Is my boyfriend gay?

[Ofoceansbeaches1]

He loves to watch love stories romantic dramas versus action movies but he does watch action movies too. He loves bts songs that are for me a bit girly like the boy to luv song lol. He easily cries during sad movies whereas I'm very stone hearted and hardly cries.

I'm more in touch with my masculine side although im a woman. He is also the one who puts backgrounds on our messengers, prefers to use emojis, nags me if I'm not able to give him time as much as he'd like and is very sensitive with my words. He gets mad and gets hurt and sulks.

He also prefers to cook and clean versus having a job. I on the otherhand is very work oriented and I'm boyish. A lot of lesbians liked me in the past and even gay people. Not only that, I have a history of liking almost all people who were gay like 5 people out of 7 were gay.

However, my boyfriend is very sexually driven and has high sex drive so I'm not altogether sure either. What do you think?

[TurboAnon]

Well, he's defending not gay if he's having sex with you. He's just a bit feminine, and there's nothing wrong with that if you love him. However, he should take some more masculine roles.

I like some 'sappy' things. I love the concept of love. I like poetry and love songs. I like hearing romantic stories and cute couple moments. I'm also a cat person. Doesn't mean I'm gay, because I love women. I also like traditionally masculinity things as well like blowing shit up, and chopping wood.

[Berethor]

It pretty common to call feminine guys gays, but him acting gay not proof that he truly gay.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Camp_Straight

[midnightmoon05]

Sounds like a good match. Just kinda like role reversed.
same as myself and hubby. He is stay at home dad.
Lots of men have feminine qualities and I love that because I am such a logical thinker.
Good job you found a good match. 😊

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong being a Bts fan!!! I love Bts and my boyfriend does too. We both Koreans go figure.😂😂😂

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the waters of love and relationships here, and it sounds like you've got a mixtape of doubts playing on repeat! Let's hit pause and switch tracks. First off, loving romantic dramas, jamming to BTS (🕺who can resist?), and being in tune with emotions doesn't automatically wave the gay flag. People are as varied as the playlists on Spotify, and tastes or behaviors aren't solid flags for someone's sexuality. What you're describing are his preferences and personality traits, which, honestly, make him sound like a sensitive and caring partner, not a clear sign that he's gay.

Your mix of being more work-oriented and him being the homebody chef extraordinaire just shows that every couple has their yin and yang. If his high sex drive is towards you, that's a pretty good hint about his attractions. Maybe the real question here is not about his sexuality, but about understanding and appreciating each other's unique traits. 🌈 Love is a broad spectrum, and it seems like you both might just be dancing to different beats but on the same dance floor. Keep the communication open, and maybe, just maybe, you'll find your rhythm together. 💃🕺

[Anonymous]

You've touched on many female stereotypes and traditionally female gender roles here. Usually women get angry when men point to these traits and behaviors as feminine, and yet you judge men who display them. Why is that?

[beefcakebradybatson]

He's a different dude, but I'm rather certain he's string-straight as I am.

[Anonymous]

When are you going to come out to your family and friends?

[chrissykerdock]

i don't think he's gay just diifferent

[OfDeath]

Yeah he is.