Why am I never good enough?

[Anonymous]

*long post*

my friends are so gorgeous and pretty. I don't know what went wrong with me. we went out to a Halloween party and my friends looked so good. my one friend wore a bra (like those fashionable ones that you wear as a top.) and a skirt. and my other friends were gorgeous. I'm a bigger chick. guys hit on them all the time. I never do. no guy wants me lol they all have a line of guys.

I'm never good enough, they each had their own separate time where they got their shit together.

same with my sister. so dont sit here and tell me that a guy would want me lol. if a guy was confident he wouldn't want me. So yeah I give up:) no guy would look at you if he had a hot girl with a good personality, just saying nobody finds me physically or mentally attractive everytime we go out they are approached.

one friend is talking to 8 guys. every time we go out, one of my friends is being hit on. But never me.

why am I never good enough? why can't a guy find me hot physically and mentally

looks matter, and men LOVE when girls wear little to no clothes dont tell me they fucking dont.

I was told since I'm a heavier girl that I need to find someone with low standards or lose the weight.
why can't I just be noticed ONCE?

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I am 235 pounds and I'm 5ft1

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I've never seen more toxic men then on this app and I'm fucken done. I'm deleting this app right now.

[Capt_DenDen1]

Baby girl u need to chill, what is for u will find u
U think all the guys hitting on your friends are serious, girl wake up.
And who told u about the low standard guys? Don't listen to that shit!!

What low standard guy, keep your head held high and look for a guys that will fit your criteria

What u need is some self confidence

[Anonymous]

you wanna know something... even when you're of average weight and average height and good looking you still get treated like shit. you get cheated on and betrayed and it hurts every single damn time. take it from me it's better to be alone than hurt by anyone

[nikooo0ooo]

We need more context, what are you measurements height and weight, in feet and pounds not cm

[john23232323]

Some people are more attractive than others. Deal with it. You probably only want an attractive guy to notice you and you don't look at the fat and ugly ones too.

[Anonymous]

You need to lose weight. There is no other answer sorry. It sucks because food is really tasty and your not going to experience love for a while. That's life though.

[nikooo0ooo]

She might need to lose weight, I like chubby girls, I mean if the girls like fucking huge 200 pounds then no but chubby girls are cute

[Asker]

@nikooo0ooo I'm 235 lmfao

[nikooo0ooo]

Yea but u gotta think logically, ur not 400 pounds, by this time next year if you actually tried youd be a normal weight

[nikooo0ooo]

I used to be 280 pounds and my friends and brother's used to bully the fuck out of me, then I went to the gym every day and now I'm 178 pounds, it's not even hard, just go there for an hour and a half, a day it's literally easy

[nikooo0ooo]

And the harder you workout the more you can eat

[Asker]

I don't fucking care. You BOTH took my post and treated it like a how to lose fucking weight. Its disgusting fuck off.

[nikooo0ooo]

I know how u feel cause I was fat once too. It's easier to lose weight than u think. And you will lose weight. Stop focusing on boys and focus on urself. Set some goals and go to the gym. You're probably very pretty regardless. But 235 isn't healthy. I know when I was 280 I felt like shit all the time. Just get some exercise. I'm not telling you how to lose weight cause that depends on how you wanna do it, weather it's riding a bike hiking the gym tennis or whatever, just do something, and honestly that's probably where you'll meet your future boyfriend

[nikooo0ooo]

Just cause you're overweight don't mean you aren't pretty, just means you gotta exercise woman!

[Dave31989]

You're good enough... for someone

[Twenty2]

Have you deleted this app?