I know I shouldn't be so turned on by this, but I can't help but love it --
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qb8sAeoxbMU
I know I shouldn't be so turned on by this, but I can't help but love it --
That was an interesting video.
I could relate to when he was talking about himself in 6th grade. I was still very much a kid at that age. I wasn't particularly tall yet, but I wasn't short. I was smart and funny, very active, and not bad at sports. I was good looking in a boyish way. I really liked girls but was terrified of them.
By 7th and 8th grade, some guys were becoming more physically mature and also seemed to know how to be more... manly... when it came to girls. I still didn't have a clue.
I hit my growth spurt and was 6'2" by 10th grade, but wasn't really aware of it. Plus, I didn't have facial hair yet. I still felt insecure and didn't know how to deal with girls.
Fortunately, I was a decent guitarist by then, which made me attractive. I also had a car, was a surfer, and I had cool friends. A couple of those guys had really hot girlfriends and I was envious.
I tried to act cool but felt insecure that I had never been with a girl, even though a few that I wasn't interested in had hit on me and I had kissed a couple of them and learned how to kiss.
One day, while playing with a garage band at a friend's house, I went outside for a break, and a really cute girl came outside and talked to me. Long story short, we started going steady and, after a couple of weeks of making out a lot, she initiated sex sex.
All of a sudden I felt like a man and was comfortable with women.
Regarding the rest of the video, I never enjoyed putting people down. I wouldn't like being put down, so I didn't/don't do it to others unless they bring it on themselves.
I don't put down incels on-line unless they are bagging on women and acting like their celibacy is because of feminism or some shit. Those guys need to acknowledge their own faults instead of blaming the female gender. They have to blame someone or something else but themselves.
Men who display bitterness and hatred toward the female gender really bug me. And men who think sexually active women are whores or "low status" need to stfu.
After watching the video, I think the reason I have such disdain for those kind of guys is because of my own experiences. I am incredibly grateful to the girlfriends I had. They were really good people and their sexuality was a beautiful gift. And the idea that it made them less marriageable is absurd. That's not to say that skanky sluts don't exist.
Sexually active women are normal as opposed to abnormal. They tend to be bright, liberated from patriarchal conventions, and engage life with joy, courage and spirit. That reflects on all parts of their lives, not just sex.
I think the reason some guys put those kind of women down may be for the same reasons that the guy in the video bullied incels. They have a sense of insecurity or self-loathing because they aren't bold and joyful. Instead, they are insecure and timorous.
You don't get to look like the patchouli-smelling version of Mr. Rodgers' love child with Ryan Reynolds and talk about bullying others. Dude's got a 5-head and a haircut that'd make him real popular in jail... especially with all those little soft flyaways on the side. Just makes me want to slap him and tell him to keep my coffee warm.
Most incels are functionally retarded and a good deal of them didn't get smacked enough as a kid to knock that feeling of entitlement of what women "owe" them in life out of their head, but I still hate bullies. He's got issues because he saw them as a reflection of who he was, and what he didn't like about himself, but at the end of the day they aren't the ones that made him that way.
While it may turn you on Billy I don't think it turns every incel on so I'm not down with it
No comment Billy.
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For the sake of argument, suppose someone who brutalized people, a murderer or rapist perhaps, made a video wherein he explained that he needed to be kind to his past self. I don't believe in that.
There are evolutionary reasons why we experience unpleasant emotions such as guilt or remorse. So we don't do it again.
If someone has brutalized people, he needs to be critical of that past self right up until he breathes his last.
I understand his rather bizarre reasoning, but I disagree he needs to be kind to his past self. He needs to see what a shit head he was and never forget it.
Then he can hopefully be all the more pleased with the better person he might have become.
For the record, let me be clear I'm not comparing him to a murderer or rapist. I'm just using that as an example to demonstrate that no, we shouldn't always be kind to our past selves.
men who put down or hate other men for being icelz 🙄 only in america
this is clear cut biology
women are operating on herd mentality
men take note !!!
stand up for other mens protect and lie if yu hv to (women do it a lot)
While incels are losers who need to work on themselves to get women, bullying people isn't nice. Bullies only do it because they feel inferior.
Simples...
Tbh my empathy for incels is close to zero but it's not right and needs to be called out and combatted
A swift kick in the balls will sort them out!
People like that make me really sad. Making fun of incels really ignores the entire way that these people became incels in the first place.
I despise bullies.
He looks like a pedo.😆
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