Why am I never good enough?

[anonymisslyinsane]

I have no issue finding men online but offline men act like I don't exist. it's cause men are desperate and I'm a bbw so no one wants me unless they are desperate? According to men online. And yes I know if men can have hot women I wouldn't stand a chance right? Why can't I be good enough? why can't I be beautiful to someone?

[Apulu_3]

You can't be good enough because you are trying to reach the perfection of society without knowing that you are perfect in your own way. Perfection of society is for other people's satisfaction and when you are perfect on your own way that is for your comfort. People like those who are real and perfect on their own way.

[anonymisslyinsane]

Very true. I appreciate your honesty :) just being happy with yourself

[Apulu_3]

Thank you :)

[Anonymous]

It could be as simple as how you dress? A lot of girls think skirts and cleavage will get a guy but I get way more attention in a cocky knit sweater and some leather pants. All black. Ever try that outfit?

[anonymisslyinsane]

I dress pretty well. My friends always say how cute my clothes are lol. I'm quiet though and I think I have resting bitch face

[Opinion Owner]

Have you tried the leather pants trick? I mean a nice pair. It always works for me

[anonymisslyinsane]

Never tried leather pants, I am always afraid they will rip. But I'll try them with some cute heels

[Opinion Owner]

I’m talking nice pants aritzia Melina pants, not the cheap ones. They are impossible to rip lol

[anonymisslyinsane]

Oh okay hahaha. I'll look into them thank you

[Anonymous]

So... all men are desperate but not desperate enough to get with you because you’re a bbw?

[anonymisslyinsane]

That's what I'm asking.

[Opinion Owner]

There are plenty of men who are into bbw’s.

Most men no longer approach women in public. You can thank feminism and complaints about “toxic masculinity” for that. We don’t want to be labeled a creep or make you uncomfortable, so we’re not going to talk to you in real life.

[anonymisslyinsane]

I see. Makes sense. Thanks for your response I'll try to start the first move lol

[Opinion Owner]

I mean it is what it is. Women complain all the time about men staring at them or hitting on them. This is a big reason why guys have simply stopped approaching women.

[In_Trance]

Because you don't believe you are

[anonymisslyinsane]

Do you think confidence helps?

[In_Trance]

100% yes

[anonymisslyinsane]

Thank you. :)

[Iron_Man]

You are don’t worry