Should I take her on a snowboarding date?

[Anonymous]

so there's this girl...we're not dating but we're close...

I was thinking of taking her snowboarding. is this a good idea?

I don't think she's ever gone, so I thought it would be fun, and romantic...for example, waiting up for her and stuff, teach her how to snowboard, give her tips, cuddle her if she's cold. I think it could be cute.. it would be romantic going in for the kiss on top of the mountain

Thanks.

[ArtistBboy]

You have great intentions, but I'm going to have you answer your own question based on these tips:

Is she the adventurous type? Sometimes women who are shy/introverts/etc will often find a million reasons of why NOT to go; a little bone for you is to find a way to make it not-so awkward (hence why on "trips" like this -> either you are going with a group, or you've known each other for a while).

Is she the outgoing girl? if so -> Kissing her on the mountain top should be fine but realize that if she's not the outgoing type (shy/etc) then she'll probably want a more private environment (a place without an audience, like your cabin).. Most ski resorts I know of have a lot of tourists, so it's hard to find a secluded place. If not the top of the mountain, try going down the hill a little way.

Do you KNOW for a fact she likes you? If not -> don't ruin the suprise! Instead build the tension. If you take her on a trip (and she thinks you guys are friends) the whole trip is going to be awkward. IF you know (for a fact) that she is interested, then you don't have to worry about this at all BUT if you have any reason to doubt she likes you -> You should find ways to make her enjoy the trip and just have fun, to break out of her shell AND WHILE YOUR DOING THAT -> Find ways to communicate SUBTLE interest.. Like when you guys are preparing at the top of the hill, say "you have something on your jacket, here let me get that" and move in reasonably close (like you would kiss her, but don't tilt your head).. Doing these types of things builds a vibe with women that says: "I'm interested, proceed".. Women are receptive, if they don't feel the same vibe, they'll push you away. If they do though, heh.. I'll leave out the spoiler ;D

Other than that, just enjoy yourself and be relaxed. I think it would be a killer idea and I'll add it to my list of things I wanna try in the future.

Summary:

The area I think you'll have problem in is getting her to join

The area I think you're misinterpreting is her level of interest (VIBE MORE!)

Good luck man,

ArtistBBoy

[drummerdude25]

Snowboarding is so much fun! I'd love to take a girl I was into on a snowboarding date... I've always thought it'd be a good idea. Too bad my bindings are broken lol.

Go for it man!

[LotsoSmiles]

That sounds like so much fun! Go for it! It's funny because I totally want this guy to ask me on the same date. Literally. I want him to take me snowboarding because I know he's good at it and I've never gone before, and he's super cute.

Good luck!

[MissUhLexUh]

I think if she's into the outdoors or trying something new, then this is an awesome idea for a date. Just realize that you'll probably have to kiss her on the bunny hill instead of the mountain, if this is her first time snowboarding, haha.

[alexablack]

That actually sounds like such a fun date! Good idea, I hope you guys have fun :).

[Anonymous]

you def should! it sounds like a great idea! I'm a shy girl and this kinda date wouldn't be awkward because you guys will always have something to talk about! Do it! and its really sweet too.

[alicen483]

i don't think you should. I mean, you're going on the bunny hill. lame. plus shell llook like a baby going down.. I wouldn't wanna fall in front of a boy I'm into.

[Anonymous]

How'd it go? Advice for others?