AMWF - what traits make WFs more or less attractive to AMs?

[Anonymous]

Bonus points if you are from Asia and can talk about the cultural distinctions. Thank you.

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To clarify, I am a white female interested in an Asian man. I have never had an Asian guy express interest in me so I am curious about what AMs tend to think of WFs. Thanks!

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

I study sociology and psychology. He has to represent masculinity according to western definitions. Many Asian men contradict masculine features so that is why Asian men struggle the most among dating apps. Asian females, on the other hand, symbolize and even compliment femininity qualities and are seen as more beautiful due to TV showing more white male and Asian female couples. For example, Harry Potter. In order to bring more attention to Asian males, you would have to show them on TV and media at similar rates with white female and black male. You could essentially make Asian men more attractive by doing this. That is what we are doing to black men. Showing them more with white women to upgrade their social status. There is currently no fair representation for Asian men by USA media. Why not? They are awesome guys!

[Asker]

Thank you for the thoughtful reply.

I am still curious about what makes AMs more or less attracted by WMs. As a WM, what is within my reasonable control? Thank you!

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

You're a white male?

[Asker]

Sorry, typing mistake. I am a white female. What are the general assets and liabilities for me with Asian males? Thank you.

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

You are seen as one of the top at the social status.

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

Hey? I already told you lol. You are in a good social standing in society to date an Asian, Hispanic, black or any race. You are one of the most desirable and pursued.

[Asker]

Thank you. The problem is they never ask me. Why? I talk and gently flirt. I try to give signals that I am interested and I am *pretty* sure the guy is, too, but then I don’t get an approach. How do I give him the green light?

He calls me a “blonde Asian” (I am Scandinavian, if that matters).

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

You could be intimidating

[Asker]

How can I fix that? Thank you.

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

There's no way. It's psychology.

[Asker]

So, I should make a move, then? How big of a move?

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

You are over thinking. Just send him a message. Say "hey" see where it goes.

[Anonymous]

I used to think "wf's" usually weren't interested but now I realize it's a similar percentage as any other woman.