Do you ever feel you’re being tested to see if you pass or fail?

[Anonymous]

Like man when I finally found someone I really like and profess our feels for eachother, then three guys i really really used to like are popping up showing interest. Why does this always happen 😭 I failed last time because the guy i really liked was moving too slow so i got sexual with someone else I also was starting to like. I dont want to do that this time around. I want to stay strong but at the same time there's obstacles that keep me from being with this guy. And it makes the other options start to appeal 😔 #WhyMe

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[Anonymous]

Thats always gonna happen. Relationships should be like fine wine, they get better with age. Just stick through it and work things out and so you can grow with the relationship

[Asker]

If he and i were already official, i wouldn't be asking this. But what we have has been building up for months. And we finally talked it over and could see potential. But distance sets us apart. Im trying not to become official while the distance withstands. But i definitely want to keep growing with him

[Opinion Owner]

That can be tough. Long distance is hard

[Asker]

I've done it before. A lot actually. But im scared to do it again

[Opinion Owner]

Especially if you haven't met them. People might not value it as much and just be lonely

[Asker]

But I've been getting to know him for months. I just didn't realize how much we had in common because i was always looking elsewhere. But he's literally the male equivalent to myself. I think we’re on the same page but we both rather take it slow until he can come here for work