Guys, why am I never good enough anymore?

[paleskinngal]

My sister is on a front page of a magazine it was like local magazine shop but still. she is gorgeous. No guy even talks or looks at me when she's around. my ex boyfriend wouldn't stop looking and smiling at her. I know guys secretly want her if they were to be with me.
people say not to compare, but why? at least I'm not lying to myself. no guy would choose me over her. every guy that comes in contact with her flirts with her married or not.
that's how beautiful she is..
thats honestly why I never try dating. because I'm the last option and the least guys can do. if they could have a hot girl like they follow on social media and they ogle over they could. trust me. hearing about all the cheating is making me think maybe I shouldn't get in a relationship. lots of people cheat... I can't deal with that honestly.
the girl whose got 5 kids whose beautiful gets a guy faster than I do. not saying single moms dont deserve love I'm just making a point.
why do you think guys follow half naked chicks on social media? I can tell you it isn't because of their "personality" lmao 🤣 if it wasn't about looks then why am I having hard time finding someone? why is it that I'm told that no guy will approach me when attractive chicks are around? why did guys tell me no one would want or approach me when my sister was there.

ever read disgusting comments on social media? I know models, attractive chicks and they have disgusting men write stuff to them all the time. trust me they will always choose them
but I get called a misandrist cause petty ass boys can't be loyal? lmao and you wonder why women are giving up on relationships. absolutely disgusting girl I was talking to literally said men can't help it. they can't? then don't waste women's time if you are gonna be like this. I am warning the ladies, be careful. they are all like this.
I've lost hope. I hope you ladies find someone decent cause it really doesn't exist

I'm never good enough?

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long post, so sorry.

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Please don't be mean, I'm really struggling

[ohshee]

Okay first of all you need to smile clear all that crap out of your head I hear everything that you're saying and I feel everything that you're saying and it totally sucks now it's saying all that you only get one time to feel what you just said then you have to let it go I would guarantee that you're beautiful I can feel it from your words I can feel it from your heart I wish you would had a picture of you on there so I can see in your eyes when you feel down and out like you said in your post you kind of project that to people when people look at you so get all that negative out of your head and smile we have an energy inside of us if you're walking through the mall and you're positive and your energy is positive the moment you would be walking past me or even fifty feet away from me I would feel that energy everybody in this world has an energy you're alive and your upbeat and you happy you energy radiates. Next time your sister is around and there's a bunch of guys around first of all learn about your energy so you know how to control it the turn it way up and I guarantee you guys walk over and start talking to you it's all in your Vibes all in energy 3D projector when she's around don't allow yourself to feel that way you're her sister you are equal your younger so I would say you're even hotter but yeah if you learn about energy and if you understand it you will melt hearts I can feel you for right here right now can I guarantee you you can do that so stop thinking negative think positive learn about energy I guarantee it will change your life

[Lionman95]

That actually sounds like the perfect girl to me. I´m dead serious because these all these model girls get me horny but aren´t mostly interested in the quick fun. Because of the fact that they might be able to have every body they won´t date me without cheating.
It´s true that are guys addicted and seduced by girls that put have naked pics of themselves on instagram or what ever because they are led by their dick.
I´m not interested in them they will probably leave me when a trained superman guy will come.
Don´t take the loud guys serious because guys can talk a lot of rubbish while going out. They just brag about not having to choose what to them seems like an advancement while having to admit to themselves that they are denied by other women.

[Paola_AR]

You need to be the best version of yourself and forget about your sister. She’s doing her, you do you.

You only have one life so stop worrying so much and live it! Don’t look for a guy, the right one will appear when you least expect it. Just try to better yourself and your future.

[IDGAFbro]

Stop saying you’re not good enough. God created you for a good reason. Don’t try to copy other people and if you find someone who appreciates you that is enough

[IDGAFbro]

Also many people who reply to this comment are dumb so just ignore them and take the high road

[dreamstar72]

The right guy (there are a lot) will find you more attractive and appealing (important) then your sister. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! What hot, gorgeous or sexy stunning to me might be a different view to others. I’m sure your sister feels other girl are better looking than her. So smile and THINK I’m beautiful also.

[jasco]

Fam yea your right looks are very important to men when finding a girlfriend. Of course looks aren't the only thing that matters. If she's pretty and has a bad personality she will be used for sex and for clout. If she's pretty and has a good personality most guys would consider her a angel of some sort. If she's ugly and has a good personality than dating her would be determine off of other factors that her body has to offer. If she's ugly and has a bad personality than she's stupid.

[uncutfun]

Look don't be selfish... good looking people have it bad too. they never know if people like them for them. people away like them for their looks. once that goes.. then what. your the sister. your probably good looking too... but you carry it different.

[Russwill]

Hello, yes I agree men will always look! A lot of men make rude comments to half naked women as you say. Don't give up! If a man gets to know the real you the inner beauty comes from within! All I am saying is there are some good guys left, not many but someone that will love and want you no matter how beautiful another woman is as long as you treat each other right and your inner self shows how much you care for him!

[boggboss]

But what are u acrully asking here are u looking for answers validation just venting as u are answering all the questions u asked so not sure what u are looking for

[paleskinngal]

Nevermind I'll remove it. Sorry for posting.

[boggboss]

Lol nobody said u have to remove i just want to know what your looking for because if u have decided already im not sure what anyone can say to help u

[paleskinngal]

I don't know.

[boggboss]

Its like the other guy is saying hun nobody can help you unless u want to be helped comparing yourself to others will never help you attraction is not a static bar there will always be someone else better looking then yourself equally u are better looking then many women out there all u do by comparing yourself to others is hurt your mental and turn u bitter

[paleskinngal]

I'm already bitter :)

[boggboss]

That much is clear but u will never feel better or good along as u hold onto that and u will keep yourself in the cycle you find yourself in where u are bitter that will also turn people off and u will get worst as u see people around u get what they want

[paleskinngal]

It's already happening. So I give up.

I'll delete this post. I guess my mind is already made up.

[boggboss]

Meh fair enough delete it if ubwant if u ever actully want help send me a message I guess

[paleskinngal]

I can't message but thanks anyways.

[boggboss]

Lol why can't you

[paleskinngal]

Because I can't message? I don't know

[boggboss]

Su have to send a follow lol if u don't want to thats fine lol

[TheFlak38]

She's back again bitching about her sister, as usual. Looks like your choose every summer to come back. By the way I am so masturbating to your sister's instagram pics. She is so fuckin HOT!!! Unlike you. Fuck! I get so horny just when I think of your sister!

[paleskinngal]

Cause the only pussy you get is from models online right?

[paleskinngal]

You must have no life, like usual.

[TheFlak38]

Yes. I prefer to masturbate to your sister's hot body than have sex with someone like you. Your sister is a fuckin goddess! I'm so crazy for her!

[paleskinngal]

Good for you.

[2021biguy]

It's not everyone but men are giving up too, so much drama all the time. If you are attractive and honest, you should be able to meet someone, but it's not easy in today's world.

[Luckycharms12]

You need to stop comparing yourself to sister and others. I sure you are good looking girl need to believe in yourself and love yourself

[paleskinngal]

How can I not compare myself to her when we are sisters? Everyone else does it why can't I lol

[Luckycharms12]

Because you are you and you are different unique to your sister.

[paleskinngal]

I'm not. I wish I was but I'm not.

[Luckycharms12]

You real are just being very hard on yourself

[paleskinngal]

No, I really am not.

[Luckycharms12]

Need to love yourself before others can love u so they say

[paleskinngal]

That's what pretty chicks tell the ugly chicks. Lmao you think someone would love me? no.

[IDGAFbro]

Even if someone did love you, you wouldn’t even notice because you’re too busy feeling sorry for yourself. Just because more people want to have sex with your sister means nothing. They probably don’t love her. They just want her body. You have your own value, and when you see it, more people will see it too

[Wise4myage]

Focus on being who you are and stop stressing over what your sister does.

[paleskinngal]

Easier said than done

[Wise4myage]

Yes, that's true. But it can be accomplished if you take the effort.

[paleskinngal]

It really doesn't matter anymore.

[KrakenAttackin]

The problem is more likely with your attitude than your appearance.

[JesseJayNeak]

Happened to me before. But it wasn't because of my siblings

[Shy_Steve]

I feel similar about Girls so I don't know.