Is the guy I’m dating secretly gay?

[Anonymous]

based on these texts, does it sound like he’s in the closet and just using me?

me: you know what they say about homophobes

him: I don’t. Enlighten me.

me: that they’re in the closet. You can tell me.

him: better yet, i can show you

me: show me what?

him: just how gay I am

Me: how can u do that?

him: you’ll have to wait no longer than this weekend 😈

Me: so, either you want me to watch you with another guy or you’re trying to say you’re not gay at all. To be fair, you could still be bisexual even if we do something

him: hahaha you’re disgusting for saying that.

me: you’re the one talking about how gay u are

him: lmao Ima show you how gay i am. Say less

me: you’re not showing me anything. Just because we sexted does not mean I want to do more

him: hahahah Right

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to determine someone's sexual orientation based on text messages alone, as communication can be easily misinterpreted or taken out of context. However, based on the conversation you shared, it does not necessarily indicate that the guy you are dating is secretly gay.

It's possible that he may be using humor or sarcasm to respond to your comments about homophobia and being in the closet. It's also possible that he may be exploring his own sexuality and using this conversation as a way to express that.

It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your own boundaries and expectations in the relationship. If you are uncomfortable with the idea of him exploring his sexuality with other people, it's important to make this clear to him and have a conversation about what you both want and expect from the relationship.

It's important to remember that everyone has their own unique experiences and feelings, and it's not fair or accurate to make assumptions about someone's sexual orientation based on limited information or conversations.

[Anonymous]

I don't get anything gay from the text messages y'all sent each other. It just sounds like he's flirting with you and saying how gay he's not by fucking you.

[Asker]

Seems like a weird way to go about it tho, doesn’t it. If someone says “ill show you just how crazy i am” it usually means they want to show you they’re very crazy.

[Anonymous]

Don’t know if he’s gay but I don't know why you’d even entertain a guy you think is on the fence. Sounds like a beta cuck.

[Asker]

Isn’t it weird to say “i’ll show you how gay i am” even if he’s trying to say that he’ll show me he isn’t gay at all?

[Asker]

I guess I’m entertaining him because he’s sweet otherwise

[Opinion Owner]

It’s weird af to say lol but then again I know sometimes texts can translate diff that how it would sound in person. So who knows maybe it was sarcasm but a lot of men wouldn’t joke like that. My boyfriend would neverrrr😂 too many sweet men out there be dealing with this sus one.

[Asker]

Yea, and he said several days ago that he thinks all jokes have some truth to them. So, you’re right, definitely sus

[Opinion Owner]

Yeaaah, I wouldn’t feel comfortable with that and wash my hands of him😅

[spartan55]

Good lord, seriously? He is joking around.

[Asker]

But a few days ago he said he thinks all jokes have some truth to them.

[spartan55]

Ugh... believe what you want. He's not gay, I promise.

[Asker]

How can you promise that?

[spartan55]

Pfttt... you are being ridiculous.

[Iron_Man]

Weird clown guy

[Asker]

So, what do u think?

[Iron_Man]

Don’t take on a boyfriend that you think might be gay

[Asker]

This is the only thing that makes me question it.

[Iron_Man]

Ask him face-to-face tell him to be serious

[Anonymous]

You can't tell anything from texting.