Have you ever had a secret admirer? (Page 2)
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not sure... if i did then they kept it secret lol...
haha
Okay, if I have a secret admirer, wouldn't that be a secret and I never found about it? As far as I know my parents hate me and only mosquitoes and bugs annoyingly wants to be near me. So no, I think not
I have no idea. The fact it was secret, wouldn't that mean I didn't know about it?
Not necessarily
I find it immensely flattering to know someone finds me attractive even if they don't feel comfortable approaching me.
I can't understand how people find it anything but, unless they don't want to be attractive to someone.
Nope
I should probably be happy about it, as I imagine it's probably scary and awkward, but I can't help wondering if I'm ugly and guys are never interested in me
Girl, stop!! No, absolutely not! You are not ugly
You're a very kind person
I wish this was true lol
Perhaps.
But I do know that I have had a few craaaaazy women chase me around and even follow me home (no, I am not making this up).
Damn thats wild
And kinda creepy of them, ngl
I not telling, its too weird to explain. Let's just say its messed up.
Dang, sorry about that
Yes. But mostly it was just that we were friends and he had feelings for me. He never wrote letters and left them to me or anything like that. It wasn’t creepy in this case.
In my high school on Valentine’s Day for that year they let the kids give Anonymous Gifts to other students and I got chocolate and a love letter. I didn’t know who it was until later.
Once or twice that I know of... since they are secret I'm sure most of them I never knew about.
When younger I had girls I liked that I never told.
Found out at our 50th HS reunion that this one gal had a crush on me - who knew?
Wow, thats cool
Yeah surprising, too. She was a hottie (sort of), but I was rather nerdy at that point!
Ain't nothing wrong with being nerdy :)
I just never thought she would have thought of me as someone she'd want to date. And she still looked pretty darn nice at around 67-68 years old.
Hahah, well, guess you were wrong. You are your own worst critic. People are often too harsh on themselves :)
Yup- we are. This is one of those times that I would not have minded if she took over and asked me out!
Hahah thats great! :)
Never have and i guess secret admirer is a new term of stalker maybe lol
Lol.. a stalker is kinda worse with all the creepy messages and stuff, but i guess both are sorta the same haha
I really admire you, wait that is not a secret anymore.
Well in uni i go with my first and last name. No one knows my middle name at all. A guy texted me on facebook were i use my first and middle name so that in itself freaked me out cause I don't know how he found my account. He told me he goes to my uni and he wanted to say hi. Then he said if i ever see you on campus can i say hi? Lmaoooo i was terrified but i said yes say hi cause i wanna know who it is.
That was me yo, just kidding
Many people have admired me. Some of them never got back to me though.
Hahaha
This was before the internet even existed. Passing notes in high school and finding out you have a secret admirer was hot.
Now it’s viewed upon as creepy. Is our society really going down the tubes?
I had one back in high school, he used to follow me around. He even got my number some how
Dang, thats creepy asf
Usually in those situations a guy will ask a girl who’s friends with the girl he’s crushing on. In high school people don’t think so they just do shit vicariously without thought.
I had one in first grade, another in second grade, and yet another in third grade. Thats it until I was 16 and then my last one was when i was 22.
Yes, on here. Some guy confessed he has a crush on me on one of my questions but he went anon so I don't know who he is. I felt very flattered. ☺️
Yeah, i know two that confessed.
Booze really brings it out.
One was really suicidal so it gets hard to deal with such, there wasn't anything creepy about it tho, both were civil.
Yeah, giving her the slightest bit of attention made her my stalker for several years...
Oh my gosh, stalker? Hope she’s left you alone now
Funny thing was that her own female friends had to tell her that another girl was interested in me. That made her leave me alone.