He actually hugged his ex girlfriend in front of me?!

[someonexxx]

I like a boy in school who's older and he's always flirting or staring he told people we're going out. I went away for the winter; he had statuses that made it kinda obvious ... Since I came back though he's been ignoring me?! He actually hugged his ex girlfriend in front of me LITERALLY. As far as I know he used her & he said in front of me loudly that he hated her she thinks she's all that and he wanted to slap her up but HE HUGGED HER IN FRONT OF ME?! WTF IS HIS GAME?!

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Awkward had to be right next to her today and we both looked at each other like WTF ...

[htowngeorge]

It could be a couple of things. If you went away for that long it could be that don't want you to know and that he's not goanna let you know it bothered him by your being away. At one time he may have been completely heart broken over it. And he may be trying to project to you that --he can get by-- and nothing bothered him, or at least he don't want you to know it did. Or it could be that he figured you were gone and he moved on. If you really liked him then and you still do, you could slip him a note. If you're afraid he'd take advantage of that and make you look bad in front of everyone, his friends, the school, and he's type of person, get a friend to write the note for you. That way if he tried something like that in front of everyone you could always say --- HEY THAT ISN'T My HAND WRITING YOU GOT THEIR BUD, AND DON'T YOU WISH I WROTE IT?!

[htowngeorge]

It could be a couple of things. If you went away for that long it could be that don't want you to know and that he's not gonna let you know it bothered him by your being away. At one time he may have been completely heart broken over it. And he may be trying to project to you that --he can get by-- and nothing bothered him, or at least he don't want you to know it did. Or it could be that he figured you were gone and he moved on. If you really liked him then and you still do, you could slip him a note. If you're afraid he'd take advantage of that and make you look bad in front of everyone, his friends, the school, and he's type of person, get a friend to write the note for you. That way if he tried something like that in front of everyone you counld always say --- HEY THAT ISN'T MY HAND WRITING YOU GOT THER BUD, AND DON'T YOU WISH I WROTE IT?!

[someonexxx]

Lol thanks!

[falendove]

Did she approach him/talk to him first? Because I know I do that to my ex boyfriends who are with their girls if were on good terms because I like them knowing that I had them first (I'm a bitch sometimes, ESP with guys.) Anyway! He might have started talking to her while you were gone, so you better get that sh*t on check!

[someonexxx]

Ohhh I see! Well they were both standing waiting for their lesson along with their class. And thank you!

[tater11]

he's a loser, id forget about him, something better will come along. and I don't think you did anything wrong. He just wants some attention from you, wants you to be upset or something. don't pay any attention to him. just wait for someone more attractive and nice. and rub him in his face.

[someonexxx]

AGREEEEED!

Thanks :)

[ScarlettBingo]

I would bit my tounge and just try to take the pain he giving you! If he's worth it and the good out rules the bad then maybe talk to him and try to forget about what's happened? but if its the oppisite then I wouldn't stay! some people just don't get it do they!? ha ha !

[Anonymous]

Dump him same thing happened to me I was with thiz guy for 2 years and I went for vacation and he thout I moved there so he deleted me off fb and was so harsh and when I wanted to contact him he would never talk to me and he ruined my vacation I came bavk after 3 months now he is contacting me but tellinv me to moveon when I haven't even talked to him at all for 2 months! He wanted to use me but I am not like those dumb girls just dump him babe ull be better off and you don't wanna be his rebound becoz once a relationship is over there is no way to look back specially when your girlfriend is around and he did that so forget bout it! Dump him!

[Pyrusmole]

I think your reading too much into it. Did he tell her to her face that he hated her? If he didn't then he is probably trying to keep on friendly terms with the girl, smiling at her and being friendly while secretly disliking her. I've seen it happen all the time. There could be many reasons as to why he did this, and not all of them have to do with you. I really don't think it's anything you should be worried about tho.

[someonexxx]

Thanks. and yeah, he was proper swearing at her ...

[OhDangLetsBang]

UHM . DOUCHED BAG ALERT. No offense lmfao . But I think he was a little heart broken that you left him. But that doesn't give him a f***ing right to hug a girl . Even worse in front of you . Confront him about that ASAP , he was the one the liked you and claimed yall were going out . He wouldn't get away with that if that was my boyfriend . No way lmfao . GOOOD LUCK :d

[someonexxx]

I like that advice! Lol thanks!

[Pyrusmole]

Wow, that's a little harsh, dontcha think? It's just a hug. It's not like he pushed her away, got down on his hands and knees and asked his ex to marry him. He hugged her, maybe because his ex was expecting a hug for a greeting. I noticed this with a lot of the girls answers. I don't see any reason to be so jealous about something like that. It's not exactly detrimental towards the relationship nor does it make him a douchebag.

[someonexxx]

Thing is, if I talk to a guy he gets very very jealous, so if I hug a guy I could imagine his reaction ... he shouldn't do that to me. Even my friend was like; there's a lot of flirting there before he hugged her, its like he's trying to deliberately hurt me, and he wasn't flirting with his ex but he was flirting with all the girl!

[OhDangLetsBang]

truee , but still its the thought of it that annoys me , I don't think its rightt ;/

[Cupcakecutie0]

Your assuming the worst. Quit thinking negative and get over it. You say you two are together so why should he be punished for your insecurity!

[someonexxx]

I normally wouldn't be so concerned but he is LITERALLY ignoring me! He just doesn't even look!

[Cupcakecutie0]

Then you did something really wrong. Go ask him.

[someonexxx]

Ohhh. Come to think of it I think I know what I did \:

Thanks though!

[JustDance]

what did you do?

[someonexxx]

Welli think the reason is because I was talking& flirting with other guys on facebook because it was on my facebook wall and then he put his status as people are dumb these days OMGOMG. But so was he even if he deleted them I still saw it!

[calmmie]

oh my god, he is trying to make you jealous. I bet you did something wrong in front him. Think about what you did wrong to make him his feeling hurt. This could go nasty so make it clean before it gets worse.

[someonexxx]

Thank you!

[rallz93]

This might seem a little weird , but you should read Megan Meade's Guide to the McGowan Boys - Kate Brian , it might help you a little in boys understandinmg .

[someonexxx]

Thank you!

[JKLivinLily]

he sounds like a nut job. seriously. who the hell does that?

find someone else. he looks like someone who likes to play mind games and you could get really hurt.

[someonexxx]

It's been a year. & trust whenever I leave him he tries hard to get me back.

[TwistedLogic]

Well, maybe he's trying to get you hooked and then "slap you up".

[someonexxx]

What do you mean?

[WakaFlocka]

stop over analyzing its a goddam a hug. its not like he ate her snatch or anything calm the hell down

[someonexxx]

Yeah I've moved on from that he's a jerk anyway.

[brianccc]

Its was probably one of those fake hugs that like "I'm acting like I actually care about how things are in your life!" he didn't ask how she was doing and give a really insincere smile did he?

[someonexxx]

Well it wasn't a tight hug, he didn't say anything and he didn't have an expression on his face lol.

[enlightenment]

don't hate each other...this dude is the problem, not her or you

[someonexxx]

Yeah because of him me & her have an awkward thing between us.

[noman01]

cmon, its just a hug and it can be any who you hug

i mean any1 whu you actually know

no worries, tell him if you like him

cheers ;)

[Anonymous]

its a HUG...get over it!

[JustDance]

Not like he squeezed her boobs ha ha not that that's not fun to do

[someonexxx]

Erghh lol. That's grooce LOOL. The sight of that ewwhhr. I know she has a boyfriend though and they broke up months ago.

[Opinion Owner]

well a hug is not a big deal

[someonexxx]

I hope so ... !

[gracieee]

you're in between the ages of 18 and 24?

[someonexxx]

Nah I'm 14.

[SuckerPunch]

haha

[gracieee]

that explains everything

[someonexxx]

Haha, what di you mean?

[SuckerPunch]

DEAR GOD... HE HUUUUUUUUUUGGED HER?

[someonexxx]

Yeeeeeeees!

[Arinice]

if you want the answer , you'd better ask him why.