With that being said I have read some articles and watched some videos and they all repeat the same things : when a woman breaks up with you she is testing you (sometimes she doesn't even realize and thinks she doesn't like you) to see what you're made of and when she sees you handled the break up well and kept your cool, and maintained high confidence and dignity and didn't obsses over getting her back, her respect and attraction for you will grow considerably.
Now iam a logical person, and to me when a woman initiates a break up its cause one of these three reasons :
1- She never felt any love towards him and doesn't see herself being with him long term.
2- She found someone better before she could get emotionally attached to the guy.
3- he was abusive/loser/has no ambitions and basically a bad deal all together.
your thoughts and ideas? can you remeber when you broke up with a guy what went through your mind and how true is this statement everyone keeps repeating about the break up being a test to see how the guy handles it (even if she doesn't realize that she is actually testing him ) .
And a bonus question : Do women ever try going back to a guy they broke up with?
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