I think all humans, excepted for people who are slow or autistic or anything else, can tell if someone is flirting by gazing. If someone is looking at you for more than 2 seconds ( and they know you can see them staring) they are most probably flirting. Almost guaranteed if they are smiling or looking flirty/ mischevious.
This is the best coy way of flirting and something I do- you can let the person know you like them and if worst comes to worst, ( they call you out on it and aren't happy) , you can just make up an excuse.
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Prolonged is def more than casual. I’ve had prolonged eye contact where I felt like he was undressing me with his eyes. Not casual!
I know women that can catch a guy stare for sure 😂 but... It could be depending on the person and how it's done, the timing and place makes a difference too. But good eye contact is promoted too... Think about job interviews with a man being interviewed by a woman, think there should be soild eye contact throughout the interview.. so I'd say it depends on the person and the situation
Prolonged is past casual, that’s where you move from communicating fun and playful teasing to the want and the need, the real purpose of the flirting.
you show desire.
you move in for the final kill and that’s where the real fun starts
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If I ever look somebody in the eye is because I wanna see if they have the spirit to do the same or I'm dealing with a weaker person. Amazingly enough, most weak people are in roles of responsability. Curious, eh?
I felt like adding this, but if it only happens once in awhile though it might not even be flirting. I personally do this at random without even recognizing it sometimes. for me it became a nonverbal confidence test🤷♂️
Yes but they never last long when it comes to staring haha. I can hold a staring contest.
Can be casual, I’ve had it where it turned out, Well it turned out!
I’m terrible about this I do it all the time I have a boyfriend who I totally in love with. But I’ll do this sometimes or many times having to turn around and be a bitch because a guy doesn’t get I was just playing.
As a man I will make conscious effort to look at her eyes only, so she will not accuse me of looking at her breasts or other parts :)
Flirting is an Art ! It’s hot and you can say a lot without words...
Yeah and it can heat up really fast. It’s quite a challenge to hold somebody’s glance for too long esp. when it’s someone who turns you on. Every second stretches out: It’s one of the hottest psychological turn on ai can think of
When I am giving my boyfriend a bj I never break eye contact
It is technically by definition casual if you don't know the person. Because how can you be serious about someone you don't know?
YES. I gaze into people's eyes for lighthearted flirting.
well yes... sometimes when I do that I get a boner so it is surely a strong attraction
the first image she looks interested, the second image she looks angry.
I definitely think so. A girls eyes can be so seductive.
Some people like that but some people get creeped out also.
Lol what do you think
I think so. Yes
Its creepy.
It can be yes
It could be awkward if you dont do it properly
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