Oh. And usuallly an arranged marriage which deranges quauckly.
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+1 yBoredom in his marriage , unhappiness, doesn’t love his wife
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+1 ySome just to see if they maybe still have it , and got a small innocent flirt back, that would be a huge confidence builder. No other level taken.
A married man pressing a flirt and makes a pass etc, is nothing more than a clingy coward. And not worth the taboo thriller00 Reply
+1 ySome men probably have the desire then to do it, with other women, other then their wife. It's discusting and i disliked seeing this one old guy talk on me out of lust, though he was married
00 ReplyCause he's not loyal or he didn't sayisfied with what he has now
20 ReplyBecause he doesn’t respect his wife and is a scumbag
20 ReplyBecause he is unfaithful bitch. You should get rid of him now
00 ReplyThat happened to me on the talklife app. I was actually planning on dating the guy
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HE is a cheater. If not with you he will find a girl to sleep with... then another... and again
+1 yFlirting and having a positive feedback is the best ego booster in da world.
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+1 yTo feel like they can still make a women interested in them. Their relationships might have Cooled off too
20 ReplySometimes, it's fun just to flirt with no real objective in mind... just flirting. Some people, however, flirt with the aim of seduction...
20 ReplyI love exploring women curves, would definitely flirt as many I can. It's awesome experience when getting laid with chicks and I love when they hold mines and sucks lol
00 Reply498 opinions shared on Flirting topic. He is trying to stroke his own ego or else he is looking for side action.
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+1 yFor pleasure and sex... So it's good to stay away from him
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+1 yIs that old thing baby let's try to get in those panties young sweet 19 and then it boils down who the married man is
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+1 yBecause men get easily bored and unless the woman is always trying new things to keep her man interested its only a mater of time.
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It happens. When the excitement fades not all men but a large majority will be overcome by their natural biological urge to breed again. Its the same with most all forms of life...
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Then like I said a b. o. b. =
"battery operated boyfriend" lol.
+1 y# a young woman. You are just 19.
And sure. Just to hook up with you for a night stand and then get back at his wife and cheat. No?00 Reply
+1 yMarried men cheat all the time he flirts cuz he wants to bump some ugly wit her for real 😳 doe!!!
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+1 yBecause he misses flirting, so do i 😅
That might mean he likes his wife but he's not in love anymore00 ReplyDepends - perhaps he's not getting a lot of attention at home? Or because he likes the attention. Possibly harmless behaviour depends what occurs
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+1 yA married man only cheats when he becomes ignorant to the fact that he is not a man, and never intended to be faithful in the first place.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yWhy would a married man flirt with a married woman? that is the question?
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+1 yForbidden fruit. Also my wife just told me a month ago she wants a divorce and took my kid and moved 16 hours away so I don't feel guilty about hitting on someone to try and get out of my depression
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+1 yBecause just because they're married doesn't mean they're blind or stupid.
00 Replyit makes him feel good, like he may still be attractive and interesting to the opposite sex.
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+1 yEither he uses it to break the ice or, most probably, he's a sleazebag jerkwad who wants to get freaky with a 'side hoe'
00 ReplyBecause he sufferes lack of commitment. And he wants to test the waters
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+1 yCoz he wanna get attention and see if he is still likeable
00 ReplyFor some, it's their personality and doesn't mean they want to cheat. It's harmless and not meant to be a sexual advance.
00 ReplyThat's how guys are they so annoying sometimes when they do that
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+1 yI been going through this for three years going on for four he's married.
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+1 yCuz deep inside no man wants to get married but only fools
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+1 yTo maybe fuck her!! Do you wonder how his cock would feel?
00 ReplyExcitement, not having happy marriage or being bored.
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As I said excitement. For example when you buy a toy and have it around you start to love it. After some time you want something new because although still loving the toy it doesn't provide the excitement from the time when you bought it. And then you buy a new one. Sorry for the comparison but it's like that for many people. .
some people just flirt naturally.
20 ReplySome “flirting” is just friendly banter.
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No it isn't.
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There is no such thing, and it is wrong.
+1 yCause he's an asshole
What else?00 Reply559 opinions shared on Flirting topic. Because he's a scumbag with no moral character.
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+1 yhe's a disloyal jerk thats why.
00 Reply Bc he has lost interest in his wife
00 Reply1K opinions shared on Flirting topic. Wants to cheat or is flirting for fun who knows
00 ReplyMany reasons, none of them a good reason.
00 Replybecause its fun to flirt in general
10 ReplyBECAUSE HE IS BORED !!
00 ReplyAre you flirt with a married man? 😱
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No way! I only see him as a friend of mine. I fully respect his marriage with his wife.
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He's a co-worker.
Because he feels bored with his wife. Maybe
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yHe wants to get in her knickers. Nothing more.
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+1 yHe’s thinking of cheating on his wife.
00 ReplyHigh testestorone hormones ;)
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+1 yBecause he is a piece of shit
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+1 yHe wants sex because he isn't getting it at home
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+1 yBecause he's a piece of shit
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