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Yeah, I few years ago a school friend got in contact with me on Facebook, she'd recently had a baby but was single again and she said she needed to get out a bit more. We met for coffee in my lunch break a lot and just chatted as friends but she always initiated the arrangement of going out. One Friday night me and a few friends were going out to a private club near where she worked and I asked her if she like to get out for the evening and meet some new people. She was really excited and dripped her son off at her parents. We went out the the club and all had a great evening. It was very close to where she lived and she walked there to be able to have a drink, I walked her home as the area is a bit shady late at night. We got to her place and said she needed some coffee but was a little too drink to make it so I went in and made us both coffee. We sat and chatted for a good couple of hours just like old friends. Up until this point that is exactly what I thought we were, until she excused herself to go to the bathroom. When she came out she was completely naked and came and sat on my lap and started kissing me. I was shocked if not a little pleased to say the least.
We never actually dated but we didn't go out for coffee anymore if you know what I mean. I asked her about why she did it a few weeks later and she said that she'd had a crush on me and looked up to me for a little while and as it didn't look as if I was going to make a move she was going to.
Unfortunately it did spoil the friendship but it was fun.10 Reply
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+1 yMaybe just one. In high school was only 6' 1" and there was this very short and very chubby girl named, Janis who had very long red hair and kind of a scratchy voice. She wasn't very pretty, either. When she wrapped her arms around my waist, her mouth was level with my naval! One day, I was walking through the hall to my next class and she was coming the other way and, as soon as she saw me, she ran up to me, wrapped her arms tightly around me, professed her great love for me and refused to let me go! I appreciated the emotion but, I just wasn't into her at all!! (My heart still belonged to Emily Swank, whether she wanted it, or not!) I'm not sure I ever saw Janis again! I HAD seen her a number of times before that and kinda knew she wanted to make Sir Richad Longfellow stink but, I just wasn't interested in her at all!!
It was kinda like that old song by The Archies, "She (Janis) loves me, I love her (Emily) and she (Emily) loves somebody else (David).10 Reply
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yNot at all... I have actually never had a girl have a crush on me.
I can give you two interesting side stories that kind of are relationship based though?
The first one being that a girl that was dating my friend years ago, she was a bit scary because of how... not to try and be offensive, but she genuinely did seem crazy... so eventually he broke up with her and she started spamming me with messages that she wanted to meet up with just me, note this was about a week after they broke up, so it was either to get her ex boyfriends attention or because she was trying to get revenge, either way I eventually blocked the messages.
The second one is there was actually a guy who had a crush on me in my previous school that I never was aware about and the girl I had a crush on told me she couldn't believe I was the only one that didn't know 0_0 I guess I just never imagined him feeling that way about me, but I didn't feel that way about him anyways so I didn't bring the subject up since he didn't know I knew, I thought it would make it awkward for him.10 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yIn high school I had a girl that had a crush on me. The only way I found out was through her friends telling me. I laughed it off because I was still new in the relationship game. While anyways we would do a lot of group hangs and she would also stare and show me some random kpop stuff. It was official with she kissed my cheek out of nowhere in the middle of the halls during lunch hours. The conversation in the boys locker room quickly changed.
10 ReplyIt's really hard to tell when any girls have crush on you coz... Girls gives mixed kinda signals.. and for guys it's hard to catch... it. Yes a guy will get it but observe one thing... he will most of the times will Confused that a girl likes him or not? I would be also... eager to know the story...😅
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+1 yI have had many. Mostly 21 year old women. Some were nuts and some weren't. Some were some what attractive but none were knock outs. Two were really tall for females. One drunk too much. One was just too loud. One was just too immature. One was too forward. One was younger than 21. A couple were crazy. One smelled like moth balls and I could not stand the smell. My first girlfriend later on got really fat. One had too many past sex partners. She always talked about oral sex and how good she was.
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+1 yI use to have a crush on this girl in 10th grade but she was a psycho and I didn't date her. Couple years later my friend told me she somewhat liked me and one of my other friends who we didn't like her because she was a serious cutter (please get help if you're a cutter).
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yIm unsure of if a girl is crushing on me and honestly dont care. I mean i am literally unsure, meaning I won't take a chance and 'harass' a girl who is just acting like she likes me
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Opinion Owner+1 yThe most obvious case of a girl crushing on me was about three years ago. I think she was mental by how she was acting and I wasn't particularly attracted to her anyway
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u +1 yhmm, maybe... but not sure I'd post them here openly
01 Reply 537 opinions shared on Flirting topic. One girl was so obsessed she would text nonstop and call if I didn't answer even though I said I'd call her when im not busy. And she claimed she wanted an over the phone relationship...
10 Reply440 opinions shared on Flirting topic. Nope...
No girl have every crushed on me..
I am too ugly.. And look like a chimpanzee07 Reply- +1 y
So, whose picture is that in your prrofile?
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@FunkyMonkee who do you think?
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It certainly ain't a chimp! You sell yourself short! My ex-fiance's sister used to be married to a guy the looked like you! The reason she divorced him was because he was too lazy! Instead of doing house work while she was in college or working he just wanted to sit around and watch action movies all day!
I've seen guys MUCH uglier than you get girlfriends, married and kids!! - +1 y
@FunkyMonkee
🤔 Well..
I just had a late afternoon meal...
I just finished cleaning the kitchen.. So when my mom returns from her job.. She just has to cook and not clean the mess my brothers and father did in kitchen while cooking this afternoon..
My yesterday Sunday evening went in oil painting.. The bathroom metal doors.. They were getting rusty..
My days goes in working on myself and listening music.. And doing house chores.. Don't have time to slide into DM and rejected by every other girl.. Probably the reason I am single..
Besides the Question is about crushing!..
Which never happened!..
My wisdom tooth in left jaw has made my whole red cheek sore and burning.. Took a painkiller in morning.. It's effect seems wearing off now..
Well my coffee just finished writing this..
Going back to working on my digital art.. Before the tooth pain takes over and making it impossible to move my fucking jaw without pain and also make my neck a little sore!..
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Kinda sounds like my life, these days except for the chores part. Not many chores around here and no family to deal with, anymore.
Sounds like maybe you should have that tooth yanked. I hear we really don't even need wisdom teeth anymore which is why they're so painful. Since we don't need them, our jaws are no longer big enough to accommodate them. - +1 y
@FunkyMonkee I choose to keep those tooth..
It's a little pain for today..
Happens for 3-4 days every month..
We don't need wisdom Tooth because we learned cooking..
But it's can be beneficial if I cross age of 70..
And my teeth start to fall..
I will still have a good set... in the back jaw to chew stuff..
I did wanted to remove them..
But my dad said don't do it..
And my dentist friend also said..
"Removal can cure pain..
But your tooth are coming in correct shape.. They aren't going oblige... So you don't need removal..
Besides.. I find them useful In breaking food stuff that's too hard for my incisors and canine..
Like if I have to break a bone in the meat diet.. Etc. - +1 y
Well, it's up too you.
+1 yNo not really. But uhh, why would someone continuously tap you every time they walk by?
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+1 yI prefer not to say. The woman was crazy.
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+1 yYou go,. girl.
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+1 yI guess.
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