Isn't this guy a jerk and a bully? How to deal with this person?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone, so I've been chatting with a guy from this site for quite a while. In the beginning he used to be nice and I liked talking to him, but he hasn't shown his true colors yet.

He said some pretty f**ked up stuff. Not only the guy was racist and islamophobic (he said that people with darker and Arabs skin color are trash), he was also mean, demanding and a bully..
He constantly demanded to answer to his messages every 5 minutes and asked for my personal answer; when I had the nerve to disagree with him and didn't do what he wanted, he started calling me names like loser, boring, fat, short, ugly.
He eventually blocked me, but a friend told me that he's still badmouthing to people on the site and spreading fake rumors about me...

What should I do? I've never met such an evil person in my life

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*he said that people with darker skin color and Arabs are trash

[ArztSchlachthof]

Hah, a classic! Ignore him, he's not worth your attention. Of course, he is a jerk and a bully. When people "settle" within your reach and vice versa, they truly do show their true colours and sometimes their opinions go directly against you. Report him, if you want to prevent him from doing any more "harm".

And don't take his words to the heart. Anyone who calls you "loser, boring, fat, short, ugly" probably lacks the proper intellect needed to even define those words, not to mention the lack of knowledge on their proper usage.

And beware - a lot of people are xenophobic. They hate anything different and "not normal" according to their "neighbourhood". Don't take them seriously, their minds are closed to progress and they suffer from it gigantically already.

[caring__1]

There will always be people who feel they gain power by pushing other people's buttons and seeing their response. As long as they believe their actions impact you, they'll continue the pattern. It doesn't give them enduring satisfaction, so they have to keep going back and doing it more. Just because people are eager to throw their garbage your way, that doesn't mean you have to catch it. Never personalize people's problems as your problems. Live your life and ignore him.

[SunflowerCrown]

Yes he's a jerk, and a bully. And sounds like a generally awful person.

Just block him and avoid him. There's not much you can do about the rumors unless you can report them. And if you can report them, please do.

[TommyMountainFigure]

All I can think of if it bothers you that much is to save any transcript you have of him badmouthing you and reporting him.

[exitseven]

This is the underbelly of the internet. Besides blocking him maybe ask the moderators to help?
Don. t engage him.

[Wiredone]

Save all the messages between the two of you. Report him to the administration. Then block him. Nobody should have to deal with being bullied or bad-mouthed.

[anylolone]

Congrats, you used this site to flirt and got what you deserve.

[Anonymous]

Yes, he's a jerk and a bully