Girls, How do you pick up a guy at the bar or club?

[Anonymous]

Do you ever get a little touchy when flirting? Are you trying to turn him on?

[purplepoppy]

With ease. Even if a guy isn't going out on the pull, deep down he's still open to the opportunity. Most guys know porn isn't real and walking up to a girl asking for a fuck is going to turn bad real quick no matter how confident you are. What you have to do is give him a reason to approach. Take an interest in a photo on a wall and he's got a reason to come make a comment. Or better still make an observation about him, can you conclude anything from his appearence, clothes. accent?

[Asker]

How do you get from a casual conversation to showing him you have interesting in hooking up?

[purplepoppy]

I'd start with simply smiling so he knows I'm happy to chat then gradually increase the flirting. Something subtle like "what sport you play?" Suggests you've noticed this physique. Then its a case of bouncing off each other until the intention is clear

[Asker]

Do you ever get touchy when flirting? Or do u wait til after you leave?

[purplepoppy]

You have to touch, and be prepared to be touched

[Asker]

Is it better for the guy of girl to initiate it?

[purplepoppy]

She through her body language and conversation makes it clear it's ok to ask.

[Asker]

In my situation, she comment about how muscular my arms were and then put her hand on my thigh, which caused me to get a Hardon. I she didn’t say anything though

[purplepoppy]

So whats the problem. She's just showing she's interested

[Asker]

Im not sure if the Hardon surprised her

[HOAAH]

I have never tried to pick up a guy from the bar or club. Usually a guy will try to dance with me and talk to me. Or at the bar one time with my coworkers, this guy randomly bought me drinks that i did not drink.

[Asker]

What does it may when a girl puts her hand on a guys thigh?

[HOAAH]

She obviously is flirting.

[Asker]

Would you be weirded out if a guy got an erection in that situation?

[HOAAH]

A guy had an erection one time while dancing with me at the clubs.
then a week or two later, he drowned and died.

[15_Debo]

I don't know but I'm happy to scroll through the opinions
cause not old enough to go...

[Hangry06]

Grab him by the crotch

[Asker]

Haha how does he usually react?

[Buterflybaby]

Omg. Trouble maker

[Hangry06]

They explode like a volcano 🌋

[Asker]

You’re jerking them off?

[NicoletteXO]

I don't. That's his job.

[Buterflybaby]

Not sure not old enough to go yet.

[Subarugirl]

I don't

[Anonymous]

I don’t have to they flock to me.