Who do you think has it worse? attractive women or attractive men? (Page 2)

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Now I know what you are thinking: What could possibly be bad about being hot?Ill tell you.For the primary reason of displaying qualities to a woman who he has to approach and get to know. Mainly because 90% of women won't approach a man, even if that man is so hot that brad pitt saw him and in a jealous rage he kills himself.Doesn't matter. in fact, the mere fact that he's hot usually makes it LESS likely that she's going to approach.And the ones that do are going to be rude, and treat him like a leper. Merely BECAUSE of his looks. He's suddenly "a player" and then when he opens his mouth and they find out he's shy, suddenly she treats him bad not because of his looks, but rather because he's shy, or "boring"Now if he's average or bad looking, she's going to be nice to him, he's "safe".And if he displays characteristics of being not shy, suddenly he's attractive.Attractive women don't have these problems but attractive men do.Really attractive women have grown up being attractive and have things handed to them. Cars, money, men. Etc.Its the thing where if you were lets say a famous billionaire, you would always think that they only reason why a woman is interested in you is because you are a famous billionaire. If you one day became old news and lost all your money shed dump you in 2 seconds.Not only that, you begin to suspect all of your "friends" you think that the only reason people get to know you as a friend is to sponge off of your celeb status.Same thing goes for hot women. They assume that all men want them because they are attractive. Its worse for them than your average woman who, lets say doubts their attractiveness.While its true that the hottest women are usually the MOST insecure about their looks, but ironically they still think this way.Its a dichotomy that they are not mentally aware of.Personalities are usually a result of life experiences. Its the old saying that "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" and "it builds character"Well if you have no trials and everything is given to you because of your god given genes? well then personality is going to be an issue.Meaning your aren't going to have one.Except for many of these really hot women who simply have a negative one towards men, which typically, the older they get the worse it becomes.Men consistently dump them and get tired of sleeping with them, and the woman blames the man for being a pig... however, never realizing it was her fault for having simply nothing else to offer.No one wants to stay with  a woman after sex if she's acting like a total bitch.The men want to stay because of her looks but ends up dumping her because they just can't take it anymore.Unfortunately many of these women will blame the man and think they don't have to change because again, they think "that's the way men are" and why change when men are still coming to me?So they get old, lose looks, and marry a loser, or die alone.But we all have our crosses to bear.

SocietysBomb · Answer

it all depends on the experience each person has gone thru

Anonymous · Answer

Seriously, what men are giving women cars? Really? Do you know anyone?  Because I've heard it before, but never seen it once. Maybe I just run in different circles.

sweet_18 · Answer

Women. Because we're more likely to get used or manipulated by men.

islands7 · Answer

Attractive women Past: read some WWII jewish stories, et al. Present:  talk to some models

Anonymous · Answer

attractive woman + no respect to herself = whore, attractive men + show off = asshole> LOL

probabilist · Answer

Lol, great biased question dude - love the way you called all that out...

Yeahhbro · Answer

Yeah I know what you mean dude, finally someone understand my pain!

Anonymous · Answer

I disagree at the 90% of women won't approach a guy.  Girls always hit on me and approach me.  I'm shy and they do it.  I'm in college it happens in the classes, getting food, anywhere.

jkjk123 · Answer

there is nothing bad about being attractive, whether you are a man or a woman.  would you rather be ugly? I think not.

Anonymous · Answer

Attractive women. They have to worry about their looks and maintain them. Attractive guys usually don't do sh*t.

Anonymous · Answer

What about: Which has it worst, the nice guy or the indepent woman?

faraday · Answer

Attractive men, because they have to spend all their money on women.

Anonymous · Answer

Women! Men just want to get in their pants or have a trophy GF/Wife. Other women hate you or want to use you to attract men.

Anonymous · Answer

woman because they are normally weaker and can be taken advantage of...and guys usually make the moves

Chickypoo · Answer

Holy wow! Looks like someone needed to rant! lol

daswissbeats · Answer

Yeah to add to that if your a good looking guy, girls could play hard to get just to see how much you really want them...jeees

Anonymous · Answer

attractive women because drunks or jerks will try to just use the girl...people always asume they are just looks and no brains AND they can get raped easier/ get more stalkers...

kysalle · Answer

Attractive women, because men think they are fair game.

-StillWater- · Answer

Attractive women most definitely.

DirtyDlish · Answer

Woman duh! too easy. Cause its not hard for me lol

pandaninja · Answer

ugly people and fat people

Anonymous · Answer

ugly girls have it worse

rocksongwriter · Answer

I don't see how either one of them have it rough.

brianccc · Answer

I'd love to be like that

Anonymous · Answer

Tough question, no clear answer.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on the circumstances.

Premonition_1 · Answer

Attractive men

destroyer · Answer

Beauty is a curse

ROSiiELoU12 · Answer

women.

Anonymous · Answer

Ales since there's so many fem

Anonymous · Answer

great question

Shadoww · Answer

? ? ?

nymets35 · Answer

attractive men

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