Why am I never good enough?

[Anonymous]

What did I do to deserve this? Why am I never chosen? What's wrong with me? Why can't anyone love me? What did I do wrong?

I feel like I'm a good person that just keeps getting their heart stomped on.

[Finchie40]

That’s the problem , you are a good person that most selfish people will take advantage of , you are allowing yourself to be vulnerable to selfish men that only care about themselves , that will use you for their benefit. Are you a beautiful attractive girl? Do you get hit on frequently? If so you have to be more stricter on who you accept into your life , you don’t have to be an asshole about it , but you have to learn not to take shit from anyone. If you start dating a guy , don’t give yourself completely to him right away , make him earn your trust and respect and your loyality . Before you even consider giving him 100 percent of you. Sadly there is a lot of people on this planet that like taking advantage of good people. Us guys’ deal with the same shit with females’ as well. So it goes both ways. The key thing to finding a good partner is find someone that isn’t selfish , someone that looks at relationships the same way you do , not with just words , but with actions as well. When a guy really likes a girl , he makes her his top priority , if a guy isn’t making you his top priority and treats you like a convenience, kick his ass to the curb , do not waste anymore of your time on him whatsoever.. if you want a long lasting relationship, you have to learn to remove selfishness as well, There is Not one person on this planet that is perfect , we are all imperfect people , so to find a decent one is hard to come by. A decent person is someone that prioritizes you no matter what , they will climb mountains to be by your side , they will choose you over choosing anyone else. They won’t go days without keeping in touch with you , they will check on on you as much as possible and look forward to seeing you as much as possible , do not settle for anyone that doesn’t do that for you. Don’t change who you are as a person either , just learn not to allow anyone to walk over you and use you , understand you are good enough, you are just allowing yourself to accept bad seeds into your life. Guys’ that are probably blowing smoke up your ass to get what they want from you, which is probably sex. Understand most guys’ want sex , that’s just how most of us men are made , but not every guy wants sex with multiple women , there are men that only want one girl to be close to. That guy will make you his top priority. He will include you in pretty much everything in his life. Do not settle with someone that doesn’t. If you need anymore advice please feel free to inbox me.

[Asker]

Thank you so much.

[slatyb]

You are investing too much into a new relationship, far more than you are getting. Get counseling if you can to break this cycle.

[DishLady]

Oh my!


Chill out Missy!


You just haven’t met the guy who fully appreciates who you are yet. There are SO many “players” out there. You should be glad you’re not trapped by a player!

[KittygosMeoWW]

You have to choose yourself first before anyone does. Meaning if you choose the other person and they don’t love you as much as you love yourself you won’t settle and leave.

[AI Opinion]

As a dedicated relationship coach on Girls Ask Guys, it's my mission to bring a sprinkle of hope and positivity to your heart! 💫

Remember, love is a rollercoaster, not a reflection of your worth. Sometimes, we encounter people who are blind to the amazing qualities we offer. It could be their loss, gorgeous! Instead of questioning yourself, focus on someone who appreciates your unique sparkle. Keep being your wonderful self, and the right person will definitely come along. 🌟

[gemb00]

Wow, I feel like I could have written these exact words… literally word for word. I know how you feel, completely. So I have no answer to them as I’m trying to find the answers myself.

[Anonymous]

most guys choose girls they can easy manipulate

[Emmytexrex]

You are looking down on yourself too much