Well, moral views for one. Maybe he is very shy (just because your attractive doesn't mean you can't be shy), maybe he is looking for the right woman and has either given up or is very picky to the point where he is single. As for social media, not every one has it, not every one wants it. Hell I didn't have any social media for most of my life (just the past four years or so) so it could be his temperament. Just because a guy is attractive doesn't mean his behavior is predetermined by it.(hell it could be he was a late bloomer and he just didn't have it sink in yet (some times that happens, the guy lives his life as the ugly guy and then gets in shape what have you and he still sees himself as unattractive (happens to women to)).
He's single because he hasn't found a partner; being capable of attracting people doesn't mean you're attracted to them.
He doesn't have social media because not everyone bought in to social media; plus he could just have private accounts. Social media seems pretty cancerous - I'm nowhere near as attractive as him, but I don't have social media because it seems superficial. If I want to talk to friends, we have phones and messaging apps - why would I want to publish my life online, to make money for Facebook?
He's not on dating apps because he either doesn't want to use them, or he doesn't need to use them; I bet he's effective at finding dates in normal life, without going online.
He's probably single because he wants to be, or hasn't found the right person yet.
He has no social media because maybe, HE DOESN'T WANT SOCIAL MEDIA. His choice, why must he have a reason, and what does that have to do with being hot?
No dating sites, because most people on dating sites are looking for hookups, and maybe he doesn't like hookups. What does that have to do with being hot? Most really attractive people get so much attention, you won't find them on tinder because they don't need it.
Just because he's good looking doesn't mean he feels the need to have his private life out there for everyone to see, it's called being humble and having more important things in life to focus on.
He lives in a town of 3,000 people and his name is Leewald. Probably no cell reception on the pig farm that he attend too and internet is probably still on dial up. Probably chews tobacco and has a 5th grade education.
Social media is for the fucking birds. I wouldn’t want my life on Front Street either. Blows my mind that you’re actually considered suspect if you don’t have FaceBook, Instagram or whatever. Like if that’s where we’re at as a society... we are fucking doomed, bro, lmfao.
As for being single... single is single. It means you don’t want a commitment. This guy can probably pull ass without it, and some guys are just looking for that, hence, they’re still single, and not looking, so they wouldn’t be on a dating site.
I don’t know if this is a random question, or if this is someone you’re purportedly talking to online and are questioning the veracity of them. If it’s the latter, I’d concede he’s probably alarmingly good looking and warrants investigation. Coming from the pre-internet era, albeit just as a teenager... I absolutely cannot believe we live in a world where dating isn’t initially founded on in-person chance meetings like it always was. Like on one hand it’s cool to have a veritable menu of people to attempt to order off of, but on the other hand, there is just WAY too much possibility, and I’d even say LIKELIHOOD, of deception. Fucking crazy world we live in, man, hope I’m never single again lmfao
I feel like sometimes people focus too much on looks so they misjudged a person. An attractive person like any other person may be going through some mental problems/battles so that might cause them to isolate themselves from people or lowers their self esteem and confidence. Sometimes it be some of the most beautiful people that have some of the biggest insecurities and feel like they don't deserve to be in a relationship or have friends. Other times it's just that they are busy with life or just not interested in a relationship at all, there's nothing wrong with that either. There's too much pressure to fit in now a days.
In my experience people that are good looking avoid social media, unless it’s a business or they’re very young. Why? Everyone can track you and it’s very hard to be with multiple women or men without getting found out. You want to have zero to none so that you can control the narrative of your life.
Smart guy! No dating, no relationships and no bs social media = drama free, stress free, damn relaxing life. Oh almost forgot, more money too. If men calculated how much money they wasted chasing and dating, many of them could probably get rich a hell of a lot quicker.
I’m sure girls just go Gaga for this guy. Why does he need to play social media games for? I’m sure he’s got plenty of good things coming his way in life just cuz of his looks so he doesn’t give a damn about stupid worthless time wasting shit like social media. Sorry it is a waste of time and energy to be on that shit and it makes people depressed. It’s like going backwards in life and a guy who looks like that tends to be doing well in life. It’s just the way things are.
Maybe he doesn't wanna date anyone right now, or maybe he's picky. The girls he likes and is willing to date are out of his league, and the ones that are willing to date him aren't "good enough" for him. Maybe he plays the field and doesn't want the commitment of a relationship.
There are plenty of men and women who have no social media, are single, and aren't on dating sites. It is not a strange thing to want to meet people and make friends and find love the old-fashioned, organic way. People like this aren't leprechauns. They walk among us.
Maybe he doesn’t need validation from virtual reality. At one point, I had 70k followers on Insta and I deleted my account because I found myself becoming unhealthy inside.
The last option to consider is mental health problems. Anxiety, depression or ptsd (from a traumatic event, if he served in the military).
@Screenwriter What can I say, some guys just have right looks and genetics. My best friend in high school barely said a word to anyone, he had no personality at all. Yet girls would go straight to him at parties. Some guys just have that super power. I had to try a lot harder and be a lot more entertaining to get the same attention from girls.
If a man isn't entertaining, I don't see his point of being on the planet. Being pretty isn't enough. Lot a dumb, pretty motherfuckers. Yeah, you can lean them in the corner so we can LOOK at them, but entertainment is a rarer skill and coveted. Men who are funny are always smart and can always make it. That is my completely bigoted opinion. And I have always valued such men. Now it doesn't hurt to be entertaining and attractive. But only attractive. Pfft. You ain't worth a damn. A standup comedian can make me laugh and he makes money for his skills. He also entertains all my friends and MEN like him too. It's a win win win. For some reason, men, however, do not value entertaining women. They allow blah pretty women to suck the air out of their lives. Smart, funny women always earn their keep, just as their male counterparts do. And there are droves of them that are also attractive. Human race selects for attraction and intelligence.
@Screenwriter That's true. It's good that you look for deeper qualities. Guys like the one in the picture will still get laid left and right though, even if he's dumb or an asshole. Hey, maybe he's really smart and funny and he's a kind, empathetic person as well. Then he really would be a Superman. : )
Hasn't found the one for him. Recently just got out of a relationship and is not currently looking. Social media is a pest. One can be found rather easily using it. Maybe he Doesn't want to be found. If He's not looking to date or doesn't like dating sites, I don't see why he would be on one. I'm sure he's more old fashioned and prefers spontaneous interaction.
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I never traversed a dating site. I hate most social media. Yet I still found a girl. You know... in real life... where I went out with her face to face and asked permission from her father like a real man.
Online dating doesn't work well. Tried it only once. Never again.
Catfish or just dosnt want to deal with social media. I have tinder, but barley use. I dont have insta and dont use my old facebook, its deactivated. I use snapchat if i do decide to use tinder so they know im not a catfish. If he dosnt download snapchat or face time u, he's fake
a) good looking people do not use dating sits often. b) pretty much everyone in the world has used facebook or something at one point. If he's never had any account then most likely he's a hard drug user. Users commonly ignore social media. c) Reasons for being single spread beyond not being able to find anyone. It could be anything.
Didn't know us nerds had traction, but seriously if you know anything about digital security you'd delete your facebook account in a heartbeat. It's funny how the more you know about technology, the more you want something analog and everything to be as disconnected as possible. And I mean he's still attractive, why does he even need a dating site? This guy's a luddite and I applaud him for it.
Only if you have something to hide from the government. I know a lot about technology, I am perfectly aware that my social network is completely exposed. But so what? I am nobody. There's nothing on it except some of my activities and bunch of photos. Everything I expose there is what I want everyone to know anyway. I don't post private things. But even if I did, who cares? The worst case scenario is that some lunatic is stalking me, using info from my social media. But then again, chances for that are same as chances to be stalked anyway without any social media. Word is full of creepy people. My point is that social media exposes as much as you want it to, same as in real life. You don't go yelling out on the street your most private things. Seriously, people should stop being so freaking paranoid. No one cares about your life, neither online or offline.
@little_bird1 Yeah I get drunk and post stupid stuff online. Doesn't mean I'm OK with any FED pulling it and using it against me. Literally using the "nothing to hide, nothing to fear" argument. What if you said n** in a post and that was used against you in every job opportunity you had?
Well don't post illegal stuff, simple as that. Same as you wouldn't go around the street saying stupid stuff. I don't know what people expect social media be anyway? A place where you can throw all your frustrations and trash talk? Of course it's not okay, and if I was an employee and I saw you publicly trash talking about something you shouldn't, I wouldn't give you the job either. Some people like to hide their crappy self behind the screens and then use the "it just social media" argument to defend themselves, as if they are all innocent offline. I think social media is a great way to filter out idiots. And you have something you don't want the world to know or something that can be pulled against you, simply don't post it. Don't blame social networks for your own lack of social manners and behavior.
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