Is my boyfriend secretly gay?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has been acting odd, and I have a feeling he could be secretly gay. Lately, he’s done the following: 1) When I was out of the room, he went into my closet and tried on a fur coat of mine and then acted feminine, as if making a joke. 2) I also noticed that he has a 1000+ day Snapchat streak with a guy friend of his, and one of those snaps included a shirtless picture of his friend. 3) He’ll leave me hanging 5+ hours and not reply to my messages, yet he’ll never admit where he was or why he didn’t respond. There’s simply no urgency to get back to me. 4) He rarely said I love you first and never gave me romantic/emotional cards on holidays, or text messages. 5) He hides his friends from me on Facebook and refuses to put our relationship status online, including pictures of us. His status as of late is still “single” and we’ve been dating for a year. 6) He jokingly said that a hockey player would have a “nice moon” because he’s “fit.” So, please tell me. Gay or straight? Dump or stay?

[potatoiswhoiam]

Tbh it doesn't sound thaaat much like it. He might be but in my opinion what you described isn't that indicative of whether he's gay or not. One thing is for sure tho, he's not that interested in the relationship, for whatever reason.

[Danny_dan92]

At the very least he is bi.


But more leaning towards the gay side.


But he could be a gay guy in the closet so he has a “girlfriend” to appeal to the taste of his family.

[Asker]

My thoughts as well! Thanks Danny!

[Danny_dan92]

What you could do...

Is put up a porno. Where the male pornstar is into getting pegged And watch it next to him and be like

“You want me to do this to you?”

When the girl has a strap on, on her. And is fucking the dude in the ass with it.

And if he says yes? Ya boy is a fag

[In_Trance]

Hmmm, I see where you're coming from. The evidence however questionable is not overwhelming. You should as him if he thinks dicks are delicious. That would pretty much seal his fate

[Asker]

LOL That’s funny!

[TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff]

Hidden friends on Facebook are there for hookups. That is what they're commonly used for. I found out the hard way.

[hungandthick]

Sounds like he could be gay or bi, next time you have sex ask him if you can put something up his arse

[RHK36]

How often are you intimate?

[Asker]

I’m waiting till marriage, so not very often. But he seems totally cool with that.

[RHK36]

Either way he sounds like a shitty boyfriend.

[RHK36]

There's a good chance that he is, but just the way that he treats you should be reason enough to leave him.

[Jamie05rhs]

I agree with @RHK36.

[postaldudePL123]

He's perhaps not interested in this relationship.