What do you think of anti social guys?

[Anonymous]

what do you think of guys that don't like social situations and try to avoid them? and he also has 0 experience with girls probably because of it

[YouKnowThatGuy]

Practice makes perfect, or at least better than before in this case. The less social abilities they have, the worse they will be at them. With little experience socially, or with women, it will do a number on his self-esteem.

So what do I think of anti-social guys? Well, having previously been one, they get little sympathy from me. They need to take the dive, whether they like it or not. We are social beings in a social society, so they are going to have to bite the bullet if they want to find the joy that comes with those things. Trial by fire, unfortunately. May sting a bit at first, but eventually you get use to it and becomes easier with practice.

More power to them if they WANT to be alone for the rest of their lives. I have no problem with the people that are perfectly happy being socially excluded and alone. But if the person is feeling down and sorry for themselves, nope, that's on them. They need to buck up, and take their licks like the rest of us did (rejection, betrayal, etc. happens to the best of us).

[MikeK]

What if you've taken "the licks", but have been crippled by them? Yes, rejection and betrayal are facts of life, but you can only take so much...

[YouKnowThatGuy]

You can feel sorry for yourself, saying you're life has been rougher than other people. But for every argument you have for not getting up and trying again, somebody else out there has gone through worse and made an argument to keep on trying. There's just no excuse for giving up.

[Shaun]

Good thing I don't need or want your sympathy.

[JakobJ]

guys who "don't like social situvations are probably just shy to talk to girls, I've been there mate :) and I blamed my "Social incompetence" for not like crowds! now a fue years later I've grown my self esteem! it's not creepy... although there are some lonewolf and I don't blame them for being it beacuse there are a looooooooooooooooooooooooot of enoying people in this world :P

[Anonymous]

My ex boyfriend is anti social but I like him anyway. He just doesn't like to talk much with people he is not close to. He talks a lot with me but doesn't like to go out. That's one of the reason we broke up cause he doesn't contact with me when we are not together. Sometimes I don't hear from him for days and when I do text him he doesn't reply. I still likes him a lot and he does seems to like me still but things are complicated now.

[victoriousVictoria]

I don't think much of them. I like to talk to people and get to know them, so If someone doesn't like to be social, I probably wouldn't talk to them.

[goflipaburger]

It's hard to get to know someone who doesn't want to talk to me.

[slipslender]

it's hard to get to know someone if they're avoiding you :p

[sweet_18]

I don't like them. Its really hard to like soemone who's anti-social. I'm pretty reserved myself, but I'm not anti-social. I do like being around people

[Brando]

They're my people :)

[ihatework]

you're our leader?

[Brando]

Yes, my child :)