
What makes a woman and a man instantly unattractive?


Any addiction like smoking, drinking, drugs. If she's short-tempered, prone to screaming at others, being disrespectful to me and others. If she claims that love is defined by amounts of money, gifts and flowers a man gives to her.
Full of herself, smoker, covered in tattoos or piercings, promiscuous
If they're too dependent on me to make them happy, too clingy, lazy, have no goals in life, can't hold a conversation, cursing, and always horny🤢🤢
smoking, drug use, bad temper, lying, fucks any woman with a hole, doesn't work out, bad hygiene, arrogance, no sense of humor.
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Being crazy
A nasty or stuck up attitude, how they treat and talk to others
- Smoking
- Drug use or drunkenness (I'm okay with occasional social drinking)
- Shallowness
- Toxicity - tearing down other people to try to feel better about herself.
- Fiscal irresponsibility, especially if she hopes to use my money to enable her.
- Mental/emotional instability.
- Being hypersensitive and always looking to be offended.
- Being a SJW or radical leftist.
Any of those things will have me moving on down the road very quickly.
Bitchiness and selfishness. It used to turn me on in college in a sort of narcissistic way. Like I wanted to conquer her and make her submissive and nice, but to only me. Felt like more of an accomplishment and I felt girls like that would be more loyal. Now that I'm older, and more mature, it's just extremely off putting to me.
Lying, being two-faced/gossips a lot if they're abusive to animals/people, if they're stuck up and are rude to waiters and whatnot...
Sexual history, party lifestyle, progressive politics, disparaging my interests, refuses to approach and anything else that involves not meeting me half-way when it comes to relationships and whatnot, being interested in status or wealth, being entitled.
Lots of things can - that's why you DATE in the first place.
And a relationship doesn't need a break - if you can't make it work TOGETHER you sure as hell can't make it work apart.
If there isn't passion and desire, it's DOA. NEXT!!
Negative demeanour. Can't find a girl attractive no matter how good she looks if she has no aspirations to make something of herself!
What comes out of their mouth. I have met women I thought were hot but after 5 minutes of talking to them I was completely turned off.
If she laughs at/ bullies someone, especially behind their back, especially if they're younger or weaker than her.
(1) Racism (2) Religious fanaticism (whether evangelicals or new age wiccans)(3) arrogance (4) Conservative political beliefs (5) cruelty
Rudeness and arrogance!
Usually what makes a man unattractive for me is his attitude, lack of maturity, lack of sense of humor, and perhaps his lack of intelligence.
using drugs, being an alcoholic, bad hygiene, disrespecting others
Radical feminists i wish girls didn't constantly bring that stuff up it like i dont want here that shit
Eating with his mouth open! and smacking his lips while he eats!!
If she treats others badly, it's an instant turnoff.
A woman, when she loses her elegant sense of style and resorts to dressing lazily and ugly to please her loser friends
A man, basically the same as above 😜
After being together and maybe bashing each other after an argument cause you both know more about each other flaws can cause it to happen.
easy, disrespectful, full of hate, close minded, jobless, without any ambitions or plans
Basically everything everyone’s already mentioned along with a short temper, lack of empathy and superiority complex.
Stupidity and smoking. Both are such turnoffs it's not even funny
Religious
Dumb, irrational, illogical
Mean, rude, arrogant
Materialistic
Immaturity, shallowness, drugs, being disrespectful and a lot of other things
Making fun of you to someone else in front of you, smoking, not taking you seriously.
Them thinking that they can control me, and drug use
Women who are rude controlling tells someone what too do but don’t like when someone tell them what to do
1. Too much makeup. Yuk.
2. Doesn't like kids. Defective.
Overreacting for everything, doing unusual things to get attention.
A woman is instantly unattractive if her ego is too high or she is too serious
They demand I adhere to gender roles so they can get me to buy things for them
Poor genetics, social alienation, low social status, etc.
Immaturity.
Sexual promiscuity.
Dishonesty. Instant turnoff.
near constant negativity, a superior attitude.
Being mean to someone or being rude
lying, vanity, disrespect.
Reeking like an ash tray.
elaborate sexual past and promiscuity.
I hate guys that aren't chivalrous.
bad towards others being nean to my friends
Being Self-centered, rude, and arrogant
She mean also bad hygiene.
Also they are racist.
Abusive and Disrespectful Behaviour
Promuscuity
Short height
Usually there running mouth
Smoking!
Being cocky or rude.
Nothing.
asymmetrical face
Rudeness
Being a feminist.
Attitude
Their personalitie
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