Is it possible that this guy at work likes me?

[Anonymous]

There is a guy at work I felt was “rude” because he would never greet me or barley look my way. But then a few weeks later, of all sudden he comes up to me and asks to borrow something of mine I said ok and he leans into me so so fricken close like he was just millimeters away from me, I was so surprised he got all close when he haven’t even looked my way. Then he comes up to me again and does the exact same thing! He comes by and asks if I’m doing well and also wants to know what my plans are for this year. Now I catch him staring at me a lot and he is super nice to me. I don’t get it where did this come from? And why did he make an excuse to get so close to me? It’s risky in my opinion, he really saw his chance and took it.

[Anonymous]

With covid and all that going on I wouldn’t be letting some dude at work be millimeters from my face lol even without covid I want my personal space respected. As to if he like you, I’m not sure, he could just be trying to be nice now if he’s realizing that he’s been rude to you. I wouldn’t dig into that though, office romances are never a good idea.

[Asker]

You are right.. I just feel it was odd though bevause he had to bend down and leaned into my chest/boobs, felt a bit sexual to me tbh.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, crush or not he’d have to back up. I feel like that says a lot about his personality in general, he’s probably be very handsy and that’s never a good time. Maybe draw a line of boundaries that he needs to respect, like not getting all in your space or cleavage just to ask about the weather lol not exactly that but you get the gist.

[cloudspy]

Yeah, he obviously fancies you. Getting into your personal space without you giving him signs you are interested is a bit of a no-no for me personally though.

[Asker]

Yeah I was chocked! Like really.