Women are acoustic creatures. No secret but it is sort of that. They love hearing words of affirmations (remember, women are all about feelings and attitude) and we love seeing beautiful women. That's how we work.
So! What are good words of affirmations to give to them ladies whether its platonic or romantic?
What are the best compliments to give to women (platonic or romantic)?
I do agree that women tend to like compliments that go more towards their feelings. But I think how they would receive those compliments would depend on many factors.
Most would have to do with who is giving the compliment. Because a lot of people wouldn't bat an eye if a cocaine-filled hobo walked up to them and complimented their outfit. So in order for it to have a big effect, the person giving the compliment would have to be respectable at least.
But the compliment itself is important as well because someone you love could give a generic compliment and it not be as special as a tailored one. People love it when their strengths are celebrated! So one that is in agreeance with their way of life or end goal should be well received.
The platonic and romantic type of compliment would depend on your relationship with that girl. I have girl-friends that would accept "romantic" compliments from me more and view it with higher importance since I am in rapport with them & they know and trust my intentions. If a stranger were to compliment them in the same way, it probably wouldn't be as effective, if at all.
This is also heavily dependent on the type of women. Because I'm not friends with the types that would value strangers compliments more than mine. But to be on the safe side, I'd say to feel the water with a platonic compliment, then if it's well-received, get riskier while also staying vigilant to their responses. And you should be good.
But generally, I'd say that a person's wealth, social status, looks, and money have the biggest influence on women. Even if the women aren't seeking them out, if they know about it, it will likely have a bigger effect. So tailor compliments with how they likely perceive you in mind, and it will probably be it's best received.
Paying a woman a compliment is gesture of absolute futility and meaninglessness if! ... if she doesn't think you're particularly attractive in the first place. If, on the other hand, she's initially attracted to you (through no effort on your part), then you can throw ANY compliment at her and it will stick. I mean, make it the goofiest cliche ever uttered and she will interpret it as the most sincere compliment ever. If a bitch is attracted to you, getting down her panties is is a non issue. You have to be a real fuck-up if you can't pull that off when she's attracted to you. In many instances, compliments aren't even needed (in some cases, they may even inflict harm if getting down her panties is the goal, as some women are into the bad boy thing, and shit, when do bad boys ever compliment? They don't. They know better.).
Intelligent and beautiful, beauty with brains. I have a banging body so I do like to be appreciated for that too. My boyfriend compliments me on my beauty because I am conventionally perfect in terms of facial harmony and features like having big eyes, perfect proportions, almost completely symmetrical, narrow and sharp v shaped jaw, high cheekbones, sharp nose and flawless skin. He compliments my figure occasionally which is also a perfect 34-23-34 and often when I am with him he likes to check the curve between waist-hip because the waist is super tiny and then the hips are a lot wider plus I have a big bust for such a tiny girl with DD cups. I am 5’6 and he is 6’ so he says my height is perfect (I agree that 6-7 inches difference is perfect). I can wear four inch heels and he’s still a little taller than me. Then lastly he compliments my intelligence and says he learns a lot from me which is so rewarding.
So to sum it up I would say compliments equally on physical and personal characteristics. Because if you only appreciate the personal side she might think you don’t think she’s that attractive and if you only appreciate the physical side she might think you don’t really value her as an individual.
I don’t think compliments are valued more by women than men and a compliment is going to create a reaction in any one.
i understand this is about women so I’m not going to make it about men. I just fuss free there Is done concrete difference baseD on gender, as to appreciating a compliment.
both sexes are encouraged to compliment the otter under the assumption it will feel good to the complimentee.. men are more fastidious about it bc they are searching for sex more often than women. Or rather bc searching for sex is less taboo for ken then for women do They are more porn about it..
Women don’t compliment men less bc men don’t Like receiving compliments. It’s just that compliments have become entrenched in the chasing game. Women are less likely to be chasing a guy Bc it’s frowned upon and baby don’t want to cross that boundary.
I have seen no evidence a compliment means less to a man. Quite the opposite. And women do not favor vacuous compliment over men, it’s just Men are less in likely to compliment on substance.. as you say Men like Beauty so they compliment it as a jeans of encouraging its Continuance.. This isn’t Bc that is what means the most to women.
I think responsible mothers love being told they are good moms and academics like being asked if they are doing PhD’s and athletic woman like being asked their secret to getting that hour glass
Well, no matter what the mean may mean to the man like acquaintances, friendships or even more the fact is a woman always want to be assured that they are loved and cared for.
Compliment wise I am not quite sure what are the best compliments to give since I rarely ever compliment people and neither do I like being complimented.
Yes if I have observed that the woman is sweet, nice or humble then I just say that. Nothing more. I don't know if those can considered as a compliment that can be given to a woman or not.
Compliments about looks are good, but women really appreciate compliments about things they’ve accomplished (career wise, education, etc), or their intellect, or their personality traits, or really anything that reflects them as a person and who they are on the inside.
Make sure it’s genuine and that you’re not just saying it because you think you have to. If there’s no real truth, meaning or feeling behind the compliment, don’t bother saying anything.
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Men have complimented me in different ways over the years but the ones which resonated best were the ones whose voices were already attractive to me and I had some level of attraction. In March, a guy I was talking with for a month and went out on a date, gave me about 20 compliments in a row on text. From I like the way you nod your head when speaking to your lips look like sponges. (He was Spanish haha) He said a lot but unfortunately for him, his voice didn't do it for me nor did I get lurred in by the catalogue of compliments. On paper, it all was good but far from making me feel a connection.
"I will treat you like princess and fuck you like a whore" Then you can give her normal compliments about her insecurities (start with subtle compliment), personality, beauty and manners. You can start by telling her you kinda feel connection with her and then give her random compliments when she least expects it but on right time (Ex: if She lost someone and you trying to compliment her dress is not gona cut it)
Compliment on what you observe. Don't compliment them just for the sake of doing it. If they look good, tell them, if they tell or do something smart, let them know you consider them to be smart, if they come off as creative to you, compliment them on this. Just be genuine and speak up your mind. Complimenting anyone shouldn't be stressful but should come from within.
'Your hair looks beautiful' 'Is that a new outfit? You look absolutely stunning' 'You have such a beautiful smile' 'I love your laugh' 'Everytime I see you, you brighten my day' Don't just say something like 'you look pretty', give some individuality to it. Us girls care about the compliments that stand out. My boyfriend says this to me and I love him for it. Just a couple tips, lads ✌
Confusedgamer, if you having fun and wanting to make the girl you like laugh, you can say that line. Honestly, if you said it daily, you'd get eye rolls from her 😂.
May I suggest you say something like, I like being around you. You're sweet (and give her kiss on the cheek) if in an intimate setting and cuddling.
Congratulate them on their big achievements, no matter how big or small they may seem to you—instead of complimenting their appearance.. (it gets old fast, trust me)
Yes, we know we look like a delectable snack because you’ve already told us a gazillion times!
I agree with your premise. There is a grand difference between "romantic" and "platonic". If you work with a woman and want to pay her a compliment, you have to be very careful. When I compliment a woman at work, to a woman I know and (somewhat) trust, I might say "you look terrific", but never more specific.
Compliments that make them feel wanted or not easily replaceable. Stuff like "You're so different" or "You're the only one who doesn't get mad when I pee on the sidewalk"
I think anything sincere and positive would be good. Heck, I’ve had someone on here tell me my voice made them think I sounded like a fairy and I thought it was a sweet compliment.
You make life fun You are really good at *insert hobby* I enjoy your company You are so unique You make life more beautiful (a more romantic one probally)
Honest ones. Pick something special that you notice or like about them and let them know. You can be generic but I don't recommend it. Be specific and sincere.
Compliment things other than her body, those compliments have their place but aren't as meaningful, also be specific a generic your beautiful is sweet but nowhere near as good.
I like being told non sexual or romantic things, just like "you have an amazing smile" or "your eyes are so pretty." compliments on specific aspects. Also on my personality, those are nice too.
You look beautiful today You look stunning Compliment her eyes face hair her body make her feel beautiful in every way and confident Some of the girls are really struggling with anxiety and self love
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