How to pick up a girl at a nightclub?

[ManOnFire]

Okay so I've never done this before lol. I've only ever been to bars and not really to pick anybody up, but I want to try going to a night club mostly just to see if you really can do it lol. Any tips?

[romeo_and_cats]

We are in the same boat. Actually I don't like nightclubs but this year I'm going every night now and I still approaching girls outside or bars but funny enough was much more easy to kiss girls inside with the loud music and craziness. What I do: be yourself dance for YOU, move all around the place while dancing and don't look to the girls eyes! If u do this they gonna start approximate you and open the circles (if u live in Europe girls dance in close circles and groups with friends). then immediately approach them without excitation. Nothing happens OK. Something happens OK. Kiss her quickly, jump this trash talk. People go in nightclub for 1 dance 2 get fun. Other thing is move around hug girls, touch say hi and kiss. Have a good vibrances!

[ManOnFire]

Great!!! Thanks!

[Anonymous]

Yea, don't bother, too risky. False accusations, sexual harassment. There have even been cases where a guy was only saved by CCTV showing the interaction.

Back in the day, I used to approach girls in night clubs, but no way in hell would I waste my time nowadays. Clubs are designed for women to feed of attention from men, and for men to waste their time buying drinks, and paying more to get in It's a scam.

[Prof_Don]

I only buy a woman a drink, if she seems receptive to me chatting with her for a few mins.

[ManOnFire]

You have a point.

[Prof_Don]

Don't want to be a broke fool at the club! :-P

[Opinion Owner]

This is probably a rare case, but then who knows, and the question one should ask themselves is, is it worth it? www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...r-USC-student-rape.html

I think it's better to meet women through activities, friends, more naturally. Clubs just attract drugs, fights, and most people are too wasted or high. It's not a place that empowers.

[Anonymous]

If you don't want to approach her straight away, then dance near her and try to exchange a few glances, read her body language to see if she is interested (if she smiles at you), or moves away and things like that.
If she doesn't avoid you try approach her by introducing yourself, and ask where she's from. It's an easy way to get someone to talk to you, then you can explore other topics.

[ManOnFire]

Awesome.

[Partywithtom]

Don't do this. You'll over think it and probably blow it. It's for sure good at determining interest. But my guess is you'll over think it.

Make eye contact if she holds it for any reasonable amount of time it's an invite to flirt. Go immediately. Even if it wasn't who cares. You've now started conversation

[Opinion Owner]

Either way, just make sure she feels comfortable :)
Also no pressure, but being funny (in an appropriate manner) helps, this is based on my encounters with people and witnessing successful encounters.
Definitely not crucial but if you can pull it off go for it :)

[Partywithtom]

True that.^ OO I like to try to embarrass myself immediately cause then I can't go anywhere but up. Laughing about it eases tension and turns off her" OMG here comes this tool to hit on me " shield.

[Opinion Owner]

It's exactly that!
Just good chill vibes haha

[Izumiblu]

Step 1: go to night club
Step 2: Find girl that is small enough for you to lift
Step 3: Brace yourself as needed to support girl
Step 4: grasp girl firmly with both hands
Step 5: lift

Congratulations! You just picked up your first girl at a night club

Alternately if you can't find one small enough use team lift strategy.

[Aleeus419]

Lmao

[ThunderBasketball]

I was going to recommend a crane but I think your method works better

[peachblossomluck]

Most women I know wouldn't be trying to meet a guy at a club. When we go, we just want to dance with our friends and have a laugh. When some creepy guy tries to bug us, I throw a huge cockblock because I'm the one not drinking.

[ManOnFire]

They're not trying to meet guys, true. But usually if the guy appeals to them in some way a woman will end up with him. Even some of the guys here have the experience, and so do my male friends in RL.

[MasterSirMaster]

Seriously?

OK... it's really easy!

DON'T GO THERE TO PICK UP GIRLS!!! Just go, have fun with your mates, and ignore the women. You need to sincerely, deep in your innermost soul, NOT GIVE A SHIT about women.

Don't buy them drinks, don't approach them, Don't go near them. Just have a good time. When you make eye contact with them, look them right in the eyes until they look away and when they look back at you, turn your back on them and forget all about them.

Don't worry. You do that, and they'll be coming to you. Oh and make sure you DO NOT KISS THEIR ASS!!! and the hotter the women the more she'll be wondering what wrong with her that you're not looking at her anymore.

[Partywithtom]

The not give a fuck mindset is 100% correct. Some of this of disagree with partially. Go to have fun if you're having fun and dancing or whatever women feed off it. If you're having fun in an interaction they are.

Also women tend to give shitty picking up women advice by the way

[Dme500]

I got a homeboy who is the exact opposite of good looking and when we hit the club i was chasing tail and got no love. He was dancing and kicking back and made out with 2 chicks and got a third girls number.

Needless to say im just gonna enjoy myself at the club from now on.

[ManOnFire]

@Dme500 Wow. I've heard about guys like those too.

[Prof_Don]

The key is to be FUN! A nightclub is no time to flex how strong your intellect or academia expertise is.

Make her laugh! Be playful about asking her how long it took to pick her outfit, ask what her favorite vodka flavor is, how you know that he didn't come with a man tonight and that she came to meet you...
...
... just be fun dammit!

Only move into physical flirtation, if she seems receptive to you talking to her. Randomly touching a woman in a flirty way when you JUST start talking to her, is creepy a f.

[MackFreeze]

Don't waste time having sex with random people, have self respect for yourself and respect for others bro.

[ManOnFire]

True, I know. Lol.

[fashionguy17]

Before I had a girlfriend, I used to pick up women effortlessly. However, club women were a whole different animal.

-If you want to be judged solely on your looks, then go attempt to talk to club women.

-Women in clubs stay mostly in groups, so good luck at trying to have a one on one conversation with the girl you choose. Chances are her friends will cock block you before you can even talk to her.

-They will most likely ignore you, especially if they aren't interested.

[ManOnFire]

Hmmm. Discouraging. But if you could pull it off, couldn't I?

[ManOnFire]

Where did you pick up women effortlessly? Maybe that's the trick.

[fashionguy17]

Lol. I never pulled it off. And besides... club girls are a waste of time. I used to pick up women in bookstores, bars, fitness classes at gym, grocery store, mall, just walking down the street in the city. Also... believe it or not... if you just want a quick hook up... go to a strip club late at night (you have to go an hour or 2 before the club closes). I've picked up a few strippers before.

[ManOnFire]

Wowwww. So then maybe I'm already on track with the rest, like you were saying about grocery stores, etc. Maybe I'm not putting in enough effort. Strip clubs might be interesting.

[Anonymous]

firstly dress well, wear a open collared shirt, jeans and boots and a nice watch. act confident and then select a hot chick (the hottest ones are usually in heels). buy her a drink, chat to her and take her home where she will suck your c**k

[ATuairiscean]

You are asking wrong person here - I couldn't flirt my way out of a wet paper bag - I would say be yourself and don't over think it.

[youngatyeart]

Don't be afraid to go dance unless you are a great conversationalist.

[ManOnFire]

Thanks, man!

[youngatyeart]

Good luck and 1 more bit of advice: if you approach 100 girls and strike out 99 times but luck out with the 1 girls, it's a great night!

[romeo_and_cats]

Great advice! I would add: what matters it is not the girls you get but the 99 who gave you experience!

[youngatyeart]

@romeo_and_cats You got it Bro!

[normalice]

dance, if they dance back follow them to the bar and get them a drink. talk. walk them home.

[Snuga2Allie]

Lift with your back instead of your legs. Lmao. Just be normal and fun.

[Omar5881]

When I lift them with my back I usually end up in jail

[Omar5881]

Or at bed depends really

[Snuga2Allie]

@Omar5881 Jail? Handcuffs sound fun right now.

[Omar5881]

Not when you're in an Arab jail

[Omar5881]

There's some " get me my soap shit "

[Snuga2Allie]

@Omar5881 I like that too. Have you ever dropped the soap?

[Omar5881]

No I have grabbed the soap

[Omar5881]

It's better with lube tho

[Omar5881]

Ok that's too much I am gonna go flog my Muslim ass

[Snuga2Allie]

@Omar5881 Lmao. What's Muslim lube? Sand? That's hardcore.

[Omar5881]

No it's goat milk... ok

[Snuga2Allie]

@Omar5881 Goat milk sounds nice. Does it have a lot of protein in it?

[Omar5881]

Ayyy got some gainzzz but shitty fats

[Partywithtom]

Walk over to woman of choice. Make eye contact, squat at a 45 degree angle and then wrap your arms around her just underneath her buttocks as she says "what the fuck are you doing?" Say " Don't mind me I'm just picking up women in the club". Then lift her over your shoulder and carry her out.

If you do it confidently it'll work.

If you do anything confidently it'll work.

[Anonymous]

Just don't do that especially since people are being falsely accused of rape after a drunken night.

It's too risky.

[JuanFrank7]

Well I don't think the club is the best place to find love, soooo

[davelopez619]

I just have never bothered, I played my show with my band hung out and went home. I was tired, studio to run and restaurant too

[bella1617]

I don't have idea. as seen to tv you'll know pick up girls at club. they will talk to you at bars.. Lol

[Actress78]

Push them on the ground and then pick them up, simple.

[harry191919]

I'm wondering if someone did this to you.

[Anonymous]

Get on the dance floor. It is easier at bars though where you can actually have a conversation. Most women know that men at clubs are creeps wanting one nighters so most won't fck with them.

[Humbledman74006]

Look. for a wedding ring

[ManOnFire]

Also a good point.

[Crazyb33]

Act shy

[CT_CD]

Chloroform