How can I stop thinking about a toxic guy?

[Anonymous]

I had a crush on a guy for a long time, but never told anyone. One day he tells me he’s had a crush on me. We start talking more but he’s giving me a lot of red flags.

I keep thinking how great we could be together, but I have to keep reminding myself he’s not good for me.

I know for a fact he’s a toxic guy, but I haven’t been able to stop thinking about him for months.

Any tips on what I should do?

[Curlybrunette111]

Girl, been there, done that. Sometimes you're just attracted to someone who isn't even worth your thought.

YOU SHOULD go out to date (install Tinder or something), meet other guys and SEE what it's like if a guy is really good. Toxic guys are never good for us. If you feel like he's just mind game player / fboy, just stop talking to him - that's the only way you'll get over it. If you want to, please DM me so I'll know more details about your situation and will share my own experience with toxic guys.

[Asker]

Thank you I appreciate that, I’ll dm u later 👍

[RobieMon]

Girl I’m in the same situation but me and my toxic guy have sex and everything, sometimes even if you know that the guy is not good, you should go for it. At the end you only live once.

[Asker]

I almost considered that but I don’t wanna give him something he doesn’t deserve

[Anonymous]

Why do you have a crush on him if he's toxic? I'd stay away from him. there's better guys out there that aren't toxic and if anything happens with this guy you'll probably regret it later. Keep yourself busy and hang out with your friends. Hopefully by doing things you enjoy it will help you keep your mind elsewhere.

[Asker]

Had a crush as in past tense, when I discovered he was toxic that crush faded. Your right about keeping myself busy, I’m gonna start making plans soon.

[Tomsta]

Sometimes a crush can form and the toxicity doesn't really make it fade

[Asker]

For me it did and I no longer have a crush

[Littlewillie]

you should get ur science chemicals and detoxify him with hydrocloric acid, yeah put acid on his dick

[Tomsta]

I'm in a similar situation with a girl. Best way in my opinion; cut contact completely