Did he break up with me?

[Diya1014]

What does it mean when a boy says that he doesn’t have his shit together and I could do me because he’s not worth my energy? Then he said I’m too good to cry about it. was this a break up? Plus I was supposed to see him this month but he never talks about the trip and anytime I try to talk about it he doesn’t say about it like when to book the ticket or that he’s excited. He always makes LOTS of time for his friends, social media, music videos, hanging out and video games. I also caught him posting one of the girls he follows face and cleavage often. He doesn’t love me? He drinks codeine does this have anything to do with his behavior?

[bobalife]

Is he your boyfriend or just some guy you’re talking to? Either way, he don’t sound like the right guy nor worth investing in long-term. I’m sorry, it’s hurtful though… yes it is break up words. When someone tells you that he’s not worth your energy or don’t have his shit together to be with you, believe them and let them go. You want someone who’s willingly to stay, make it work, and be ready for you. The last guy I was seeing said something similar to this…. What did I do? Simply let him go despite it hurts. And until now (after almost 2 months) he’s still trying to talked to me like over 7 times, which I’m not really responding to him. Just know your worth and what you’re looking for, which ain’t this.

[Diya1014]

He said he was my boyfriend and I was his girl and he loved me and wants a future with me. He said he wanted to see me this month but never actually talks about it happening. Then says that he thinks I’m too good to care about stuff like this. He spends ALL his time with his friends and video games. Why tell me you want me of you aren’t serious? I’m confused here.

[bobalife]

How long were you guys together? I understand, that’s how I feel about my first boyfriend at your age. Honestly, he’s just not the guy for you. One day you’ll look back and thank him for breaking up with you because you’ll meet better guys.

[Interstate]

Guys say that, Diya to put the Woman in awe so she stays in the picture. Guys who say that... take it with a grain of salt unless you have known them for years!

[Diya1014]

@Interstate It’s been 6 years.

[bobalife]

Sighs oh dear.. @Diya1014 6 years is very long, I’m so sorry for how he treated you and the relationship in the end. You deserve so much more from him 😕

[Interstate]

And all that time wasted, too without even having a clue what was coming (that's what she said) 😞

[Interstate]

I would definitely say he has had second thoughts about things between the two of you, or he has met somebody else, or is taking somebody else. Honestly, I would move on and not make an attempt to talk to him unless he speaks to you first. Otherwise, you are too good for him.

[Mofunfour20]

Let him go. Those are break up words indeed. Let him fix his life, he deserves to be well and at peace with himself, right?