Why Would A Stranger Think It's Okay To Inappropriately Touch Someone? (Page 2)

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So, the other day after work, stopped off at the casino... Wasn't there long when went out to have a cigarette, went and sat on a bench already occupied by a lady. Wasn't even sitting there but a minute when a guy comes up and says "scoot over"(think he followed me outside, saw him check me out in the casino) Even though scooted over, he sat waaay too close to me. Then he says "Know why I wanted to sit next to you" (duh, yeah I did) Said no to which he said "you were supposed to say why" then he gets up and says I'll be right back, don't go nowhere (wtf) when he left I scooted away from the lady sitting there, then he comes back out so I scooted way over so he wouldn't sit too close again... And he puts his arm around me and grabs my hip (hand was half on hip, half on butt) to pull me close to him... WTF uhh back the fuck up buddy, which is exactly what I said to him.. I got up without finishing my cigarette and said I was going back in and have a good night... He followed me in and said or I could let him take me out... He wasn't bad looking, but after being too bold and handsy, that was a hell no, but I was still polite and just said no thanks... And before some asshat says it was probably the way I was dressed🙄🤦I was wearing joggers and a shirt that don't show any cleavage, any make up had on sweated off at work lol... The point is, look, flirt, but don't put hands on someone you don't even know and think that's okay or acceptable.

JosyJosy · Answer

I can't give a good answer besides, because they're douchebags, selfish and/or weren't raised right to know right from wrong. And if they KNOW it's wrong they deserve everything coming to them

Dvchill · Answer

Well stop being a woman dam-it 😂😜 sounds like u handled your self quite well fantastic! And he thought he could do that cause mommy and daddy didn’t teach him respect or personal space when he was a little guy

fr44c3iqqs · Answer

They probably like to go after their ego, think that there is a chance of someone liking it (by which in rare cases, someone will, but it’s not an excuse to do that), or think that the way they see each other supposedly indicate interest or like that they are going to be into them.

Medhat-M · Answer

This made me angry... Yeah there are creeps like that... They're usually in places like that and they usually go for women who are alone and seem like they're too nice to make a scene... Sorry you've been through that... stay safe

DWornock · Answer

That is sexual harassments. Tell him to follow you inside. Once inside and in a crowd say, "If you want more give me $250." You can negotiate down to $100. After he gives you the money say, "That's my charge for sexually harassing me. Goodbye." and walk away. If he attempts to stop you scream loudly, "Leave me alone you creep." He will want to hide and will leave with his tail between his legs. In the extremely unlikely event, he doesn't, other men will quickly come to you assistance and he will be arrested.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Lots of reasons.  Maybe he/she wasn’t conditioned in the same way as you growing up or perhaps he/she red the social situation incorrectly.

NathanDavis · Answer

they are not "thinking" they're being impulsive, weaker than their urges 'cause they're messed up

Andres77 · Answer

Sorry... I don't know why anyone would feel okay with just feeling up a stranger as appropriate. Sorry you have to put up with that shit. Not justifying it but was he already drunk?

SweetTay · Answer

If a guy is rude like that it's probably because he is dumb and can't take hints.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Yeah there's confidence and boldness then there's this creepy guy lol

IAMNathanael · Answer

Gees, I guess some guys are even more bold than johnny bravo and have no respect for personal space

JoyGirl · Answer

Maybe it is a sign that you haven’t lost your looks. 😅 Either way, gross.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Cause there assholes! I mean think about it for a second I don't think its appropriate for me to walk up and touch a strangers hand so you know they have to be crazy to think they can walk up and touch your private parts

dreamstar72 · Answer

You should have drop your cigarette in his lap as your got up. Then say oops sorry

pinaypixie · Answer

Maybe they just weren’t raised right. Haha that’s def it

exitseven · Answer

It is only appropriate if you are the President or the Governor of New York.

loveslongnails · Answer

Oooh... joggers and a shirt with NO cleavage ? Damn girl, you were asking for it !! I'm soooooo excited right now. Let's go for a smoke !! :-D

Hulk30 · Answer

well this goes into the whole deal of gettin sexual with women verbally and especially physically before a connection is made which is socially awkward

Jjcatt · Answer

When he got up and said I’ll b right back don’t go anywhere that was your cue to go to the manager and complain, the guy is a creep, unfortunately I know guys like this and they think women are objects, next time don’t let a guy have an opportunity to take advantage

douride2 · Answer

The nerve of some people. If some stranger tried that with me he would have gotten smacked or worse.

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