The concept of "she/he is out of your league", does it exist in the real world? (Page 3)
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I'd say if you think someone is out of your league then you need to keep working on yourself. And it's not about looks. There's plenty of people that are sexy trainwrecks. Consistency, integrity, self confidence, that's what matters.
Among superficial people with closed minds, yeah, you'll have some people that will never give you a chance just based on stupid standards.
The people that are really worth your time will look at you for who you are. I could be really rich and famous but if a stuttering woman in the double-digits I. Q range had good compatibility with me then I would still give her a shot.
Out of your league. Most people judge this by looks. Nothing to do with that at ALL (unless your in grade school), it usually comes down to money. But being on dating apps and things, it's not really out of their league. Mabye she has seen you before and said your "way out of my league". It nEver hurts to try and see
Generally speaking, women are hypergamous and their dating preferences tend to be more like requirements. You have to be so tall, make so much money, have sexual experience, be outgoing, funny, good-looking, and on and on. For guys, the only requirement is that she has a vagina. If she has that then 99% of men will make allowances on their dating preferences.
So my answer is that dating out of your league is not really a thing for women, but it's definitely a thing for men.
Cause girls like big cocks hun that's y it's all about the handjob if we have sex or not is that to blunt. And I bet ur a white boy awww I mean I'm white also just I kno when my parents only allowed me to date white boys I was like 13 to 17 and believe me I understand u but yeh when I seen a Black mans cock unbelieveable i fell in love i guess u know how u boys always say u want a virgin or a tight girl well black cock makes us feel the same way maybe alil better lol
You sound like that girl I saw at that trailer park a couple weeks back huffing gas out of a garbage can.
@stacperter ok act like u never fantasized about a black dick in u while u where master baiting and while havin sex w ur boyfriend ever girl does hun stop lying and playin w these little white boys head like that ur mean
at least I am honest and not fake like u.
U gold digging bitch yeh yeh every girl knows the girl code u r usin blacks dick for pleasure and white boys for money. That is so old and lame we all know bitches like u
Ur just like my dad bitch races till a black man comes in the room
Srry TRUTH IS GIRLS LIKE BIG DICKS LIKE REAL MEN DICKS WHY IS THAT SO HARD FOR U GUYS TO COMPREHEND SRRY THEY HAD SEGREGATION SO a lot OF WHITE GIRLS didn't KNOW BACK THEN BUT KNOW WE DO AND THATS WHY 65% OF WHITE GIRLS R NOW DATING BLACK GUYS NOT WHITE BOYS CAUSE NOW WE KNOW AND U can't STOP US AND THERE DICKS aren't CIRCUMSIZED LIKE U PROPER WHITE BOYS
The Truth Hurts but blame ur law makers back then that were all little dick white boys
B. S. A REAL study:
"A study of Nigerian men in 1985 measured over 300 men age 17 to 23 and found the average length of a flaccid penis to be 3.47 inches, which is almost one inch shorter than the average flaccid length."
Not every girl is going to be into black dudes just for cock size lol
Out of my league, no. Differences I can or cannot handle, yes. Everything is unique to it's own situation.
That’s why I hate Tinder. A few pictures is a horrible way to like or dislike (or super-like) someone.
Yes. It does exist. It's the reason so many women are single and can't find men. They think they're entitled to prince charming when 1) they're not that pretty 2) they're fat 3) they're not that interesting and 4) they don't have much to offer. Lots of guys will go with what they can get.
I would disagree with this. I think it's the exact opposite. So many women are single because most guys think they are out of his league, so like you said at the end, guys will go with what they can get.
So they sit around and fantasize about prince charming because none of the guys they know has the balls to ask them out.
@lavarule "none of the guys they know has the balls to ask them out." - This is the same tired ass line that women use when they're around a group of guys an none of them ask them out. 23 isn't that young so I"m sure you have experienced. You mean to tell me you've never checked out a girl's ass or tits that you had no intention of asking out because you know she's a bitch? It's really sad how we've become a society were women a LITERALLY never wrong.
And you've never met some girl close to half your age that was super hot and were too much of a wuss to make a move? Really? I'm glad you are such a stud.
The reason I disagree is just the premise that it has to do with the whole "league" concept. Sure, they want prince charming and they have all the deficiencies you list, but that's just an excuse. If a less attractive guy would have enough confidence they would fall for him.
Who said women were never wrong? Women play games and want guys to prove themselves. That's as old as time. Is it wrong? Probably, and I think it's changing. The problem in our society isn't that women are never wrong, it's that guys are told they are always wrong and it screws with their head.
@lavarule "And you've never met some girl close to half your age that was super hot and were too much of a wuss to make a move? Really? I'm glad you are such a stud." - who said this? I don't date girls half my age. I don't go lower than 27.
Now you are just splitting hairs. Why don't you date younger? Are they out of your league?
@lavarule No, I'm 35 and don't go below 27 because I never want to be that creepy crusty older guy slobbering after young girls. That's nasty. Also if I dated a 21 year old we'd be of different time periods in terms of music, TV, culture etc...
When you look like I do 98% of women won't even talk to you and get enraged when you just say hello to them.
Fat/Thin... Ugly/Pretty It doesn't matter
So, yes, There are many who are "out of my league."
I don't really believe in this "league" thing. I saw some very gorgeous girls over here dating (in my opinion) unattractive guys. It's all about what you find attractive, interesting, what you simply like. And chemistry does a lot too.
It's real, but "she's out of MY" league is much more common. Men disqualify themselves from approaching the HAWT ONEZ because they figure they would stand no change. Result: Many of the HAWT ONEZ only end up getting fucked by arrogant assholes when they would really love some nerd (who can make them laugh) to worship them forever.
It's a theoretical idea. For some it serves as a useful measure to help them find a compatible partner, for others, it has the opposite effect.
To question its existence is like to ask whether a vector truly exists
While it might not be true for some. I find myself trying to talk to women who are the NLC West and I'm the AFC North. Nit only are they not in my league, it's not even the same sport.
It's definitely a real thing but fortunately most people fall in the "average" category.
I try anyway. I've made some very attractive friends.
Definitely.
Hell even got a woman I've been nice too ( because she got me out of a terrible situation, without even noticing how much), told me that She was out of my league ( I didn't even try , that was really awkward.)
well I've always been bullied and every time I went to get a girlfriend everyone us to beat me up for it and im not to brag im quite handsome and now have a girlfriend but there is no league if you like a girl for both her looks and her personality and you can go out if you treat her very specially. now you don't have to listen to my 13 year old self but just don't downgrade your self like i did.
thanks Corey R
I dont believe in this at all, I've dated women as u would say that are " way out of my league" any guy can swoon a girl just be being himself and a gentleman it's about what's inside not the outside!! Just be u and the right women will like u for who u are
No I don’t think anyone can be out your league. But you do have to fit each other obviously. On a psychological level
You shouldn’t say he/she is out of your league because you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take so why don’t you just take the shot what do you have to lose and a NO isn’t that bad and you tried at least and yeah maybe she/he said no there will be other girls/guys out there like the saying goes “there’s plenty of fish in the sea” so instead of saying “ah she/he is out of my league” why don’t you put yourself out there and see what happens