Why do women think it’s okay to sexually assault men?

[Anonymous]

Last night I was once again sexually assaulted by an older woman. We were at a bar and this stranger approaches me, looks at me, and runs her her fingers up my cock through my pants. This is not the first time this kind of incident has happened to me. I was so pissed I pushed her away and she had the audacity to get mad at me. To top it off, only my male friend seemed to give a fuck. The girls who came with us thought it was funny. I doubt they’d find it funny if the roles were reversed.

I know that many women would disavow the actions of the older woman who assaulted me, but my general experience is that there is almost an “it serves you right” attitude, as if I deserve to be punished for the actions of the asshole men they’ve encountered in the past. Am I delusional or have others noticed this?

Yes, this is a pattern I’ve noticed

No, you are imagining things

[Rosexøxø]

I haven’t done this. I think that is a perception you developed as a result, and I can say, personally, I don’t know a handful of women who ever say-

“Serve you right.”

It’s not in their eyes, their demeanor, their spirit, their dialogues, nor their behavior.

It’s really not in mine, at all, either.

You mentioning this just makes me want to do it and hope for the best scenario 😂

I want to ask her

”well was it good?”

lmfao

but light hearted jokes aside, I do apologize to you, especially in an era where people are less community-oriented, gender preferences are varied, and morals and ideologies are evolved.

I personally, aside from this, would never go up to any stranger and randomly do that.

It was even out of character lol there was no logical flirting or chemistry.

She’s a momma who forgot how to play the game lol

[Asker]

Response analysis:

You are joking about it, just like the other girls did, and making excuses for the offender.

You clearly don’t give a fuck about it so your apology means nothing

[Rosexøxø]

When I joke it’s a light hearted ness with guys. I laugh when people seriously mess things up like trip on a curb or choke on spit.

I also laugh at adorable things.

I perceived you as nothing but adorable- even by any slight possibility of you being gay.

I respected your preference and I don’t actually have a solution for you then to maybe call the police or show her some pepper spray if she comes up to you.

If people can handle for some made up zombie apocalypse surely we can all be well-set for instances like this one.

For a man I’m telling you it’s easier to avoid this.

Show her a pepper spray if she comes near you and tell her you’ll most definitely use it.

Recognize that men get verbally bashed for hands on activity and could get jailed for that.

There’s invisible cuffs on the use of hands and fists in social settings-

There is no legal red tape on pepper spray.

Better to have someone laugh at you when you defended yourself with finesse and have a nice drink than to have them laugh when you’ve been upset.

You can see me however you like by the way. Without knowing you- I’d never touch you if we didn’t have chemistry.

I’m the least of your worries.

[Asker]

And now you’re questioning my sexuality. If a man doesn’t like being sexually assaulted by a woman he’s gay. I’m an “adorable gay”

You condescending bitch. Eat shit. My “preference” is for sexual activity to be consensual. That is the basic level of respect I expect from people.

You’re unbelievable. Cold bitch begone

[Rosexøxø]

Lmaoooo adorable in another sense… raging it’s like what? Huh? 😭😂

I hope you get better and heal man

No words you in particular to swing at me would offend me.

It’s just all gonna be vacant words lol but I’ll leave my opinion as is. Still applicable, and I recommend if you DO have an account on here to block me on it so you and I won’t interact again.

As always- best to you! 😂😭😂

[tzdc21]

Just ignore this girl. She's part of the problem.

[Rosexøxø]

@tzdc21 you’re just looking to be offended and support another guy so you must be gay because in this case it’s support reaffirming having something against women in particular. Any other case and it wouldn’t matter

[Rosexøxø]

You’re blocked too instead of hating on a females supportive and realistic opinions you can just invite yourself to his DMs

Stop making a spectacle of yourself. Certainly doesn’t affect me.

I’m happily married :]

Ciao

[Msputiton]

I don't do that, and it is not acceptable for anyone to make any kind of sexual actions to anyone without consent

[Asker]

You’re one of the good ones

[D_Bone_Steak]

I've voted this is a noticeable pattern. I've had chicks kiss me out of nowhere, grab my cock, my ass, etc. The only person that seems to get mad about it is my wife. It's kinda funny seeing my wife act like she actually would fight someone. She doesn't have that kind of fight in her.

But to be real... I would go to jail if I acted like most of these chicks do. Just WTF has this absurd feminism created? This is a world where I stopped wearing a wedding ring just to avoid having random women sexually molest me. They'll leave more alone just as long as I look like a single guy.

[Summeroflove]

Call the cops next time

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Summeroflove For what... so the cops will laugh at me and tell me how lucky I am? Let's be real... South Park made a joke about it when the little boy was getting molested by his kindergarten teacher. Society holds some major double standards, and sure calling the cops about that would literally be some court shit if I was a female and it was males... but the double standards. I'm classified as lucky and should be grateful. The only thing that knocks any sense into some people about the subject is showing I'm a woman's property (because I'm married) and someone is molesting her property... then it's all huff and puff and something that should be taken seriously.

Cops would not do shit for me... they might for my wife though.

[Summeroflove]

She will be arrested or at least changed if you pursue it.

[Summeroflove]

I have seen women arrested for this

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Summeroflove Perhaps in one on one settings... like where you know her name type stuff. In clubs, and on the streets... or even in my job in the military where the people are just passing through, it makes no sense to even try.

You're going to get stopped at "who is she?" "You know her name?" ... and stuff like that. In a perfect world maybe... but sorry I'm calling bullshit on this being a viable strategy of dealing with so many numerous amounts of females that act that way and get away with it on the regular. Plus you're going to be stomped by any peacekeeper when they question if it really hurt you.

Like I said before, my wife might be able to play that card... me, I'll get a slap on the back and told how awesome it was and how I should stop complaining.

[Summeroflove]

It’s why people get away with it yes. Better to report ir especially when know who ir was

[TheSpaceGnome]

I've noticed it often enough to be on guard when out. If infectious diseases didn't exist I wouldn't be bothered by it, but I don't wanna catch something. The double standard is very much real regarding the legal and social consequences of sexual harrassment.

[Asker]

For me it’s about respect and boundaries. We hadn’t exchanged a single word.

[Thatpearl26]

I actually have noticed this in society. For some reason most of the women I’ve met believe that men can never be assaulted. What kind of belief is that? I mean both genders get assaulted and they should both be treated with sympathy. When a women gets assaulted they are immediately helped and the man is reported. When a man gets assaulted they are a joke no one believes them because the so called “big stronger man” should have seen it coming or things like that. This is absolutely disgraceful that people think like that. If people believe that the man should have defended himself or say “he wanted it”. It’s exactly like blaming a women for being raped when she was only walking home. Also I automatically agree with your serves them right hypothesis. Many women who I used to be friends with believed they should punish all men for what one did to them. Also I hope no one does that again to you, you don’t deserve to have to go through that. Hope you have a better experience down the road!

[Asker]

This would be MHO if g@g didn’t have that stupid auto select option

[Anonymous]

Girls are taught all about giving consent, but not getting consent. Many grow up with everything being about their feelings and their safety.

It's the complete opposite for boys. Boys are taught to always be careful how they act around girls and to protect them.

[Asker]

Good point

[Opinion Owner]

I remember working my first job at a Mcdonald's and a female coworker would be very grabby with me. Sometime later I found out other male co-workers had similar complaints.

I never reported it, and I don't believe anyone else did either and that's on us... but the fact that she felt comfortable enough to sexually assault her male coworkers on camera with no fear of consequence is very telling.

I don't want this to seem like I'm basing women. Many women would never behave this way. But for many other women, their creepy behavior doesn't register as "creepy" to them.

[Asker]

What pisses me off is the part where even though most women wouldn’t do this themselves, many women seem to find it funny and will call you gay if you complain about it. Someone in this comments section has made an excellent example of this already

[Opinion Owner]

And you being pissed off is justified. The good women will agree.

[tzdc21]

Seems like you need to find new friends, and next time a girl does that to you, whip out your phone and record her ass, so that you have proof when/if she tries to make a false allegation towards you, OR if you wanna call the police on her. But you're absolutely right, if the roles were reversed, they would not be laughing at all. But nobody gives a damn about men anymore today.

[Kaneki05]

Because women and men are the same. They both like to downplay sexual assault towards the other sex.
Women: "He's a guy though so he wanted it."
Men: "She must've been asking for it."
If one thinks there is a difference here they are simply the promotors of sexual assaults.

[Summeroflove]

People male or female sexually assault. Because they learned they can get away with it until they’re caught.

Call the police and file a report. People don’t report sexual assaults and some even enjoy it. Until someone puts a STOP to it

[NamerOfStars]

Because women get empathy, rather than respect. They consequently think "he's a man; they always want it" and "it doesn't matter if I do it, because I'm a woman". And society backs them up; think Mary Kay LeTourneau.

[Summeroflove]

Men also get away with sexual assault. Because many times they do it many times before caught

[NamerOfStars]

@Summeroflove That's possible, but concealing your crimes and getting caught but going unpunished aren't the same thing.

[Summeroflove]

You’re right about that. You would be surprised though with Soros DA’s and judges how many male offenders are let off with a slap on the wrist too.

[Summeroflove]

Even if they claim to care. Just assume it’s bullshit. Actually look at the cases online.

[Guy13]

Women and Gay men in my case... Try that on for size although both were ass grabs and not letting go which is not as bad as your situation.

[Asker]

Getting grabbed by a dude is worse in my opinion especially because then I’d have no excuse not to punch and that never leads anywhere good

[Guy13]

I was with a big girl who is a friend. Interpreted as lesbian. It got worse as they demanded to see my gown pictures etc in my wallet and NO... then demanded them from her and NO... then they backed off and as we were passing the grab. Fortunately, I can handle stupid and am pretty laid back. NO dick grabbing ever though.

[Anonymous]

Another one for the g@g "it never happened" file.

[LiamJHayden]

Yes. In my experience it is a small percentage of women who do this, but there is definitely a double standard.

[Asker]

Yes very few women do this, but many women show 0 empathy and actually seem to find it quite humorous when a woman does do this

[LimitedBenefits101]

Because society accepts women to behave that way.

[Asker]

Well I fkn don’t

[LimitedBenefits101]

No man does, nothing we can do about it, as u can see some chick already questioning your sexuality, there's no win for us men

[Asker]

Yeah the cunt reported me too