Why Would A Stranger Think It's Okay To Inappropriately Touch Someone?
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This story makes me angry for purely selfish reasons.
There are so manny people like this guy in the world that they mess up the standard. Now when I sit next to a woman on the bus or train of anywhere public she will take a defensive position even though I didn't even look at her let alone touch, and I can't blame her because creeps like this are everywhere and no one is willing to take a chance.
Anywho, you don't have to describe what you were wearing, you could have been in a bikini for all anyone is concerned no one has the right to take it as a sign to grope you
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That's how I feel about strangers touching the belly of pregnant women. But taking it further. Or people who don't acknowledge you and attempt to touch your dog without asking or your dog going up to them for attention.
It's like there are certain terms for code of conduct. If a dog comes up to you okay you can pet them. If you come up to them and dog us friendly, say hello to their person and ask.
If a woman is pregnant and you want to touch the belly. Say hello and ask before doing lol. Basic shit
Same happened with me in the bus. I had taken the bus and immediately sat next to a man because it was the only empty seat close to the door. He started to look at me and then slowly put his hand on my lap and squeezed it a bit. I was like wtf and moved away. He then did it again, so I said "can you put your hands off me?". He said "okay" and stopped. Then when I dropped off the bus, he dropped at the same time as me. I thought he was gonna follow me but luckily that didn't happen. I kept an eye on him in case he'd be after me but thankfully he took another route.
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Guys Do that Nonsense. One evening we were out clubbing. So i had a tight mini dress on and my one friend also had a super tight dress on. Eventually we needed to get some fresh air, so we stood outside and this 2 guys came there walked behind us and both grabbed my skirt and lifted it up and over my head and literally Ran with it. I stood there, high heels. A red low G-string and braless. So my friend tried to cover me. Another guy came past and Spanked me. I started running to the car wich was luckily not that far.
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Those joggers need to be banned LOL
Not sure why guys do this stuff. It's not appropriate with someone you don't know. Has always baffled me. - 1.2K opinions shared on Flirting topic. u
He was probably under the influence.
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Do not violate personal space escially if I don't know you and if I do know you then you know homie don't play that..
The audacity of some people. Now if you would have slapped the snot out of his ass you would be wrong.
I'm on my way to airport fuck this show me what he looks like we are going back to casino.. and wait till I lose a couple hundred and I'm good and irritated before we look for the dead man walking..
Sometime you have to let a mother fucker know that
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I'm sorry that happened.
No boundaries? No brain? Read one too many PUA books? This is something of a mystery to me why some men catcall, send unsolicited dick pics, respect no boundaries, etc. Just on a pure rational level, can't they understand how stupid it is? When in the history of humanity going all the way back to mitochondrial Eve has that EVER worked? -
A guy did this to my ex girlfriend,
he thought it would be okay to touch her let and squeeze it as he chatted to her.
he came to on his back on the floor of the pub.
he threatened assault and pretty much every person in the bar said she defended herself from being assaulted.
never try that on a girl in her local and definitely not when she is a kickboxing etc instructor lol. -
Wow. Well, at least he wasn't one of those freaks who pull this at the job. I am not saying it is appropriate, but we have guys here who think the job is the perfect place for pulling this kind of stunt.
Anyway, the explanation is, this move has probably worked for him before. Simply bullying a woman into giving it up. I have seen guys pull this. And they think it will work with every woman. -
I'm sorry that happened to you, I hope you are feeling a bit better now.
To answer the question, it's because those people don't understand what being educated, functional members of society means... or more bluntly, they are creeps. You don't touch strangers, simple and clear cut. - 1K opinions shared on Flirting topic.
I agree with you it's wrong for a person to touch someone inappropriate this Summer at our local amusement park, this man was on this rolly coaster ride and he was in a seat near these two teen girls who were wearing shorts but he grabbed them but thankfully he was caught and he was arrested... Yes no person should touch someone cause it's wrong
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Well a lot of men aren't much smarter than a retarded jellyfish. This method of getting to know a pretty woman has a 0% success rate. But many guys keep at it anyway, like the people banging on tree trunks in the woods trying to get Bigfoot to come out and he never does.
Glad you got away okay. - 377 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
Just goes to show you the dangers of smoking! loL (sorry, couldn't resist).
I guess this one goes under "bad-ass determination". :- )
( I just can't figure out why he had to get up and return. )
Of course, you were right to give him the straight arm in response to his tackle on you.
I guess he missed that day in kindergarten when they taught manners. He needs to learn to respect brains and beauty. -
I can't stand reading this. Some guys think they are gods gift to the world and feel they have the right to do this. That is truly pathetic I am sorry you had to go through this. We aren't all like this but they're a lot of them that feel entitled. Guy needs to get a life
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An odd story that contains naughtiness by miss brains muffins 😄
That's what happens when the sponge goes without her king, anyways i can't believe how much daring some people are, showing such impolitness to a mature lady...
He's lucky that the sponge wasn't with me cause i'd like to have his hand on my hip too 😈 but sadly it will always remain there and he will leave with no hand 🤚🏻🗡
After that i'll bit the spongy forehead so i recharge the energy that i lost 😂 -
He's probably read some crap online about how girls love confident guys. There's probably an article written by some self proclaimed pick up artist that teaches that technique.
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I hate being touched, when I take public transit to doctors appointments I try to always stand because every time I sit in a seat, someone always has to be right against me even when I move closer to the window, they always move closer and it bothers me so much. An the only reason I don't drive to doctors appointments is so I don't have to pay for parking, or a cab.
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That is messed up! He should not have touched you like that. One day I saw this gorgeous thick thighed big booty gal jogging in short shorts. I looked but I didn’t touch. Why? Because I don’t violate females. I am glad you stood your ground in a respectful manner. How old was this dude? He should know better.
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there's seems to be people out there these days with real boundary issues. he is a self entitled moron that feels there will be no consequences for his actions cause he has probably done it countless times before and got away with it
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Mega creepaziod!
You are NEVER allowed to touch someone without their consent. A woman skilled in martial arts would have been perfectly justified in knocking him out with an elbow to the face or grabbing his hand and breaking his thumb or wrist. - 514 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
That is so fucked up, I would never even think of doing that. Entitlement? Objectification? I have no idea what runs through those guys minds. Sorry that happened to you, sounds like you handled it well.
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It sounds like he's a Trump voter. The same type of arrogant crap as "that" open mic recording.
Sexist, misogynistic, choose whatever word you want. It's bordering on sexual assault. Technically it was actual assault as he touched you in a way you didn't invite.
Next time apply your knee to his nuts. Twice so he recognises the first time wasn't an accident. -
They know it's not okay - they just don't care about the consequences (or haven't faced severe enough ones).
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