Why has he gone quiet?

[love41]

So..I've had like 7 dates with this guy..was going OK...I met his football team mates, his parents and his two best mates on Sunday. I stayed the night Sunday and left him Monday morning. Then...nothing...I Haven't heard a thing from him since and its now Wednesday. I'm so confused. I waited for his 'usual' text on Monday night but then nothing came. So I thought perhaps he was just giving it a day's cooling off or something. But then Tuesday passed and still nothing. I know I could of text him, but I know from experience when a guy goes quiet then its for a reason. I don't want to feel rejected. Please guys, could someone give me an insight into why this has happened? I like him loads, and I've never thought about anyone this much - and its because I like him, that I can't bring myself to contact him! And now I'm thinking, have I left it too late..or have we 'both' left it too late?

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forgot to mention...Sunday wasn't the first time we had slept together so it can't be because all he was after was sex

[BlackBear18]

Okay calm down. It's only been two days. I don't think he has rejected you. I think that maybe you should contact him first especially since you like him a lot. If you do this and then he doesn't respond then he is definitely avoiding you for some reason. Then again you can always wait for him to contact you but then you won't have any peace of mind if he doesn't contact you in the next 2 days. If I were you I would just contact him just to make sure that he isn't avoiding you. I hope my advice can help you and best of luck with this guy!

[love41]

Thank you - but I am already getting the impression that he is avoiding me, as I would of heard from him by now. It's almost like the writing is on the wall! I just don't understand. Surely a guy would introduce a girl to his parents if he wasn't into her! Very odd! I went out for dinner with his two best mates too!

[BlackBear18]

Did you two get into some type of argument or have a fight? That could be a possible reason. I'm going to have to say that you might have to be the more mature person and contact him first. If he replies back to you in time then it looks as though that he cares about you in a romantic way. If he doesn't reply back to you then he might have just used you for sex and a little companionship.

[love41]

nope we didn't argue or anything. I'm totally confused! I just have this anxious feeling. Its horrible.

[Anonymous]

talk to him, its not like you instantly contacted him so go ahead show him that you like him.

that would work on me, but I'm kind of an romantic anyway