Lifeguard checking me out? What should I do? joys of a pool?

[icanbme]

I was at the pool I noticed a lifeguard checking me out. does that mean he think I looks good or was it just that I was in a bikini? would you guys like it if a girl you checked out starting talking to you?

[Levin]

You've just reminded me what the surprising benefit of going to the local swimming baths is. I may have to go again soon...

If he's looking at your body for prolonged periods, he finds you sexually attractive. He would have passed up on you if he didn't like your face.

Anyhow, to answer your question, I'm pretty sure most men would be delighted to find a woman who you find sexually attractive starts chatting to you. Usually the onus is on men to initiate something, and most (including me) wont, because I kind of figure that it's not really appropriate in those sorts of situations.

[Anonymous]

men would love a good looking girl to come up and talk to them, he obviouslly thought you were good looking too if he kept looking at you. If he din't find you attractive no reason to look.

[icanbme]

well I only caught him looking once, but once he saw me seeing him he made eye contact and smiled. still good sign?

[Opinion Owner]

yeah men and women flirt similar much of the time.I had girls look at me caught them they did the same thing smiling too. try talking to him next time he is around and off duty of course

[Baqir]

Yes it is a good sign

[shygirl16]

Late opinion I know, but Im going to give it anyway. As a lifeguard, we have to look at every single person in the pool every couple of seconds, and especially if there wasn't many people in the pool, that would account for the eye contact. While the lifeguard is on duty, eye contact/ seeing him look at you isn't enough. wait until he gets off duty and see if he is still checking you out. If he is, then he probably likes you, if he isn't, he was probably just doing his job well.

[Your_boss]

Men stare at women they are attracted to an average of 8 seconds. And if they are not attracted then an average of 4.
So next time, try to notice that

[chillywillyy]

He was checking you out, yes he would like if you talked to him BUT DONT DO IT WHILE HE IS ON STAND. just go up to him and say "hey id like to talk to you when you go on break" it will work i swear. (I know because I am and have been a lifeguard for a while) we are really into ourselves i promise it will work.

[ketfoen]

First of all, don't talk to life guards on duty, they are there for a reason and doing their job.

Yeah, of course we would like it.

[Baqir]

Yes i am a life guard for me i will like it u can take down my phone number can!!!

[FrancoBattiato]

Was probably making sure you weren't drowning

[icanbme]

considering I was walking around the pool I highly doubt that.

[FrancoBattiato]

Was probably just being extra careful.

ALSO - DONT chat up a lifeguard on duty, common sense.

[Anonymous]

you were cute and he thought so...so yeah...