Shy 19 year old guy whose never had a date?

Is there any advice from girls mainly but guys are more than welcome to answer that can be given to a guy like me. Lets see here I'm a 19 year old shy guy whose never had a girlfriend or never even asked a girl out. But there is a girl I regret not asking out in high school. I know I need to be more social and talk to girls more but I don't even know where to start. I am a Christian and at the church I go to one of my teachers said something about speed dating I thought I try that and hopefully that will work out. If that doesn't work does anyone have any other ideas. I am trying to stay on the positive side and keep saying to myself it will just take time before I get a girlfriend but there is a part of me that says I am just gonna end up a virgin until the day I die.

I have been trying to start dressing better not that I have been wearing any worn out clothes but just dressing better and using some cologne to try and get girls attention. Not to brag and I really am not trying to brag but I did get one girl to tell me I looked good today but not the girl I wanted to here that from, she is married already.

Hopefully speed dating will help me find a date but if that doesn't work out what else is there I am on a dating site right now. I thought about facebook. I don't have a facebook least not right now. Anybody know of another idea where I can meet other ladies that live around me.

Also I have searched questions similiar to the one I'm asking and most of them say I need to have confidence. I am far from confident and I don't know if I can even be confident of myself.

Thanks for taking the time to read this and for your help
Shy 19 year old guy whose never had a date?
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