I am talking about the idea that a girl or guy can be so pretty/handsome, smart and fun that they are simply out of someone's league. In other words, you wouldn't have (much of) a chance to date them even if you tried. I started wondering this when Tinder make me play the "Super like game". They selected 4 girls, and I could superlike one of them. One of those girls had great pictures, she looked amazing. But instead of wanting to superlike her, I felt as though she was out of my league. "She probably gets 10 matches a day, why would she care about just another super like?" I thought. I now realize that's a rather silly way to think, since I'm assuming a lot of things about her based on only her pictures. I wondered if other people have had similar experiences, where they felt as though someone was out of their league.

Yes, it exists, unfortunately... that's why unrequited love exists :(

Some people are just too different to be together.

Nah, "leagues" are a state of mind. A bad one.

Yes, that concept does exist in real world.

That kind of thinking gets nobody laid.

I've always found this phrase quite silly

Not really, but people think it does.

" She is out of your league exists"

"Out of my league" is a state of mind.

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Yes, it exists, unfortunately... that's why unrequited love exists :(

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Some people are just too different to be together.

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Nah, "leagues" are a state of mind. A bad one.

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Yes, that concept does exist in real world.

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That kind of thinking gets nobody laid.

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I've always found this phrase quite silly

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Yes it does, in my opinion

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Anonymous
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Not really, but people think it does.

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" She is out of your league exists"

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"Out of my league" is a state of mind.

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I'm out of your league.

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Anonymous
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Most guys are way out of my league XP :(

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- Zsazsabear
  
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  Hey you x nobody is out of your league, the league dos'nt exist, it's a made up euphemism that signifies a certain aesthetic folk have in mind in comparison to how others look
  It's just plain ol judgement. . its not real
  How you feel about yourself is the one most attractive feature you can have, would you tell your best friend that "Most guys are way out of my league" I bet not... don't be so hard on yourself xxx
  
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It over exist and I refuse to say more.

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i find online dating stupid.

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I don't think looks are as much as personality

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Everyone seems out of my league

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Definitely

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I don't know I always thought like this

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sophieea Follow
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I don't really believe in it.

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Yes, it does.

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Definitely..

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pooper89 Follow
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It’s relative

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Sketti Follow
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No. It's silly

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LegateLanius Follow
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No, it doesn't.

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CT_CD Follow
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Yes, definitely

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Yes, definitely

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It's a ugly truth!

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no way

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Nochange Follow
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It does

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It depends

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No comment

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Anonymous
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Indeed

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