I drew my crush. Is that creepy? Can I somehow use it to get to know him?

[Jdssksk]

So I drew my crush from a pic on his insta. We've never met but I want to introduce myself to him. We're quite similar but I've learned most of his interests through stalking him online. So I don't know what to say after hi. How can I introduce myself to them. Would having this drawing help in any way? I'm open to ideas. He studies Italian, is very kind, I know some of the music videogames and movies that he likes. The guy also reads memes (that's rare in my country). I'm basically in for a treat. But I'm actually 4 years younger. Anyways here's the drawing (I know it's not the best but I'm only 14 for fricks sake):
https://photos.app.goo.gl/DTgPvb5PQibFvyAUA

[Peuples_Francs]

Don't show him that picture, it's sure to turn things awkward and generate stalker vibes within him.

You draw nicely though, so consider drawing something else and showing it to him, like a bird.

[Zorrak]

I wouldn't show it to him until you guys get together and were with each other for a while

[Zorrak]

I actually would be weirded out unless I've been with a girl for a while then I'd think its sweet

[Jdssksk]

Yeah I don't plan on going up to him like: hi, I drew you! Do you like it?

[Jdssksk]

But how do I strike up a convo. People usually find something in common and talk about that. Thing is I'm not supposed to know what he likes

[Zorrak]

Lol yeah that wouldn't be a good idea so maybe just have him see you draw other people like maybe celebrities and of he starts a conversation casually ask him if he wants to be drawn or wait for him to ask and in a day or 2 u can show it if you really want to show it

[Zorrak]

You can always go up say hi and follow up with how are you and ask if he plays sports or anything really

[Jdssksk]

That's another problem. I only see him at school and we aren't in the same class so it would be pretty difficult for both of us to be sitting close to each other or to not be going anywhere

[Zorrak]

Well it's hard to say since one of you should make the first move by going up to the other and starting with a hi

[Jdssksk]

He actually doesn't so I suppose that that would die out pretty fast. Lol I know I'm probably giving you a hard time

[Zorrak]

Well usually guys in high school prefer girls the same age or at least 1 year younger and your best bet is for you to go up to him and no you aren't giving me a hard time

[Jdssksk]

Lol thanks. I'll try mustering up the courage. I'm not ugly at least. And I've got some brain and humour to offer. Should be satisfactory 😂

[Zorrak]

Yeah, go! You got this 😄

[Jdssksk]

Thank you <3

[Zorrak]

Np 🙂👍

[Jdssksk]

Dude. I was literally walking down the hall and the guy I like and his friend were walking in the direction towards me. And his friend drew his arm out and blocked my path and said : Hey girl my friend here doesn't have a girlfriend.
And he pointed at my crush. Luckily I was with a friend so it wasn't as awkward. And she spoke for me because I was so flustered

[Zorrak]

If I were you I would of spoke for your friend but now you got some start with him

[Jdssksk]

We make lots of eye contact. And when walked past me he turned around and I also randomly did and we made eye contact. That has happened only trice tho

[Zorrak]

Trice times the charm 🙂

[Anonymous]

Dude.
you're drawing is so awesome!
how long have you been drawing?
Valentine’s Day is coming up girl, that would make a nice present.
make sure that you guys are at least texting if you give it to him.

[Jdssksk]

How do I get to phase one tho😂. I literally have no idea what to say past hi

[Jdssksk]

And I've been drawing on and off. I'm rarely in the mood for anything so most of my drawings are at least two months apart. Lately I've been into drawing portrait. This is actually the first man I've ever drawn. I though he would be good practice since his facial structure is amazing

[Opinion Owner]

Ok I reread your question.
Your only 14 and he’s 18?
That’s little differece when your an adult , but big difference now..
I don’t think he will be interested.
You can be friends though..
Just start saying “hi”to him

[Jdssksk]

I know that's aways cheesy and sounds like r/im14andthisisdeep but I would consider myself to be pretty mature and I also look the part. (I'm really tall too 178/ 5'9)
Anyway, what could I talk to him about. I can say hi but am I supposed to go away after or what? shouldn't I talk to him about something?

[Opinion Owner]

You’re very brave wanting to approach him..
Are you two in the same school?

[Jdssksk]

Yeah

[Jdssksk]

And I've always had to approach guys. They all turned out to be dicks so I'm glad I got them out of the way. I've never had a boyfriend tho. I'm still young and I most likely don't need one but I don't know. You gotta do what you gotta do

[Jdssksk]

This guy's is different though. I somehow can't look at him for more than two seconds and I almost always freeze in his presence. He's got em alpha male vibes. But he's a nice dude. Kind. Helps grannies. Doesn't smoke.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, just give him a Valentine’s Day card.
Then send him a friend request in fb

[Opinion Owner]

First introduce your self to him though

[Opinion Owner]

Keep up with your artwork
You have real talent there.

[Jdssksk]

Thank you ❤️

[clampfan101]

Aww. I think drawing your crush is cute. :)
And 4 years younger is nothing in my book. (Just wait until you’re 18+ before looking for something super serious.)

[MrMassive]

Not gona lie, i wouldn't date a 14 year old if i was 18. But you do you

[Anonymous]

Say "hi, I'm (insert name), what's your name? Can i get your number?

[Jdssksk]

Lmao so upfront. Wouldn't he think I'm throwing myself at him?

[Opinion Owner]

Then after a day of texting say "i need someone to draw for art hw"

[Jdssksk]

Haha. Nice one